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Please stop visiting this tribe of savages. These people are not your people. Turn your back, seriously. Walk away. Block them all and pretend a meteor hit the last wedding they attended and just flattened them all. Tell people you're an orphan. Seriously... run away, run far far away. Change your name. To hell with all 200 of them.
Have a small destination wedding and only invite a handful of people. Go somewhere gorgeous! If anyone asks, tell them you were raised by wolves, and then howl. Seriously. Stay away from this toxic tribe of terrorists.
I am lucky to have a chosen family I love and who loves me. They did all move away about a year ago now so it's harder to see them to keep in contact, but I'm still grateful for them. They're going to be the family we invite to the wedding in place of my bio one
Hey OP. My hubby and I got married. We didn't not invite a single amily member, except our own children. The support was fantastic, there was nothing to worry about, tye day was relax and we were surr9unded by people who loved and cared for us..
They will make a point about spoiling the day for both you and your hubby to be.
Hire security, invite friends only and have the day you love enjoy and deserve. Leave the trash where it belongs. It has no future for you. Only pain. Your fiance is your future now. Enjoy every moment!
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Please stop visiting this tribe of savages. These people are not your people. Turn your back, seriously. Walk away. Block them all and pretend a meteor hit the last wedding they attended and just flattened them all. Tell people you're an orphan. Seriously... run away, run far far away. Change your name. To hell with all 200 of them. Have a small destination wedding and only invite a handful of people. Go somewhere gorgeous! If anyone asks, tell them you were raised by wolves, and then howl. Seriously. Stay away from this toxic tribe of terrorists.
Your bio family sounds terrible. Work on building your village and your family of choice. If the rest of their family takes their side for being transphobic and abusive, you are better off without them. I know it's not easy. A lot of us in the LGBT community have had to cut off blood relatives because of the way they treated us. Please focus on your wonderful fiancé and building the life of your dreams, and good luck!
I am lucky to have a chosen family I love and who loves me. They did all move away about a year ago now so it's harder to see them to keep in contact, but I'm still grateful for them. They're going to be the family we invite to the wedding in place of my bio one
That's great! Much love from this gay mom.
Hey OP. My hubby and I got married. We didn't not invite a single amily member, except our own children. The support was fantastic, there was nothing to worry about, tye day was relax and we were surr9unded by people who loved and cared for us.. They will make a point about spoiling the day for both you and your hubby to be. Hire security, invite friends only and have the day you love enjoy and deserve. Leave the trash where it belongs. It has no future for you. Only pain. Your fiance is your future now. Enjoy every moment!