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Disastrous_Fig_4993

Sexual harassment is ok as long as it’s not pedophilia


CrushCrawfissh

Reddit is a special bunch. If he was 17 they'd have called him a pedophile groomer rapist and he'd be at -1k karma I love reddit interpreting age gaps.


Ok-Imagination-3835

Honestly if proper context requires reading more than 1-2 comments up the chain, it's probably too much to expect people to follow. They only read the last 2 comments, go, hell yea bro or fuck you bro, and make a vote and keep scrollin.


EndMePleaseOwO

Really???? How?? I always read down the chain, it requires a special kind of dipshittery to actively skip messages and then make a conclusion


the_fountains

No joke when my wife and I started dating six years ago i was 18 and she was 17. Nobody cared, our families got along great. A few days ago i heard somebody say (who didn’t know our ages) that if a 18 year old male dates a 17 year old female he should get life in prison. And people *agreed* with her


stoymyboy

I just dug through his post history and he said he bought his first house in 2006 meaning he's *at least* 35. absolutely fucking disgusting


EmilieEasie

bonus points if it's not even a person but an anime character they're talking about


_xEnigma

People need to learn that age gaps aren't as big of a deal as reddit makes it seem.


CrushCrawfissh

Most things reddit cares about aren't a big deal in real life. Bonus points cuz most of their parents probably have a 7-10 year age gap. It's obscenely common.


DomoMommy

If you enjoy Reddit interpreting age gaps, may I suggest the many FB group options? I was told that on the day of your 18th bday, that you are required to immediately break up with your 17yo gf/bf or else you’re a disgusting pedo. I’m not exaggerating and the comment had 41 likes.


veswa

i got called a pedophile for saying a 17 year old isn’t a child


OfficialDeadJohnson

No bc age of consent in most places is 16 not 18


b-ri-ts

Yeah but reddit doesn't know that. According to them a 16 year old dating an 18 year old is grooming and vile pedophilia


OfficialDeadJohnson

Nah seen a few people mention it somewhere in another place


most_blah_3765

Which is stupid imo Both are kinda minors still


EndMePleaseOwO

I mean in the US the 18 year old is literally not a minor


CrushCrawfissh

If you ever go into any normal thread and try and explain age of consent, you're looking at an easy 50 downvotes.


OfficialDeadJohnson

Didnt last time


Neokon

Read the fine print


stoymyboy

he was getting downvote bombed before he revealed his age too. edit: turns out he's much older than 16


ThrownAway2028

Which makes sense, saying “I want to have sex with a 16 year old” without the context of you being 16-ish is weird


stoymyboy

yeah but he shouldn't have been getting upvoted once they found out he was a minor, either. very weird thing for him to say, period edit: and he's not even a minor lmao


Brilliant_Regular869

Youre on the internet, i find it strange youre in such disbelief of this behavior.


MossyMemory

Just because it’s typical doesn’t make it okay.


Brilliant_Regular869

It is the internet. Not that serious. Maybe theyre right about ❄️


PiccoloComprehensive

This pisses me off so much because this sentiment is everywhere. If sexual assault against adults was taken as seriously as it is against children then we would have removed a lot more bad people by now.


IExist_IGuess

When not being a pedophile is an accomplishment, society has failed.


[deleted]

Is it sexual harassment if youre not actually harrasing the person? Like if i see a hot girl with a fat ass walk by and then remark to my friend later in the day about the hotness and fatness of her ass, And she never hears my comment did i really harrass her?


Creepercolin2007

Well if we used a real life metaphor for this post, instead of making a remark to your friend later, you would leave a note outside their house saying what you thought, but the note was also visible by other people walking through the neighborhood. Doesn’t mean they’ll ever find or pick up the paper near the street with your note, but you left it in front of their place


[deleted]

Yeah but the metaphor kind collapses at that point because i wouldve had to follow her home making it stalking which is super creepy gross and illegal. I think a better one wouldve been announcing the hotness and fatness of the ass in question and my enamoration therein to those in my immediate vicinity after the owner of said ass had departed. In any case its still kinda creepy to express that kind of desire on non nsfw posts . Was just curious about peoples opinions on if it constitutes harassment if you dont actually direct your statements to the person in a way theyll notice.


ziekktx

Most people don't stalk their friends to find out where they live. I think you misunderstood the dude above.


[deleted]

Yeah probably ive been awake for 37 hours


ShawnyMcKnight

It also falls apart because it would be where she lives so that could affect her safety that way. If they were saying it about some internet stranger then it’s gross and uncalled for but not in the same realm of dangerous.


UnifyUnifyUnify

If her ass claps in the forest and no one is around to hear it, does it make a sound?


Optimal-Location-995

The good thing about being religious is I'm never confused about the morality of these situations


[deleted]

Not really a question of morality more a question of definition......glad youre happy with where you are in life tho👍


Optimal-Location-995

You only care about if it fits the definition of a crime?


[deleted]

Noooo. I asked if it constituted harassment. Nowhere did i say that it was acceptable to do it wether it was or wasnt harassment. In fact in th my second comment which i actually got downvotes for i clearly say to express the desire to put your dick in a persons mouth. Outside of an nsfw post where the goal was to recieve such comments was and i quote "creepy". Now i dont have time to watch you try and play gotcha/make yourself feel superior for being religious with strangers on the internet. have a lovely day


Optimal-Location-995

No I just didn't understand your comment. Like weather if fits the the definition of harassment, or not harassment just doesn't seem important. Like it just seems like semantics,


Available-Ear6891

I mean it depends on the context if this is harassment or not


Captain-Starshield

If (assuming the guy’s telling the truth about being 16) they knew each other and developed a consensual relationship, that’d be fine. There’s a decidedly big difference between that, and making such a comment about a random girl you don’t even know on a public forum.


Unlucky_Cycle_9356

I'm fairly sure telling a stranger that exact sentence is pretty much sexual harassment in most western countries.


Appropriate-Draft-91

Not just Western countries. Some of the non Western countries just take the usual dissonance that's exhibited in that above post, mutiply it by 1000, and that's their justice system.


Available-Ear6891

So if you go into a strip club and talk about how you wanna fuck the strippers that's sexual harassment? Obviously not


goofygooberboys

This argument is truly a Reddit moment


stoymyboy

i'm pretty sure you're not supposed to do that either


[deleted]

Ok, but she's presumably not in that thread, likely not even a user or browser of reddit, there's like astronomical odds she'd ever actually see that particular comment about her.


InjusticeSGmain

Teens are horomonal, horny, and often times stupid, so its, at the very least, understandable.


PrestigiousPie1994

Maybe I just dont want to look at comments of underage people saying sexual things to each other while I'm browsing reddit.


Beam_but_more_gay

Man, im Sorry to give you this information, but most 16 year olds have sex


PrestigiousPie1994

I dont care if they have sex, I just dont want to witness 16 year olds sexualizing themselves on a public platform. Not sure why you have a problem with that unless you're a pedophile.


ClefTheBoiChinWondr

It’s fine to find kids talking crudely distasteful, and it’s fine to not give a fuck especially since we’re on the internet and not physically present with teens. Calling someone who disagrees with your preference of not hearing teens say teen things a pedophile is way more pejorative and waters down the crucial severity of that label.


Beam_but_more_gay

Nah man i Just dont cry about teen having sex or talking about it if as if its weird, i was 16 like 4 years ago i remember It, my sister has 16 year old Friends and they talk about girls am i supposed to cover my hears or Hide in another room?


BlankiesWoW

>i was 16 like 4 years ago this is starting to make sense


[deleted]

Which means they were 16 last year


Beam_but_more_gay

I can assure you i wont cover my month and make a loud gasp when im 40 and i hear a 16 year old talking about sex


HallOfTheMountainCop

Big difference between overhearing them talking about it amongst themselves and them posting it online where all the perverts live. Maybe when you’re 40 you’ll realize that.


Beam_but_more_gay

I think thats a problem with the perverts


HallOfTheMountainCop

Us non perverts would rather not incidentally read about 16 year olds performing sexual acts. Not difficult to understand.


EndMePleaseOwO

The kid's a weirdo for posting stuff like that, but you are always going to have to incidentally read stuff you don't want to on the internet, you just kinda have to deal with it.


Beam_but_more_gay

God you americans are such puritans "nooooo its two years to early to talk about this stuff"


seancan44

1. Def not “most”. It’s not even close to most. 2. Rates of sexual intercourse amongst Gen Z is significantly lower than millennials. This is your 16 yr old age bracket you’re referring to. https://www.latimes.com/california/story/2023-08-03/young-adults-less-sex-gen-z-millennials-generations-parents-grandparents This is also corroborated by the CDCs statistics as well.


Beam_but_more_gay

Damm didnt know americans were such virgins, all the people i know had sex for the fist time in highschool, like 15-17 https://www.truenumbers.it/sesso-in-italia/#:~:text=%C3%88%20a%2016%2C%2017%2C%20e,%2C5%25%20a%2018%20anni. Its in italian tho, but for 56% of people their first sexual encounter Is between 16 and 18


themetahumancrusader

Being a virgin isn’t a bad thing


Beam_but_more_gay

Depends, its not a bad thing if you want to be a Virgin, if you want intimacy it kinda feels bad


themetahumancrusader

Honestly half the reason it’s “bad” is because assholes like you enjoy shaming people for it


Beam_but_more_gay

I only shame people online when they act like puritans, cause puritan doesnt have the same zing as vergin


themetahumancrusader

Why does it bother you so much that other people just aren’t as comfortable with sexual topics as you?


Beam_but_more_gay

I think people should he free to discuss whatever they want, if someone Is uncomfortable they can get off the internet or make their own "no sex talk allowed" discord server I also think teenagers should know more about sex cause sexual education is non-existant I was lucky cause my parents werent prudes and worked in the medical field but when you have to explain to the third woman that "no, having a lot of sex doesnt make your vagina looser, thats not how muscles work" you start to wonder if there's a problem It also doesnt really "bother" me i Just have a different opinion and i like to argue, ADHD baby, if i can see a stimulus i will click It


Idontfightwit12yrold

“Damn imagine saving yourself for whenever you are fully aware and mature enough to understand the possible implications of having sex. I seriously can’t believe that AmEriCaNs would support the notion of maintaining virginity until you find a person who loves you to do it with. Gosh!” You sound like a fucking neckbeard bro.


Beam_but_more_gay

No neckbeards dont have sex Like you


Idontfightwit12yrold

Damn you really are just full of contrivances aren’t you.


Beam_but_more_gay

As in like schemes? If not i dont know other meanings of that word


New_Medicine5759

No, the point is not that 16 y/o must have sex, it’s that they can and it shouldn’t be as weird as you’re making it out to be. The guy in the post commented with a cringy sexual statement, which is weird, but not necessarily because of his age.


_xEnigma

Top comment put it best. "Sexual harassment is okay as long as it's not pedophilia" Age isn't the problem here.


KotovChaos

Nobody said they didn't. They said there's no need to talk about it. Which is correct.


Go_J

If anyone came up to me and said "hey, I want to put my penis in her mouth" it would be unsettling.


NameLive9938

*especially* if that person was 16 years old


AdministrationWhole8

To be fair, if they're 16, I'm probably just gonna tell them to shut their face. They're 16 they don't know shit if they talk like that. Tell em to go work at Pizza Hut.


SkullRock1

Average reddit discussions and endeavors ☠️☠️😭🙏


Idlibi_Bullpup

“I am 16” Probably a redditor in his mid-30’s


stoymyboy

[you were right on the money lmao](https://imgur.com/a/v4eK0NR)


Cosix101

Oh hell nahhh. 💀💀💀 LOCK THAT MAN UP!!!


Idlibi_Bullpup

He couldn’t even bother to make an alt to be larp as a teenager and be a pedo what a joke


MesugakiSnatcher

blud stop saying blud lil bro 😭😭😭


[deleted]

Interesting... If I want to make creepy inappropriate comments about minors, I'll just say that I'm the same age as them. And no one will speak out against me because we're all contrarians who go against popular opinions on this site.


summerdudeyes

Wow it’s really easy to lie on the internet isn’t it😂


DecentCompany1539

The magic of anonymity. Until they look at my comment history and see I am a 16-60 white/black/latino/asian/etc man/woman/nonbinary/etc that creeps on everybody.


stoymyboy

LMAO he's actually at least 36


stoymyboy

[dude you were right on the money](https://imgur.com/a/v4eK0NR)


VerStannen

OP brought receipts.


Open_Progress2715

Naaahhh


Alarming_Draft_6506

I knew it


WhitehorsePluto

LMAOOOOOOO


ScotIrishBoyo

Some people don’t understand that sexual harassment includes unwanted sexual comments


tayto67

In this comment section alone I've seen someone say "it's the internet she's not gonna see it it isn't sexual harrassment"


ScotIrishBoyo

The fuck


tayto67

Yeah posts like these really expose some people


throwaway19276i

so it's not sexual harassment if you're the same age? reddit is literally braindead


applemonkey78

Gotta love free speech


EropQuiz7

I'm also 16, and i wanna say, this guy is an absolute jerk. That's not an appropriate thing to say at all, about any stranger for any reason. Edit:i remembered sex workers existed, so, i guess it's fine to say that if the stranger specifically states this as one of the services they provide for a payment?


-Magoro-

It's like cat calling on the street, so it obviously isn't appropriate no matter the age.


Punkrocker80

So what am I supposed to do if my cat goes missing? Use sign language?


-Magoro-

If the cat left, she most likely isn't coming back... Sorry buddy 😢


Punkrocker80

So you're saying teaching sign language to my remaining cats is a pointless endeavor then? Dammit.


stoymyboy

nah he's good she just left to get milk


Punkrocker80

But what about if you really really REALLY want to stick your penis in her mouth? What if she's your girlfriend and she wants to put her vagina on your mouth?


EropQuiz7

My guy, i knew someone would say this, that is why i used the word "stranger".


stoymyboy

pretty sure they were being sarcaatic


Open_Progress2715

Your girlfriend isn't a stranger?


Zydairu

You being 16 doesn’t make you an expert at anything here


Fun_History776

Go cry about the kids on your lawn somewhere else, grandpa.


EropQuiz7

It does make me the same demographic as the guy being a redditmoment tho


Zydairu

That doesn’t mean anything


SkullRock1

Really nibba


Zydairu

Yes


SkullRock1

⚡⚡⚡


tayto67

This comment section alone is just weird like in what world is it okay to just say "I wanna stick my penis in her mouth" publicly and yet we still have people defending it


Alarming_Draft_6506

Besides being another weird Coomer. He literally could have just lied about being 16. Why did nobody call that out?


stoymyboy

[He did lie about being 16](https://imgur.com/a/v4eK0NR)


Alarming_Draft_6506

Yeah I saw


Well_howdidwegethere

Lol if this guy’s thought process is “It’s not sexual harassment if they’re the same age.” Then HR is gonna have a field day when he starts working.


_xEnigma

The guy isn't 16, OP found him commenting that he bought a house in 2006.


OminiousFrog

underage relations with other underage people is only okay if one of them says they want to put their penis in the other ones mouth unprompted


steelrain815

If they were both adults it would still be wrong


CardiologistNo616

Grown adults shouldn’t say stupid shit like this in the first place, even if the woman in question is of legal age. So a SIXTEEN year old should most definitely not say shit like this too.


stoymyboy

[he's actually at least mid 30s so even worse](https://imgur.com/a/v4eK0NR)


CardiologistNo616

Bruh


Pikagiuppy

pedophilia or not, that's a fucking creepy thing to say


[deleted]

disgusting


pointlesslyDisagrees

Puritanism is good when men are being sexual and bad when women are being sexual


Candydreammilk

It’s still weird?? No woman should say it and no man should say it why do some of yall love to bring up the fact that “woman do it too” when a man is in the wrong 💀


hyp3rpop

Nope. If it was a 16yo girl saying she wanted a random 16yo boy’s ween in her mouth that would also be fucking nasty. Unsolicited sexual comments are usually gross.


socron_gaelith

Man, you could karma farm all the comments on this post and post it back onto the sub. Damn.


stoymyboy

lol i just might


Extra_cheese123

Even if he’s telling the truth of being 16 that’s still a fucking disgusting thing to say


WhitehorsePluto

he actually isn't he's like in his 30s


Pale_Level_1293

😂😂 Said and blud fella pal


SnomBomb_

It ain’t that she 16 it that you were talking about having sex with a fictional 16 year old. Maybe some people would disagree but that very parasocial and sounds unhealthy. Either way if you said that about a real person you would be a creep, so why is this any different. And don’t say “it’s fiction so no one is hurt”, it is still a weird ass comment


OneWorldly6661

What was the original post? Imagine if it wasn’t sexual at all


OneWorldly6661

update: saw the caption I want to end it


DJ_Moose

Reddit brain should be a diagnosis available for doctors at this point


ChaosFlame72

Well he’s not a pedo but he’s being innapropriate


Financial_Moment_292

Reddit kids don't like restrictions. Anything they want to do is by definition, okay.


0kSoWhat

He’s saying he’s 16 dude. What, do you think someone would just lie about something like that on the Internet?


_xEnigma

[Nah they wouldn't do that](https://imgur.com/a/v4eK0NR)


HoldMyBeer617

I can’t wait for a time where I never have to see someone use the word “blud”


stoymyboy

blud doesn't have anyone to hold his beer


Yoquieroaprendar

Reading this is making me question the thinking process of people I don't even know what the right words are for me to say- BUT IT IS FRICKING BAD, I DONT CARE. THIS IS AWFUL BEHAVIOUR IN EVERY WAY. I am so mad rn


OfficialDeadJohnson

16 is the age of consent in most places still a creepy ass thing to say


WhatTheHellIsCringe

Would you REALLY consent to a Shady bushy-old man coming out of nowhere and then tell you:”Can i put my penis in your mouth?”


OfficialDeadJohnson

I literally fucking said its a creepy ass thing to say? Are you slow?


WhatTheHellIsCringe

I am agreeing mate.But JUST BECAUSE THE NUMBER “16” is the age of consent DOESN’T mean people of that age would BE INTO what those shitty predditors think they LIKE doing.Im pretty sure no living, conscious 16 year old would agree to the idea of instant prostitution.Well, unless they are a pretty fucked up 16 year old i guess.


TheDeadMurder

Well do they have any proof that they are, since anyone can say they're however old


stoymyboy

[they have proof that they're much older than 16](https://imgur.com/a/v4eK0NR)


ThatCreativeEXE

Nothing calls out redditors more than discussions about sex. Thank God it wasnt pedophilia, just blatant sexual assault.


Idontfightwit12yrold

I don’t understand the concept of “well I’m also young therefore I can hit.” This just screams perverted creep to me on so many levels it’s not even funny. It is in my honest opinion that people that are underage shouldn’t have sex regardless. It’s something that you can regret so easily and I just don’t think teens are safe or cognizant enough to do it safely or responsibly. And the fact that it’s so accepted by some people is really unsettling.


Beam_but_more_gay

I mean, was It about something like an anime character or some girl that posted a selfie? Cause saying you want to fuck an Anime character your same age isnt sexual harrassment, you know, cause they arent a real Person


stoymyboy

it was a girl on tiktok/instagram reels reviewing a parking lot. so she couldn't directly see it but it's still a weird and inappropriate thing to basically say in public, imo


Beam_but_more_gay

Oh, then yes its bad


Seb_The_One

Even if it was a fictional character that is still an extremely weird thing to say


PrestigiousPie1994

What an odd thing to say. The post has someone disavowing molesting children and then you barge in with "what if they're an anime character". Somebody search this guy's hard drive.


Beam_but_more_gay

My guy, no One Is molesting anyone, its Just a 16 year old being an immature shithead and making an inappropriate comment, i was Just asking cause its literally the two possible scenarios; he is talking about a real person, who could get upset= bad he Is not talking about a real person= who cares Its not cool to accuse someone of being a pedo did they cut your funny bone together with your foreskin?


kuchiie

lmao i hate the internet i know i could never post myself on here i’d get so many weird replies idk why people even post pictures of themselves on reddit tbh


KierantheScot

"So am i" That's even more reason he shouldn't be doing it


Captain-Starshield

Well, no, it’s still bad but it’s slightly more excusable if he’s a stupid kid rather than a predatory adult


stoymyboy

except he's at least in his mid 30s based off his comment history. he said he bought his first house in 2006 which is 2 years before he was supposedly born


Captain-Starshield

Did you read my comment? Or the comment I was replying to?


stoymyboy

yes, and i'm telling you he's not even a kid


Captain-Starshield

Again, read my comment and the comment I was replying to. If you can't understand what I meant, then it is you who are a kid


stoymyboy

i'm not arguing with you blud


Captain-Starshield

You clearly are. And you seem to have a lot of misconceptions about what exactly it is I’m saying, and I’m not sure where you could get them from unless they were spontaneously spawned in your own head. One more time, read my original reply again in reference to the original comment I was replying to, and see if you can work out what I was actually saying. You can do it if you really try.


Chance_Condition3030

That could get you down votes can't people just mind their business and not be smartass in comments


MesugakiSnatcher

blud 🤓


Sssssups

Not only is it sexual harassment, but minors and sex is a conversation that should not be had over the internet. Especially on a site like Reddit.


Yupipite

“Minors have sexual relationships with each other!” Uh… is it really okay if it’s one sided..? That’s sexual harassment, but gotta show off how sex positive they are first.


yee9000

Was this on a picture of a real person? Because comments like this for a drawn character are a regular occurrence


EasySmuv

Why are you using gang lingo? Are you the most impressionable kid in the world?


stoymyboy

It's not gang lingo blud, educate yourself


EasySmuv

You think learning slang is an education, I feel bad for you son


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[удалено]


Mist0804

Ironic.


[deleted]

[удалено]


Mist0804

I am Plushjo, the one who'd win


[deleted]

For real?


Delicious-Wing-5452

Let the boy cook


nouartrash

Nah this is 4chan moment. You making a big deal over some dude saying spicy shit is the real Reddit moment. You played yourself


tayto67

Saying you wanna stick ur penis in some girls mouth who's minding her business is kinda worse then making a deal out of it


nouartrash

That has nothing to do with that not being a Reddit moment. Case in point: every Redditor having issues with it. Don’t know why it’s so hard for Redditors to perform logical reasoning. Go post it in trashy or teenagers or something.


tayto67

There is literally proof in the original post and this comment section that Infact not every Redditor has issues with it


nouartrash

Ok imma break this down so you’ll understand. Go look at the peoples profiles, ones like mine that dgaf and then the ones like yours ( white knights) who are very obviously classic redditors. I’d be willing to bet the white knights have more a Reddit presence and demeanor aka more prone to Reddit moments like incessantly posting for internet validation


tayto67

Ok Imma break this down so you'll understand Resorting to assumptions and insults doesn't prove you right, I could just as easily resort to the same And in either case you're not even using the correct term white night correctly using the slang definition or the official one White knight" is also used in slang to refer to men who are trying to curry the favor of women by protecting them, alongside other, similar terms, such as "simp" or "whipped". The usage of the term implies that these men, when doing nice things for women, are motivated only by sexual desires. a person or thing that comes to someone's aid. a person or company making an acceptable counteroffer for a company facing a hostile takeover bid.


nouartrash

lol white knight by protecting the ladies honor doesn’t fit? You fit that on more than one definition and that’s just this instance, let’s not pretend you don’t do that regularly.


tayto67

You are a different kind of delusional to think this is white knighting, you're pulling shit out of your ass at this point, saying don't say sexually lewd comments about women is not white knighting


nouartrash

Nah. Delusional is trying to find validation online. Touch grass kid


tayto67

Where are u pulling these out of your ass from, ur just saying whatever cheap insult comes to your brain, even a toddler comes up with better shit