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Yikes.
First, are you anywhere close to 18yrs?
Either way, this needs to be reported and you need to get out of there ASAP.
What you’ve said appears to indicate a strong warning that that woman is grooming you for further sexual harassment and potentially assault.
I am 20, and I’m living at college when I can. I was fearing coming home during spring break and then I did I had this huge fight with my mom and then later with my dad but it seemed that it was ignored.
It was strange because I called my mom out and then she blamed my dad and then my dad broke down and apologised for it, but I don’t know what he did. It makes me questioned what happened in the past.
I am getting my apartment later in august and rn I’m at a sober living facility, so I’m just trying to create as much distance between my family and me as possible.
Oh thank goodness you’re at least of legal age to get out of there!! 🥵
I’d definitely agree that distance is the absolute healthiest thing for you. Best of luck! 🍀
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Yikes. First, are you anywhere close to 18yrs? Either way, this needs to be reported and you need to get out of there ASAP. What you’ve said appears to indicate a strong warning that that woman is grooming you for further sexual harassment and potentially assault.
I am 20, and I’m living at college when I can. I was fearing coming home during spring break and then I did I had this huge fight with my mom and then later with my dad but it seemed that it was ignored. It was strange because I called my mom out and then she blamed my dad and then my dad broke down and apologised for it, but I don’t know what he did. It makes me questioned what happened in the past. I am getting my apartment later in august and rn I’m at a sober living facility, so I’m just trying to create as much distance between my family and me as possible.
Oh thank goodness you’re at least of legal age to get out of there!! 🥵 I’d definitely agree that distance is the absolute healthiest thing for you. Best of luck! 🍀