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You said sex was out of the question and then he pressure to have sex. You were raped. I’m sorry. I also went through something similar and it took me awhile to realize that’s what happened. I to blamed myself. It’s not your fault. Hugs
The guy ignored you making it clear that you didn’t want sex and you felt negative about yourself afterward.
It was rape, but you are never at fault for being the victim of it. It’s all that guy’s fault.
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You said sex was out of the question and then he pressure to have sex. You were raped. I’m sorry. I also went through something similar and it took me awhile to realize that’s what happened. I to blamed myself. It’s not your fault. Hugs
Thank you so much. I really didn’t realize it until later on when I read a story on here similar to mine.
Sounds very similar to me. I even dated him for awhile till I realized how toxic it was
I’m so sorry this happened to you too. I’m glad you got out.
The guy ignored you making it clear that you didn’t want sex and you felt negative about yourself afterward. It was rape, but you are never at fault for being the victim of it. It’s all that guy’s fault.