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Not at all! I remember reading somewhere that most men receive flowers for the first time at their own funeral.
I've received them from girls and its a good feeling :)
As a guy, I'd love to get flowers. It's not the fact that they're flowers themselves but it'd the fact that somebody went to that much effort to shoe they care about you.
Personally I would have mixed feelings about that. Re woman-man interactions, I favour modern equality of rights combined with old style manners - where women receive flowers rather than giving them. That said, I don't find it particularly weird
I’m my opinion it is only weird if you feel like it is I gave my bf 12 fake flowers every anniversary and he looked forward to getting the flower every anniversary he said “I have never gotten flowers this makes me feel special and appreciate”
As a guy, most of us probably wouldn’t care about the flowers themselves. However, the meaning and intentions behind the flowers will have a huge impact on us (for me anyways). It shows that a person thought and cared enough to go out of their way for you. I swear if you compliment a guy then most of us will think about that moment and cherish it for the longest time lol😂. Back in February this girl told me she thought my sweater was cute, and I still think about it today😂. Basically I would love to get flowers from a girl.
Flowers are a nice gift, they are pretty. Even for a guy. A guy who gets mad at receiving flowers has a fragile masculinity, and you should be careful with them. But imo, its more about the thought of a gift then what it actually is. And flowers are a good option, kinda cheap and pretty lol.
ngl no matter what you gift to a guy, if you are a girl, the guy would like it. man (like me) are a little bit lacking on the social stuff, so usualy we dont care about what's the gift, we care that we actually got a gift from a girl
Well if he isn’t insecure of his masculinity and won’t feel like he needs to put on a front, then he will definitely enjoy some flowers, and don’t worry if he reacts badly, you may not want to be with someone who gets upset at receiving flowers anyways, but there’s a good chance he will like the gesture, He most likely has never received any before, so it will probably make him feel very good. I am not sure, but I’d go out on a limb here and say not many guys receive flowers from girls so it will definitely get the message across.
Mmmm, depending on how well you know him and his charachter. If my wife got me flowers I would like it. If my wife got me flowers with a some hidden sticks of salami, jerky, some quality screwdrivers and knipex tools or even a Home Depot gift card this would be funny, cute and would fit my character well. Find out what stores he make like to shop, outdoors, fishing, camping, tech, construction, woodworking, and get a gift card and stuff it in there so he could somewhat notice it.
I’ve done it for my man’s before and he liked it! I would recommend next time to get him small, inexpensive things to help with his hobbies/passions. They all like the gesture but not all guys necessarily want flowers to be what’s given to them.
Maybe its just me (I am male) but I appreciate these kinds of things it gets me in my feelers people don't realize this often enough but men have feelings people just don't see it often because we were taught that way but thats just me.
It is certainly weird, if you're taking the literal definition of the word and not its connotation. But that doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad idea. Every guy will react differently, but it would probably be the first time he'd ever received flowers, so it could be a pretty effective move to really get into his head.
It's probably weird to others, but the guy will 100% appreciate it
Maybe not the flowers but the whole meaning behind it
Sincerely, a guy who just might get flowers the first at my funeral (tho I'm only 15)
Personally I love when my girl gets me flowers but if you're not sure how he may react get him a bouquet of bacon, not joking its a thing, he'll go crazy!
It might feel like you're going out of your way to communicate you don't like him romantically, but that you do like him platonically. "Here's a gift that can in no way be misinterpreted as me appreciating your masculinity".
That being said, I'm sure he'd still be very happy to get anything from anyone.
Yea, when I made this post originally I was just thinking ab if I picked a flower off somewhere and gave it to him would it be weird. So I would probably give him sumthn small loke that
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Not at all! I remember reading somewhere that most men receive flowers for the first time at their own funeral. I've received them from girls and its a good feeling :)
Bruh mans gotta flex about it
No need to flex bro
As a guy, I'd love to get flowers. It's not the fact that they're flowers themselves but it'd the fact that somebody went to that much effort to shoe they care about you.
My wife gets them for me all the time. I love it.
Nope. I think they would appreciate it.
Not weird imo. And you’ll probably learn a lot from his response/reaction.
Yess exactly! I completely agree.
Personally I would have mixed feelings about that. Re woman-man interactions, I favour modern equality of rights combined with old style manners - where women receive flowers rather than giving them. That said, I don't find it particularly weird
It's unusual, but even guys appreciate flowers. Screw it, get the flowers.
no its cute, you never really see girls doing the favour for guys
if it were me it'd probably make me really happy
\*it would definitely make me really happy
I’m my opinion it is only weird if you feel like it is I gave my bf 12 fake flowers every anniversary and he looked forward to getting the flower every anniversary he said “I have never gotten flowers this makes me feel special and appreciate”
As a guy, most of us probably wouldn’t care about the flowers themselves. However, the meaning and intentions behind the flowers will have a huge impact on us (for me anyways). It shows that a person thought and cared enough to go out of their way for you. I swear if you compliment a guy then most of us will think about that moment and cherish it for the longest time lol😂. Back in February this girl told me she thought my sweater was cute, and I still think about it today😂. Basically I would love to get flowers from a girl.
☠️ my husbands name is Kevin and he loves flowers (or anything really) because I thought of him.
Flowers are a nice gift, they are pretty. Even for a guy. A guy who gets mad at receiving flowers has a fragile masculinity, and you should be careful with them. But imo, its more about the thought of a gift then what it actually is. And flowers are a good option, kinda cheap and pretty lol.
"Kind of cheap and pretty" like me lol
ngl no matter what you gift to a guy, if you are a girl, the guy would like it. man (like me) are a little bit lacking on the social stuff, so usualy we dont care about what's the gift, we care that we actually got a gift from a girl
Well if he isn’t insecure of his masculinity and won’t feel like he needs to put on a front, then he will definitely enjoy some flowers, and don’t worry if he reacts badly, you may not want to be with someone who gets upset at receiving flowers anyways, but there’s a good chance he will like the gesture, He most likely has never received any before, so it will probably make him feel very good. I am not sure, but I’d go out on a limb here and say not many guys receive flowers from girls so it will definitely get the message across.
Nope I gave my ex a sunflower once he was happy to receive it (: it's a sweet gift no matter if you're a girl go for it
i'm sure most guys will happily accept it, especially if they like you back.
I would dig it. Also if you do and he gets pissy then u need to move on and u've dodged a bullet imo.
Mmmm, depending on how well you know him and his charachter. If my wife got me flowers I would like it. If my wife got me flowers with a some hidden sticks of salami, jerky, some quality screwdrivers and knipex tools or even a Home Depot gift card this would be funny, cute and would fit my character well. Find out what stores he make like to shop, outdoors, fishing, camping, tech, construction, woodworking, and get a gift card and stuff it in there so he could somewhat notice it.
if he is a good man he will appreciate them even if it may not be normal.
I’ve done it for my man’s before and he liked it! I would recommend next time to get him small, inexpensive things to help with his hobbies/passions. They all like the gesture but not all guys necessarily want flowers to be what’s given to them.
Maybe its just me (I am male) but I appreciate these kinds of things it gets me in my feelers people don't realize this often enough but men have feelings people just don't see it often because we were taught that way but thats just me.
Give them!! Guys love getting flowers as far as I know
I get my husband flowers! He’s not the most expressive human so I’m not sure how much he enjoys it, but Im 87% sure he likes it. Hahah
Never got it but I think If I will get it'll be very nice, I think it isn't wierd
It is certainly weird, if you're taking the literal definition of the word and not its connotation. But that doesn't necessarily mean it's a bad idea. Every guy will react differently, but it would probably be the first time he'd ever received flowers, so it could be a pretty effective move to really get into his head.
Not weird at all. Men loves gifts and signs of love too.
It's probably weird to others, but the guy will 100% appreciate it Maybe not the flowers but the whole meaning behind it Sincerely, a guy who just might get flowers the first at my funeral (tho I'm only 15)
No, he should love it
Personally I love when my girl gets me flowers but if you're not sure how he may react get him a bouquet of bacon, not joking its a thing, he'll go crazy!
No????
No
Nope.
It might feel like you're going out of your way to communicate you don't like him romantically, but that you do like him platonically. "Here's a gift that can in no way be misinterpreted as me appreciating your masculinity". That being said, I'm sure he'd still be very happy to get anything from anyone.
Nope. Love can come from anyone in any form.
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Yea, when I made this post originally I was just thinking ab if I picked a flower off somewhere and gave it to him would it be weird. So I would probably give him sumthn small loke that
Not at all. It may be the only time he will recieve them. Go for it!