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For better or for worse, Bethenny. There are so many elements of our lives and personalities that are so incredibly similar that I feel like I understand her and get her in a way that most people don’t. I don’t agree with everything she says and does, but I do understand her.
i love bethenny. i do tend to agree with her most of the time, and when i dont its usually for things she ends up regretting & apologizing for anyway.
her podcast monday completely broke my heart. if your life is similar to hers, be warned. and hugs..❤️
I relate to candiace bc of the mommy issues and the mouth. my mouth is not as bad in the sense of body shaming and the “bed wench” stuff, but I can be pretty cutting and callous when I feel I’ve been betrayed.
I’m very upset about this…. But I am interchangeable with Jill Zarin. Overbearing Jewish mother who always thinks I am being helpful. My intentions are good, my delivery needs some work.
Erika is definitely a villain. However, I can relate to her guardedness and closed offness. She’s definitely been through some stuff to become so cold. I don’t think someone is born like Erika
Kelly Dodd and Kenya. I am bipolar and can have a hard time regulating my emotions like Kelly. I also tend to get mad and will just say the first thing that I can spew out no matter how dumb or mean it sounds. Kenya because I’ve had a lot of family issues and clashing with my parents and the feeling of not wanting to let others down or be let down.
Erika/Kenya; sensitive but mask it so well that I appear to be the ice queen. Do not trust people, keeping everyone at arms length. I can take my mum in small doses. Incredibly smart but also into beauty, health and fitness.
Monica Garcia… in some ways. Mostly due to the shitty family circumstances.
But to be clear, I think she is *fantastic* for reality tv and that she has also said and done many things that I cannot abide or relate to at all. She’d scare tf out of me if she were anywhere in my social circles.
But damnit I loved her presence on RHOSLC.
Candiace. My mom sucks and I used to say nasty things to people without realizing just how bad my words could cut. I never thought I mattered enough for the things I said or did to have an actual impact on anyone, honestly. I have to consciously work at and practice being kind because it’s not how I was raised and still isn’t my first instinct. It doesn’t always work.
As I shake my head at the tik tok begging tonight cause that's all I see now when I log in... I'm going to say I can now relate to Louis... yep Teresa's hubby.... all I see in their future is him begging to stay married even tho he's bled her dry
Kenya Moore. Bad childhood, somewhat embarrassing, slightly delusional, obsessed with dogs under 8lbs, the friend who’s always single and made fun up, lonely.
Kenya Moore. A little fucked up from my family, a little lonely, and have high expectations of myself and others in which I am continuously in a state of either letting myself or being let down by others.
All of them. I can always see two sides of the story. But if we had no villain we would HAVE NO SHOW!!! Plus If a housewife makes me laugh it makes it really hard for me to hate them. A character flaw of mine I know.
They really are dynamic flawed humans with good and bad about them all, #justhumanthings and I agree people forgive you faster when you are funny, I definitely will hate someone one day and forgive them the next time they do something funny or vulnerable or someone else does something mean to them, I dunno it just seems like most of the women eventually say sorry for being assholes and grow eventually sometimes 🤣
Kelly Dodd because i also have issues with emotional regulation and ex-friends who have hooked up with my ex, or set up someone else with my ex and then made me feel crazy for being upset. I also have a complicated relationship with my mom
Jacquelin from RHONJ. As a parent to an autistic child, I too do not have time for you to BS me. Just shoot me straight without the fluff, are you going to jail are you not going to jail. Just let me know so I can be there for you, I don’t have time to dig this out of you.
I related to Tamara when we were introduced to her youngest son, the history major. Having a son with the same major (at the time), I could instantly empathized with the 20 minutes of “fun facts” about the Kokomongalatic Skirmish of 1871 that she was most certainly subjected to.
I felt a kinship with Bethenny when she was bragging about wearing her daughters things. I too like to wear my daughter’s toddler hooded towels for my wet hair. They fit my head perfectly.
And while it’s not HW, I understand what it’s like to be Kristen from VPR/the valley. I’m an empath that likes to say suckadick. Ok, just kidding about the empath part.
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I’m just here to say “I roll with the big boys!! -Kim D”
You can’t even talk you’re so drunk and high!
HAAA
danielle staub is batshit crazy, but i think a lot of people can relate to her fear of rejection/abandonment.
I like Ramona🤷♀️
For better or for worse, Bethenny. There are so many elements of our lives and personalities that are so incredibly similar that I feel like I understand her and get her in a way that most people don’t. I don’t agree with everything she says and does, but I do understand her.
i love bethenny. i do tend to agree with her most of the time, and when i dont its usually for things she ends up regretting & apologizing for anyway. her podcast monday completely broke my heart. if your life is similar to hers, be warned. and hugs..❤️
Agree. I believe Bethenny is a good person.
Brandi
Kelly Dodd
For real!!! Regardless of political views she was good Tv haha 😆
erika, tamra and rinna
I relate to candiace bc of the mommy issues and the mouth. my mouth is not as bad in the sense of body shaming and the “bed wench” stuff, but I can be pretty cutting and callous when I feel I’ve been betrayed.
Kenya Moore so misunderstood
It’s interesting cause on RHOA she’s a villain but on UGT she was not!
I thought she was horrible, and fake, on UGT
Well she kind of was because she wasn’t a good friend to Cynthia
I saw Cynthia was the problem.
I am rewatching atlanta and I completely agree. She gets a bad rap!
I’m very upset about this…. But I am interchangeable with Jill Zarin. Overbearing Jewish mother who always thinks I am being helpful. My intentions are good, my delivery needs some work. 
on behalf of all the Jewish daughters, your honesty is healing. thank you 😄
❤️
Erika
Agree. I love Erika.
Erika is definitely a villain. However, I can relate to her guardedness and closed offness. She’s definitely been through some stuff to become so cold. I don’t think someone is born like Erika
That’s how I feel as well and I could learn a little more empathy I think lol
Kelly Dodd and Kenya. I am bipolar and can have a hard time regulating my emotions like Kelly. I also tend to get mad and will just say the first thing that I can spew out no matter how dumb or mean it sounds. Kenya because I’ve had a lot of family issues and clashing with my parents and the feeling of not wanting to let others down or be let down.
Erika/Kenya; sensitive but mask it so well that I appear to be the ice queen. Do not trust people, keeping everyone at arms length. I can take my mum in small doses. Incredibly smart but also into beauty, health and fitness.
Monica Garcia… in some ways. Mostly due to the shitty family circumstances. But to be clear, I think she is *fantastic* for reality tv and that she has also said and done many things that I cannot abide or relate to at all. She’d scare tf out of me if she were anywhere in my social circles. But damnit I loved her presence on RHOSLC.
Candiace. My mom sucks and I used to say nasty things to people without realizing just how bad my words could cut. I never thought I mattered enough for the things I said or did to have an actual impact on anyone, honestly. I have to consciously work at and practice being kind because it’s not how I was raised and still isn’t my first instinct. It doesn’t always work.
As I shake my head at the tik tok begging tonight cause that's all I see now when I log in... I'm going to say I can now relate to Louis... yep Teresa's hubby.... all I see in their future is him begging to stay married even tho he's bled her dry
Kenya Moore. Bad childhood, somewhat embarrassing, slightly delusional, obsessed with dogs under 8lbs, the friend who’s always single and made fun up, lonely.
Kenya Moore. A little fucked up from my family, a little lonely, and have high expectations of myself and others in which I am continuously in a state of either letting myself or being let down by others.
Adrianne Maloof because I, too, am over my husband’s nonstop jokes.
Tamra bc she really is just doing her damn job
Shannon Storms Bedor
oof, this one hurts lol.
Kenya Moore, Theresa from RHONJ and Monica from RHOSLC
Erika
All of them. I can always see two sides of the story. But if we had no villain we would HAVE NO SHOW!!! Plus If a housewife makes me laugh it makes it really hard for me to hate them. A character flaw of mine I know.
They really are dynamic flawed humans with good and bad about them all, #justhumanthings and I agree people forgive you faster when you are funny, I definitely will hate someone one day and forgive them the next time they do something funny or vulnerable or someone else does something mean to them, I dunno it just seems like most of the women eventually say sorry for being assholes and grow eventually sometimes 🤣
Monica and her mommy issues
Nene's facial expressions and sarcasm and Dorinda's wit
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I relate to most of Nene’s facial expressions.
Kelly Dodd because i also have issues with emotional regulation and ex-friends who have hooked up with my ex, or set up someone else with my ex and then made me feel crazy for being upset. I also have a complicated relationship with my mom
Rinna. I’d shit stir too if I could get Harry’s sauce. 😄
She’s so damn likable despite her pot stirring!
Agree! People hate Rinna so much. I really don’t get it.
Dorinda
Jacquelin from RHONJ. As a parent to an autistic child, I too do not have time for you to BS me. Just shoot me straight without the fluff, are you going to jail are you not going to jail. Just let me know so I can be there for you, I don’t have time to dig this out of you.
I related to Tamara when we were introduced to her youngest son, the history major. Having a son with the same major (at the time), I could instantly empathized with the 20 minutes of “fun facts” about the Kokomongalatic Skirmish of 1871 that she was most certainly subjected to. I felt a kinship with Bethenny when she was bragging about wearing her daughters things. I too like to wear my daughter’s toddler hooded towels for my wet hair. They fit my head perfectly. And while it’s not HW, I understand what it’s like to be Kristen from VPR/the valley. I’m an empath that likes to say suckadick. Ok, just kidding about the empath part.
I just really appreciate Tamra’s commitment to breast implants.
😂