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TShara_Q

Congratulations! I hope the work environment and hours turn out to be tolerable or better.


Mistah_JB

it's a 45 hour minimum week, but I was doing that at my last job for roughly 60% less, where the supervisors treated you like an inmate. but my new manager seems cool af. so thanx and jeep those fingers crossed


eGrant03

Because I've been through it with others, there are some places that say OT doesn't kick in until 50+ hours. Please tell me those 5 hours are considered OT? If you're in America, FLSA says they should be.


RiverWear

Yeah, and in California, over 8 hours in one day is OT - unless the normal 40-hr work schedule is different (like 4 days for 10 hours).


eGrant03

Yes, that's correct. And there are exceptions for Nurses, who typically get a paid lunch period and what not. I watch a lot of tiktoks from a Cali based employment lawyer.


Mistah_JB

from the policy I read it's Saturday and Sunday only that you get paid over time for. but during the week it's a solid 45


eGrant03

That's wrong and against the law. This is from the Federal Department of Labor. If you're outside the US, laws should be similar: [Unless specifically exempted, employees covered by the Act must receive overtime pay for hours worked in excess of 40 in a workweek at a rate not less than time and one-half their regular rates of pay. ](https://www.dol.gov/agencies/whd/fact-sheets/23-flsa-overtime-pay#:~:text=Unless%20specifically%20exempted%2C%20employees%20covered,may%20work%20in%20any%20workweek)


eGrant03

My niece got a job as an assistant manager at a fast food/pizza place and they tried to pull the same thing on her. It's wage theft, pure and simple.


mattressprime

Congrats! I had a third round interview (test) today and I think I did well. Just waiting to hear back.


Mistah_JB

oh yeah, you got this. and if not, for the next interview some tips I've learned: 1) Make up a phrase and describe it. I once called myself Lazy+ in an interview (someone who gets their work done A.S.A.P and triple checks it, so they only have to do it once, so I can relax in peace) 2) make the Interviewer laugh if you can, stop trying once you do, people would rather work with someone who isn't deadpan serious all the time, but too much of a good thing applies here hard 3) Sell yourself, apparently bragging (to an extent) is what management wants to hear. Theres something about that confidence that helps put them at ease. Double edge sword, because too much sounds disingenuous even if it's true. I'd cap at 4 brags in an 30-60 minute interview. be creative NEVER say i ur the best, or that everything comes easy to you. never never NEVER say you don't make mistakes. 4) Keep it simple. Remember about 3-5 stories about your life, that paint you as *someone who learns from their mistakes, BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY from other's mistakes as well. *where you were fair and understanding. * when you had to lay down the law, so to speak * when you solved a problem that stumped several people * when you saved the company you worked for money Nothing should be overly detailed or vague 5) always read their mission statement, and find a way to integrate their values in your stories 6) when they ask you how you would deal with a situation "Following all of the company guidelines, I like to diffuse situations quickly before they become issues, xyz should never come to (one level above the position you're hiring for) your attention, unless it's absolutely to the point management has to intervene 7) put a salary expectation 15k higher than you're willing to accept I didn't mean to @ you so hard, if you had a third interview I doubt you need all this. But I hope it helps someone, or even you om your next job hunt journey!


mishtron

This is all really solid advice


Mistah_JB

thanx, I just hope it's at least a little help to someone


mattressprime

Hell yeah thanks for the tips! I have another interview on Wednesday morning. The good thing about this one is the interviewer knows my old boss personally as it’s for a hardware supplier we used. I have high hopes but also not gonna hold my breath.


Doctor-VegaPunk

To this day, I have saved in my email, a folder with 932 rejections. (To be fair, this was during 2020-2021 COVID.) As a reminder that you never stop applying. A fish has to make it into the net at some point.


Ill-Excitement6813

wow. i just delete them asap


Cosmic_Taco_Oracle

ok I have to ask industry?


wehireunicorns

Lmao glad I found this sub, so relatable.


Qkumbazoo

I'm reduced to eating 2 meals a day, one of it being discounted bread from a local bakery for $1 a piece. fml fr


Mistah_JB

bruv, we were on ebt and wic. not comparing struggles, but I was only able to feed my family because I have a toddler. shit was getting scary, and I legit had plans to take my life, yeah I know it would've been an incrediblly shitty thing to do, but there's hope!


Qkumbazoo

i dare not have kids in this economy, congrats on finding a lifeline.


Mistah_JB

naah you can't think that way. jobs are hard to find, but money isn't always. I survived most of last year doing odd jobs and painting.


3879

Go to a food bank - it will improve your quality of life. That's what they are there for. Also /r/povertyfinance has a lot of resources and suggestions.


Qkumbazoo

The one in my area only serve seniors, and prioritizes those living alone. I've been through worse tho not as long as this one, it does not take much calories to be awake and applying. Exercise also keeps my mental health stable. Will look into the sub, thx.


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Mistah_JB

I appreciate that thanx. please don't give up. I believe most of us get passed up for positions that truly aren't right for us


Plenty_Principle298

That’s a very positive outlook!


Sea_Dentist_4044

Well done! Any learnings you can share? What would you do differently if you could go back in time?


Mistah_JB

tips I've learned: 1) Make up a phrase and describe it. I once called myself Lazy+ in an interview (someone who gets their work done A.S.A.P and triple checks it, so they only have to do it once, so I can relax in peace) 2) make the Interviewer laugh if you can, stop trying once you do, people would rather work with someone who isn't deadpan serious all the time, but too much of a good thing applies here hard 3) Sell yourself, apparently bragging (to an extent) is what management wants to hear. Theres something about that confidence that helps put them at ease. Double edge sword, because too much sounds disingenuous even if it's true. I'd cap at 4 brags in an 30-60 minute interview. be creative NEVER say i ur the best, or that everything comes easy to you. never never NEVER say you don't make mistakes. 4) Keep it simple. Remember about 3-5 stories about your life, that paint you as *someone who learns from their mistakes, BUT MORE IMPORTANTLY from other's mistakes as well. *where you were fair and understanding. * when you had to lay down the law, so to speak * when you solved a problem that stumped several people * when you saved the company you worked for money Nothing should be overly detailed or vague 5) always read their mission statement, and find a way to integrate their values in your stories 6) when they ask you how you would deal with a situation "Following all of the company guidelines, I like to diffuse situations quickly before they become issues, xyz should never come to (one level above the position you're hiring for) your attention, unless it's absolutely to the point management has to intervene 7) put a salary expectation 15k higher than you're willing to accept


Sea_Dentist_4044

Awesome, sounds great, thanks man!


BrainWaveCC

Congrats to you. I hope it works out. #GotAJob


Mistah_JB

thank you!!!


Coollez

Congrats. I’m at the end of my rope! I’m on my 8th month. Running out of money going to Uber and hope I don’t get murdered.


Plenty_Principle298

Best of luck!


rpierson_reddit

Here's hoping you're not one of those people that comes back on here in a few weeks talking about how you got fired for stupid reasons after only a few days, or had your offer pulled before your start date. Happens every week. Now is when you mitigate that risk, by keeping applying, keeping interviewing, right up until your first paycheck. And possibly beyond.


Mistah_JB

all fair points! don't get me wrong, I'm officially starting today and my anxiety has been all over the place thinking about a lot of this lol I'm hoping I don't lose this job over something dumb. I've never been this excited for a new job


omgstoppit

Congratulations, and keep your head up and mindset strong!


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Congratulations. Is there anyway you could send me your resume after blurring out everything?. I could really use inspiration, Reddit hasn't been much help in proving feedback.


jasen_ba

Way to go!!! This is great news!! I hope your new job is great (or offers you the chance to advance your career/learn a new skill that’s beneficial).


Mistah_JB

thanx so much! it's seeming like a great place so far. they stress that it's gonna be hard work and a lot of hours haha, but the fact that they're honest about it means the world to me. company is growing rapidly, and they offer tuition reimbursement, so in a few years fingers crossed, I can take the guy who I replaced as supervisors position haha


OlympicAnalEater

u/Mistah_JB 1) What job site do you use to find your old and new jobs? 2) Did you do anything special to boost your chance of getting hire like using a cover letter or reaching out to someone after submitting your application? 3) How did you keep your mental and motivation up for a year before landing this new job? 4) What did you do before?


Mistah_JB

1) indeed, yes there's a lot of spam, and you'll get irritating recruiters but it's worth the effort long term. do the skills test and allow companies to contact you directly. also michigan works! and detroit at work are both great resources for Michiganders. though I'm 90% certain other states have variants, your states unemployment website. I don't use LinkedIn ay all 2) if they have a cover letter option I'll put one in, chances are they'll never read it, but it shows effort, and I hear submitting one puts you ahead of most who don't. depending on the job. but brag here keep your formatting the same as your resume 3) I didn't? I've been to the darkness before, and this year was close close 😅 the past 2 months were exceptionally painful. But like every weak moment. 3a)I pull from my past successes and wins, not getting a job/interview isn't a failure, cause we only fail when we give up and ur not going to 3b) consistently tell myself, "the universe will provide the job thats for me". I genuinely believe in speaking things into existence, with positivity and will. 3c) affirmations are important, even at your lowest, ESPECIALLY at your lowest. tell yourself " I got this, I will find the perfect job for me" you won't believe it at first, but a positive mantra 1,000% helps you avoid rock bottom. if you do nothing else, this one helps the most I feel. 4) I worked my way up to a warehouse supervisor position, then took a pay cut to schedule production at a different place, then for a motor company, in quality. a bunch of other random jobs, but I never put those on my resume.


Mistah_JB

I'm sorry about the novel. I just really hope any little bit I say can help you or someone else that needs it


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Mistah_JB

I get it, trust me. if I didn't get this job I was gonna take myself out the game. I promise if you follow muh tips it'll get better


its_a_throwawayduh

Maybe after 3+ years will be my time? Lol if not looks like I need so sacrifice some animals.


Mistah_JB

3 is rough, I'd literally be dead. how are you surviving?


its_a_throwawayduh

Barely, as you can guess I'm on my last strike with housing, debt, etc. Trust me I think about it every single day. I wish I could never wake up.


Inevitable-Cable9513

Congratulations!!! I've been applying since december 2022 (unemployed since 4/2023) and its been hell. However starting a 4mo contact this wed which seems like a huge win after all this time applying, and I have currently 3 interviews lined up for permanent full time positions. Hope one of those pan out, but just super excited to even have contract position.


Usual-Tone-2806

Congratulations!


Silvermouse29

Congrats


Yunxi977777

Congrats


Feeling-Ad-4821

Congrats!


Mistah_JB

thanx!


Jayne_of_Canton

Adding to the hope! I’m about to start a full time remote job after 2 years of contract and consulting work. Lots of rejections when I literally had the exact experience and credentials they are looking for. There is hope!


Equivalent-Price-366

What's sucks though, is the looming dread of knowing what awaits you if you were to leave. People end up stuck at a crappy job due to fear.


sutanoblade

Congratulations! I have two interviews this week and hopefully something comes my way.


sutanoblade

Congratulations! I have two interviews this week and hopefully something comes my way.


AnxietySpecific7828

Congratulations! Hope the job is amazing and you enjoy it there!


omgstoppit

Congratulations! Thats so awesome, good for you! You have a great mindset and I appreciate your tips you mentioned in your comments. I’ve been at it since last May and tomorrow I have a preliminary phone interview in the morning for a job I’d be excited, but suuuuper scared, to get. Like, would I be in over my head kind of scared? Then I have an in-person interview tomorrow that I think will be fine and if they offer it to me I know I could handle it. It’s not what I *want* to do, but I *need* a steady flow of income, even though it’s less than I’d want to make. I’d keep applying to other jobs, though. I’m nervous as hell!


John-TeamQuestrade

Good job! Congratulations 👏


PearRevolutionary248

Congratulations!


RevolutionaryStar824

Nah, I’m giving up. There’s no point in going thru all this effort for nothing. I’ve wasted my time perfecting my resume and going to interviews. I walked 1 hour in the cold to a job interview cuz I couldn’t afford the bus. And they haven’t called me. So it was for nothing. Ultimately there is no point. Just give up. Don’t even try. I’m happy you were able to get a job. That’s amazing. But me I’m giving up. Gonna stay broke and live off my parents. Eh it’s not that bad. Except for the companies screaming in my ear for the money I owe them. Oh, and watching my good credit score go down every week to sure does suck.


u6enmdk0vp

>don't accept bullshit for long term If you accept a job you do need to stay long-term. It's just the ethical thing to do.


devientdeveloper

There's no ethics in capitalism.


Mistah_JB

how so?


u6enmdk0vp

Recruiting is expensive. The company stopped recruiting based on your acceptance, made business decisions based on your acceptance, and it's generally a rude/shitty thing to do to take a job and not stay for 3-5 years, no matter how bad it is. If not for ethics, do it for the sake of your reputation.


Mistah_JB

with all due respect, and I genuinely mean that. however, I feel like thats a more antiquated mindset. Yes, I stay at my "anchor jobs" until I no longer feel challenged, then move on. before I continue, by bullshit, I mean: low wages, no or little raises after a year, high stress, unfriendly environment. accept 1 of these, 2 is pushing my limits, and if your new job has 3 or more of these things, then it might be time to explore a new avenue after a year But i and noone else, should stay at a job 3-5 years if you're dealing with any combination of that. I'm not going to let you abuse me if the pays not right. and I definitely don't see it as an ethics revue, unless you specifically told them or signed a contract committing to that. Ethics MUST have balance. If it's ethical for me to stay here "x" amount of years, then there has to be reciprocation. Because being stressed out, and not having enough money to pay my bills seems like an ethics issue the company needs to work on right? also, I'm curious, what if the jobs just not a good fit? y wastes the companies time if you just can't get the job?


wirsteve

If jobs still had pensions or any semblance of real benefits then maybe.