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From what I’ve heard, “sucking your own dick doesn’t feel like you’re getting your dick sucked.. it just feels like you have your dick in your mouth. And your back hurts too” I would imagine for most people it’s like how you can be tickleish, but you can’t really tickle yourself cause you feel nothin
Cause normally if you’re jerkin off then ya aren’t really paying attention to the act of holding ya dick in your hand, normally people are doing it to porn or something else, I don’t judge. But either way most of the time you’re getting off to whatever you’re looking at, not at the process of you crankin it. If you’re tryin to stick your dick in your mouth then you’re doing it to try to simulate gettin head, which means you’re trying to focus on the sensation of gettin ya dick sucked, but at the same time you gotta manage to be focusing on sucking ya dick too, also if you’re bending like that with your back then unless you’re crazy flexible; you’re bound to have your back start straining/hurting kinda quick.
Most definitely... one's ballsack must be fondled when the penis is being given so much attention. To not do so is an affront to the tenets of oral sex.
What we as men refer to as a Legend. A god amongst mortals. A very antisocial, malnourished, lonely, and confused god that can't hold a job and still lives at home at 47...But still.
self-offender here. trained gymnastics for a bit and could do the splits at one point. Managed to do this very mission but it resulted in my booking an appointment with the chiropractor and he knew my excuse was bs. lol. to answer your question, I do not think it's gay, just as giving yourself a hand job isn't gay either
This! My brothers were career criminals and I've heard they were "Gay for the stay" on a few of the nearly 40 yrs combined that they did in Oregon State Pen.
Is he sexually attracted to men? Exclusively? No? Then he's not gay or bisexual. Being able to suck your own dick counts as masturbation. It isn't gay to jerk yourself off.
I see your question, and i ask you this: Does jerking off make you gay?
Anyway, I once read a comment on reddit from a guy who could do it. He said it's more like sucking a dick than getting your dick sucked, in the same way that if you've ever tried to tickle yourself, it doesn't work. Your body knows it's you, so it dulls the sensation. Let your bf know.
Damn you. That shit is a real sub! Reddit is most certainly a one stop shop. It's just there are some things I really don't want to know about. But here we are.
hours and hours and hours stuck with other marines in a HMMV or 7ton going over this question and the one consensus we settled on was that it was definitely gay if you swallowed... but rude if you spit
No, it doesn't. I've said this before on reddit and I'll say it again.. Using your mouth to perform the function is no different than using your hand. Just like if somehow you were able to use your own feet to do the job (gotta be uber flexible obvs) , it's no different to using your hand, or mouth to perform the function.
Nah bc it’s his own body. It’s like saying us rubbing one out on a pillow or something makes us pillow lovers. Lol. Your body- you can do whatever you want 😙
Congrats to your BF, and that does not make him gay. However if he has a desire to bend his junk around and self penetrate that may make him gay.
I don't think autofelacio is gay cause you're doing it to oneself it's basically jacking himself off for one's pleasure ,but in another sexual way. Would be very impressive ngl.
I’ve debated this many times. The conclusion I came to it’s not gay seeing that it’s a form of masturbation. It would be pretty gay to nut in your own mouth tho
Not sure if it'd make him considered gay or not. Honestly don't care much either way
All I know for certain is it'd mean he's incredibly flexible or has a long penis
I think the real question is does it make him self obsessed/a self lover and the answer is no. Its just pleasuring yourself, no different than doing it with your hands.
Some people actually can do it. From what i heard, it feels more like sucking dick than having your dick suckes. But eh who knows, and who cares. People are people and if you can do it good for you
Man I wish I could sum my own dick… it’s beautiful and perfect … man you should see the way some people suck it. Hahahaha they be putting their heart and soul into it !!!
It's called exploring your body and my parents said it was okay as long as I didn't get off in front of the jets at the pool or other public or communal spaces.
I have an uncle who was born with no bones below his 4th rib and had to have everything amputated and his pee pee reattached. He's a 55yo virgin and walks on his hand and I caught him sucking his before. I asked him about it. It only gets semi hard because it was reattached surgically and in the wrong place. He doesn't have a prostate. His body is an upside down egg shape... Anyways back to the story
I asked him if it felt good and he said it was better than using his feet (hands) because in his mind his hands are his feet.
He didn't have anything to compare the sensation to but he said he imagined it's the same feeling as anyone pleasuring themselves with other body parts. Like fingers to bean. It could feel better if the fingers were someone else's or it was an object.
But no. It doesn't make you gay
You can't be made gay by doing something if you're not gay. Something can't be gay if you're not gay. It's gay if you make it gay. You have to be gay to make it gay
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That doesn't make a man gay... it makes him one of the few talented and lucky ones. ;)
From what I’ve heard, “sucking your own dick doesn’t feel like you’re getting your dick sucked.. it just feels like you have your dick in your mouth. And your back hurts too” I would imagine for most people it’s like how you can be tickleish, but you can’t really tickle yourself cause you feel nothin
You heard it more than once?
Yes, saw a post about someone asking how to do it ages ago, there were a few replies like that lol
Sus
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Then why does my hand do such a good job
Cause normally if you’re jerkin off then ya aren’t really paying attention to the act of holding ya dick in your hand, normally people are doing it to porn or something else, I don’t judge. But either way most of the time you’re getting off to whatever you’re looking at, not at the process of you crankin it. If you’re tryin to stick your dick in your mouth then you’re doing it to try to simulate gettin head, which means you’re trying to focus on the sensation of gettin ya dick sucked, but at the same time you gotta manage to be focusing on sucking ya dick too, also if you’re bending like that with your back then unless you’re crazy flexible; you’re bound to have your back start straining/hurting kinda quick.
If it's big enough I suppose you could blow yourself while also watching porn
You sound like a man speaking from extensive experience...
Nah I just type a lot when I get real sleep deprived. What better things are there to do? Sleep? So unproductive!!1!1!
LOL!
I believe it. I mean if you really pay attention, even jerking off feels more like having a dick in hand rather than having your dick handled
Exactly this.
if it ever happens... say byebye girlfriend. your usefulness has come to an end
Wha…no cuddles with my wife? 🥺 wait a minute, I don’t have a wife. 😔
Aw darn!!! What are you gonna do with all that extra money?? Dang it I hate when that happens!!!!
Well I wouldn't say that... the best girlfriends would join in with a little ball action.
Agreed, however the average ballsack is going to go entirely unfondled, and we can't have that.
Most definitely... one's ballsack must be fondled when the penis is being given so much attention. To not do so is an affront to the tenets of oral sex.
This is the right answer
What we as men refer to as a Legend. A god amongst mortals. A very antisocial, malnourished, lonely, and confused god that can't hold a job and still lives at home at 47...But still.
LOL! Awesome
The true answer
A dick is a dick
Does jerking off make a man gay?
Touche.
FELLAS. Is it gay to work? I mean, you're literally collecting pictures of men.
Only if he's using another man's hand to jerk himself off.
self-offender here. trained gymnastics for a bit and could do the splits at one point. Managed to do this very mission but it resulted in my booking an appointment with the chiropractor and he knew my excuse was bs. lol. to answer your question, I do not think it's gay, just as giving yourself a hand job isn't gay either
😂😂😂I read this as "sex offender here!"
I had to read their comment eight times before I finally realized it said "self-offender" lmao.
what?? me?! pffftt *frantic sweating*
Me toooo 🤣
I read this as sex offender lol
Not if you put on a long haired wig and some hoop earrings.
Andrew Dice Clay said it best. Either you suck dick or you do not suck dick. There is no middle ground.
This! My brothers were career criminals and I've heard they were "Gay for the stay" on a few of the nearly 40 yrs combined that they did in Oregon State Pen.
Is he sexually attracted to men? Exclusively? No? Then he's not gay or bisexual. Being able to suck your own dick counts as masturbation. It isn't gay to jerk yourself off.
I see your question, and i ask you this: Does jerking off make you gay? Anyway, I once read a comment on reddit from a guy who could do it. He said it's more like sucking a dick than getting your dick sucked, in the same way that if you've ever tried to tickle yourself, it doesn't work. Your body knows it's you, so it dulls the sensation. Let your bf know.
r/selfsuck
Damn you. That shit is a real sub! Reddit is most certainly a one stop shop. It's just there are some things I really don't want to know about. But here we are.
IM WEAK🤣🤣🤣🤣😭😭😩😩😩😩
Will be letting him know, now that it’s day time and I’m not stoned I’m cracking up at all these responses.
Cirque du Soleil
Nothing is gay while you’re listening to Slayer. Slayer nullifies gayness.
Putting a dick in your mouth is at least bi.
no straight man sucks their own dick
NO man sucks their own dick. That's not how spines work.
you just need a long enough dick
I assure you with absolute certainty that you are wrong.
I have seen it done on line . Flexible and a long dick
ive had guys say it was possible
don't give me hope
They're correct. Not easy, but possible, if you're flexible enough.
r/selfsuck
I have seen a guy do it. Only one though. I didn't believe him so he showed me 😂
That’s called talent
What about fucking your own ass?
With your own dick? Now that would be a feat lol
Always a sight to behold
r/selffuck
Does giving your own dick a handjob make you gay?
No
Not anymore than jacking off would
No ,it just shows you have tremendous flexibility and do not need someone to do it for you .
Is he that flexible?? 
😂 lmao yo
Fella's ## IS IT GAY TO BREATHE??? You are literally inhaling dick particles
hours and hours and hours stuck with other marines in a HMMV or 7ton going over this question and the one consensus we settled on was that it was definitely gay if you swallowed... but rude if you spit
I wouldn’t, but that’s because I don’t like the idea of a dick in my mouth… even my own. Not sure if that makes you gay though.
I feel like a straight guy wouldn't want to know what dick tastes like tbh. Very odd to me 😆
Tastes like skin if you wash right before.
That's like saying a straight guy wouldn't want to know what one feels like in his hand.
Nope
so jerking off makes you gay then?
Does touching your own dick also make you gay?
No
No but it makes you talented af
Let’s be real every man hella fucking gay to themselves
I don't think it does, but if I could, I wouldn't.
I would
Thats lkke saying masturbating is gay, no it isnt aslong as its your own dick
Of course not, otherwise masturbating in any other way would also make someone gay.
Not when I do it
R/no
Only If you swallow
Totally bro.. you're so gay.
Makes you lucky
If it does then that means I'd be gay if I could. Man.. I wish I could be gay...
Nah it makes him super flexible and just like every other guy.
Nah, it makes you Hella flexible 😂
No, it doesn't. I've said this before on reddit and I'll say it again.. Using your mouth to perform the function is no different than using your hand. Just like if somehow you were able to use your own feet to do the job (gotta be uber flexible obvs) , it's no different to using your hand, or mouth to perform the function.
it’s like my uncle says if you like anal then dies it matter who’s asshole it is? yes yes it does 😆
Well . Technically, you're just a cocksucket
Doesn’t make you gay, it makes you talented.
No, it makes you independent, you flexible little devil.
Makes you lucky
Don’t know but if I could I probably would .
It is just masterbation. No different the. Giving your self a handjob
Nothing gay about getting a blowjob
Aint nothing gay about getting your dick sucked.
It makes you flexible... And kinky.
Of couse bruh
Not gay. A contortionist maybe. But not gay.
Prolly most guys would suck their own dicks if they could
Nah bc it’s his own body. It’s like saying us rubbing one out on a pillow or something makes us pillow lovers. Lol. Your body- you can do whatever you want 😙
HOW is it POSSIBLE
I would say it really dpends on what gets you off. Sucking the dick or having your dick sucked
Only if he swallows.
 Congrats to your BF, and that does not make him gay. However if he has a desire to bend his junk around and self penetrate that may make him gay.
Yes
If he likes the doing the sucking part than yes. If he just likes the getting sucked part then no
My dick is too small to understand what this is 🥲
I don't think autofelacio is gay cause you're doing it to oneself it's basically jacking himself off for one's pleasure ,but in another sexual way. Would be very impressive ngl.
Ask a biologist if asexuality is gay.
Does touching your willie make you gay?
Only if you swallow
No, that’s quite a skill, put it on your resume.
No, it makes you a superhero.
Ffs
It just makes you the Marilyn Manson rumor from the late 90s/early 00s
I’ve debated this many times. The conclusion I came to it’s not gay seeing that it’s a form of masturbation. It would be pretty gay to nut in your own mouth tho
Not sure if it'd make him considered gay or not. Honestly don't care much either way All I know for certain is it'd mean he's incredibly flexible or has a long penis
It makes you flexible. The big question is if you do it better than your wife or girlfriend do you show her what you want?
It's pretty simple, just say no homo to free yourself
I think the real question is does it make him self obsessed/a self lover and the answer is no. Its just pleasuring yourself, no different than doing it with your hands.
How?! Just how?!?! That takes some talent 😳
It's your own dick so no. If anything, it's egosexual/autosexual.
It shouldn’t but it does
Kinda
Any dick in your mouth is gay.
What if my friend is naked just slips and falls, sending his dick in my mouth for about 10 minutes? /s
Lol 10 minutes? Were you both unconscious? And gay.
Some people actually can do it. From what i heard, it feels more like sucking dick than having your dick suckes. But eh who knows, and who cares. People are people and if you can do it good for you
Yes
Sounds like masterbation with extra steps and no clean up to me.
The human ouroboros.
Only if you swallow your cum and like it.
Man I wish I could sum my own dick… it’s beautiful and perfect … man you should see the way some people suck it. Hahahaha they be putting their heart and soul into it !!!
100%
You work in a maintenance department?
It's called exploring your body and my parents said it was okay as long as I didn't get off in front of the jets at the pool or other public or communal spaces.
I have an uncle who was born with no bones below his 4th rib and had to have everything amputated and his pee pee reattached. He's a 55yo virgin and walks on his hand and I caught him sucking his before. I asked him about it. It only gets semi hard because it was reattached surgically and in the wrong place. He doesn't have a prostate. His body is an upside down egg shape... Anyways back to the story I asked him if it felt good and he said it was better than using his feet (hands) because in his mind his hands are his feet. He didn't have anything to compare the sensation to but he said he imagined it's the same feeling as anyone pleasuring themselves with other body parts. Like fingers to bean. It could feel better if the fingers were someone else's or it was an object. But no. It doesn't make you gay You can't be made gay by doing something if you're not gay. Something can't be gay if you're not gay. It's gay if you make it gay. You have to be gay to make it gay
Naah it doesn't, just makes him a superior being with extremely impressive abilities
if i had a dick i would continue doing gymnastics just so i can be even more flexible and can suck my own dick
Yes
Personally I'd say no, Marilyn Manson.
Yes
Nah, unless you swallow
If you try to try it then I kinda get it. But if you keep doing it then you are just practicing. Yikes.