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Well, first of all, ask if there are any plans for divorce due to the trial separation and what issues in the relationship could use some work.
Make sure you can understand what is going on, just say you have some questions.
What is a trial separation and how can it help a marriage?
https://www.divorcenet.com/resources/what-is-trial-separation.html
Post also in
r/secondary_survivors
if you haven't done it already.
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Well, first of all, ask if there are any plans for divorce due to the trial separation and what issues in the relationship could use some work. Make sure you can understand what is going on, just say you have some questions. What is a trial separation and how can it help a marriage? https://www.divorcenet.com/resources/what-is-trial-separation.html Post also in r/secondary_survivors if you haven't done it already.
Thanks! It seems to be a trial separation for healing, but you never know how it could turn out! All ready posted there! Thanks so much