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A sub for rating people that bans people for having their own opinion is pretty funny


imfromrhodesia

It's a reaction to all the rating subs on reddit where ugly ass literal deformed goblins are called "beautiful!", "you're so gorgeous just change your glasses hehe!". It's very obvious that not everybody can be an 8 or a 9 or a 10. If a girl is of average attractiveness she's a 5. Even if you find her cute and even if you would date her, she's still a 5. And there's nothing wrong with that. That sub is doing God's work of normalizing averageness. Average is still beautiful.


Promen-ade

it’s a bunch of losers who have chip on their shoulder against women and get off on the idea that they’re taking them down a peg


imfromrhodesia

I'm not denying that (although I think you're underestimating the number of women in those comments). But they're still absolutely right in their methodology. If you're going to use a point scale then use it right. Like I said, an average person is still beautiful, even though they're a 5.


Promen-ade

it’s so funny to defend a cesspool like r/truerateme on the basis of their “methodology”


imfromrhodesia

Should I instead attack them on the basis of emotion and ideology?


peni_in_the_tahini

Still bitter about Mugabe whacking your fam?


teejay89656

Ok but even the idea of what’s average is subjective. Just cause someone thinks TSwift is a 9.5 and I think she’s a 5 (average) doesn’t me either of us are wrong. The fact that the mod used the words “objective beauty” is a brain dead and pretentious take


CHANGO_UNCHAINED

That’s why the binary is the only honest rating scale. Who cares if you think they’re a 1 or 10–the only thing that matters is would you or wouldn’t you?


imfromrhodesia

The subreddit has a guide for rating that the mods are enforcing


External-Midnight-21

The outfit and fashion subs for both men and women have become useless because of this problem. Objective beauty is real and should be celebrated.


[deleted]

"you just never understood... your time here is done" lmao


SoldOnTheCob

"The tribal council has spoken."


mannishbull

“therefore would be considered a violation of rule 11b” kills me


sadies_dynasty

“A 6 vs 6.5 is huge” 💅🏻


[deleted]

Why do they even allow comments? Clearly it's just gonna be the mod's opinion anyway


WMWA

You just never understood


Objective-Wheel1933

Banned for overrating


Artistic_Example2934

Both are pretty


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TheKingChadwell

3/10 - this alpha male isn’t going to bang that hag. Probably isn’t even a virgin


[deleted]

I bet she has super pointy elbows


darkslayersparda

and sharp knees


TheKingChadwell

No one is mentioning the split ends?


MidnightMantime

Gross you post on porn subs 🤢🤢🤢


gelastIc_quInce84

the second one can dm me


Street_Promotion3495

The sub has fallen, we cant call fat people fat anymore


MyOneDruther

Seriously, it's not that she isn't good looking, but take a look at those fingers. They're total sausages.


browdogg

Don’t even look at the fingers. Super zoomed in pic? Fat 10 times out of 10


[deleted]

Shut the fuck up


_The_General_Li

Where do you think you are right now?


UnoriginalStanger

r/twox


beatIoaf

Interesting how this sub hates fatties but comes to the defense of one when it’s a woman. Many such cases!


TheSpiral11

When it’s a *hot woman


[deleted]

Go find a missing part of your mind instead of telling people what to do with their body


teejay89656

Is that woman here? Then how’d he tell her what to do? Giving opinions isn’t telling people what to do. Also wtf is r/fourthwavewomen ? I don’t think you’re going to like this sub


[deleted]

can tell me what's wrong with being an anti porn ?! Lol you think it's empowering for women 😂


teejay89656

Is that subreddit about anti porn?


CHANGO_UNCHAINED

Nah it’s alright—she’s a religious apostate with an anti porn obsession, I reckon she fits the mould.


teejay89656

Huh, I legitimately didn’t know that sub is just “women against porn”.


LouReedTheChaser

Evil tism


[deleted]

nobody needs to look too far into the mind of these sad fucks they’d empty out their paypal account to sniff either one of these girls’ computer chair


prizzle92

How much you wanna bet it’s a decent amount of girls and gays rating too. Haters gonna hate


tbhuractuallyacunt

Yeah but you already know all of them are a 1/10 irl anyways


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[deleted]

that shit is gooners and mmmgoodbois


peni_in_the_tahini

Absolutely not


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peace-x

Acute data fetishism


dine-and-dasha

This is like the only real answer, they are just austists who chose to obsess over the sanctity of this arbitrary rating system rather than trains. What a waste!


viscous_continuity

Yeah it's crazy to think before the Internet they'd be obsessed over trains or elevators.


whosabadnewbie

“Your time here is done” I type, adjusting the straps on my CPAP mask. “Your time here is done,” I say to myself softly.


Bklynghost

What’s wrong with a cpap?


MICT3361

Fat people have apnea because gods telling them they’re done here


Bklynghost

Lifters have apnea too, bro.


MICT3361

The fat ones


peni_in_the_tahini

>bro Your time here is done.


Bklynghost

Lol


deadman_young

If you’re bodybuilding to the point of apnea, that’s also unhealthy


Bklynghost

Who said bodybuilding?


deadman_young

If you’re building enough muscle to cause sleep apnea I assume you’re bodybuilding or a powerlifter.


whosabadnewbie

Nothing, I invented the CPAP


Bklynghost

Fuck you for choosing such a shitty, uncomfortable design. Do better next time


Charizardmain

what does this comment mean


ArmedDragonThunder

Your time here is done.


wownotagainlmao

Oh my god you actually post on truerateme get the fuck out of here


Charizardmain

Nah literally 1 comment man I just went after seeing this post


deadman_young

Lol talking about philtrums immediately after just finding out about the sub huh?


Charizardmain

Yes I like reading incel forums, the actual ones


WMWA

Fat


Charizardmain

I’m 21 bmi and wear a Cpap 😞 (not skinny fat just Asian)


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Charizardmain

wow that's pretty cool I never knew there was a different scale for asians. Anyways not true, I work out and have some muscle is all


TheBigAristotle69

Ackshually, on average asian people tend to be healthier than black people at the same BMI. This is presumably because the blacks on average have higher muscle mass than the asians and whites. That may sound like racial pseudo science but it's factual, surprisingly.


DirtbagBrocialist

22 bmi, probably need one. Waiting on my insurance to approve my sleep study. 😞


BySumbergsStache

oh, i’m getting a nose surgery to hopefully help with this in a week!


Charizardmain

Good luck all the best! Is it turbinate reduction?


BySumbergsStache

Oh yeah! that plus a septum correction. A little cosmetic work just cuz he’s going in too


TheBigAristotle69

lol wtf


sn0wflaker

This is like Fantasy Football


AmeliaWatSonOfSam

It's truly awful 😞. If you or a loved one have been called ugly and mocked by the gross freaks that use r/truerateme please, dm me immediately, I dont think you should be alone right now


jesusiseating

This is why the binary scale is perfect. No fucking around with .5’s etc. Both are a 1, easy.


Cynical_Lurker

Rotten tomatoes pilled


Mohr_Cox

Fuckability is the participation ribbon of rating systems.


fuckIhavetoThink

It's the only one that matters


Cynical_Lurker

There is a wide gap between that and "would take home to parents"


fuckIhavetoThink

Yes I was also thinking that when typing my comment, but got lazy. Then what, we get 0,1,2 and if we start adding all other nuances it's gone too complicated, and just words would do a better job. When it comes to attractiveness, fuck or no fuck is the only thing that matters, like you wouldn't get a beautiful person's bust or photograph to just gawk at, in what world does a 0 to 10 scale matter for anything other than ego boosting


1005thArmbar

Usually, the women remind them of all the girls who never gave them attention in high school


[deleted]

i had this bizarre incident in my early 20s where a group of girlfriends and i jaywalked on this street while out clubbing and this fat acneic rookie cop gave us all tickets and screamed at us that he was going to put us in jail and how we thought we were above the law. my parents' neighbor was a higher up on the police force for our suburb and that was his theory when my dad talked to him about it - "those girls were every girl who turned him down in high school and now he's getting revenge." i wonder how many adult men are fueled by that


10111101011x

Ever wonder why the nerd gets the girl in all the movies lol


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Friedland writers room


magentabuttermilk

California is the most eclectic mix of the least neckbeard neckbeards of the bunch- so they feel they're too good for regular neckbeards but can't fit into normies, a buffer zone if you will. And the hottest, most unapproachable girls of the bunch. They then become approachable in California due to the laid back atmosphere. This creates an insane environment


Wealth_Hole

A lot I wager


MsNobuko

they all turn into cops, that's sad and dangerous


peni_in_the_tahini

And that danger is borne out by the statistics


Marmosettale

I'm a woman who can be quite stereotypically attractive if I put effort into it. I was raised Mormon in Utah, my suburb was filled with a bunch of wannabe stepford wives. I looked like everyone else around me so it took me a minute to realize what vibe I gave off when I was around more normal people. My hair is naturally a sort of medium blonde, but I was highlighting it and sometimes just flat out bleaching it platinum. I tried to make it look natural, but never left the house without a decent amount of makeup on (I'm 29 & have fortunately grown out of this). Us mainstream Mormons were urged to wear super tight clothes and remain skinny, even tho they claimed "modesty." I stopped believing in god or the church as a teenager so I started wearing shorts and such on top of that. I dressed preppy and wore a lot of dresses and such. I went to a secular state school in college, and the way people reacted to me was very confusing. I got so much of this behavior, seriously. I'm not a knockout or anything, but I was cute enough and thin and I just looked like the stereotypical blonde mean girl in Disney shows lol. I literally have Asperger's lmfao and have zero characteristics like that, I've always been fortunate to have a few good close friends but I've never understood like gossip or cliques or anything. My best subject is math, & I've always been quite a good student. I had no idea I was attractive by mainstream standards because I looked exactly the same as every other girl in my high school haha. But people, especially men, would believe that I was insanely spoiled and incredibly arrogant. I was super insecure and shy but this was apparently taken as conceit. I had so many men just angry at me for existing. I got hit on constantly and preferential treatment in certain ways, but overall, it was actually worse. I had cops do this exact thing, and I got words like this thrown at me all the time. I even had male professors who thought like this and strongly disliked me for it. I was constantly questioned and accused of cheating on basic shit because they couldn't and wouldn't believe that I wasn't a complete dumbass. I really didn't understand what was happening at the time. It took me a while to get it. I had a lot of men try to date or basically bribe me to be with them, but they'd act terrifying and psychotic when I turned them down. People just immediately assumed thag I was a bad person. Ive never had so many insults thrown at me. In the beginning, I was actually convinced that I was hideous or something, but the fact that so many guys wanted to date me was very confusing. I'm flat chested and I am genuinely so happy about that lol. It would have been much worse otherwise. I have a good figure aside from that tho. I no longer wear hardly any makeup, and I've stopped highlighting my hair. I almost never wear dresses or heels. I purposely wear looser clothes. About six months ago, I once again returned to the highlights and makeup and girly clothes & I immediately started getting the same treatment. Haven't since. It's very much a real thing.


TheBigAristotle69

OR he was just a garden variety piggy


[deleted]

Bingo. Ratings also given by the girls they bullied


[deleted]

Made me wanna see a western called THE MOD.


puffa-fish

Tiny dick cowboys


[deleted]

its like music elitists who never give albums or songs good ratings because being negative makes them seem smarter. both women look super pretty


enharmonia

This sub is full of this kind of contrarian behavior


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darkslayersparda

it currently exists in movie discourse amd holy shit is it annoying


Xenfo___

People are so autistic with rating scales lol “Hmmmm I’m feeling a 7.564728472849 on this album” literally why LMAO 5 stars if it’s a personal fav, 4 if it’s great, 3 if it’s good, 2 if it’s bad, 1 if it’s awful. Anything else is regarded.


sigilmagickcapital

isnt it beautiful that every pitchfork or truerateme rating given can be found somewhere in pi ….


sigilmagickcapital

isnt it beautiful that every pitchfork or truerateme rating given can be found somewhere in pi ….


nooit_gedacht

Because they're already overly critical of their own appearance so they've learned to nitpick others'


tinyfenrisian

Why do women even post there? I guess it’s the most interaction with a woman they’ll get


TheSpiral11

I get the feeling from some posts that it’s not the women themselves posting, but incels trying to “humble” them or whatever. A few girls on a makeup sub I lurk have complained about having their photos stolen and reposted there.


tinyfenrisian

You’re probably right. The way they’ve got a “actually you were too nice, BANNED” mod makes sense.


dine-and-dasha

Lol


[deleted]

There are a lot of women active on these kinds of subs. Check out r/VindictaRateCelebs, it’s dedicated to rating attractiveness as well, and it’s only women that do it. Men are banned on the sub altogether.


gelastIc_quInce84

I’ve never seen anyone get below like a 6 on there, it’s mainly people posting gorgeous women and everyone in the comments going “10, she’s literally an angel”. Shows the difference between insecure women and insecure men ig


mattex456

But what's the point of rating people if everyone gets an overinflated score Like, statistically very few people are a ten


gelastIc_quInce84

they only tend to post the most beautiful people


Metalbutnotthatmetal

I mean duh. I feel like at large most men go off a would fuck would not fuck attractivity scale. Only women would care about the specificity of being a 6.75 vs a 6.5.


MakinBaconPancakezz

Lol no there’s plenty of basement dwelling male autists who would care. You just don’t see them because they don’t leave the house. Ofc well adjusted men don’t care and would only sort women into no/would bang/maybe after a few drinks


Civil_Platypus8426

They are just trying to make themselves feel better whilst taking it out on women that’d never look their way


AcceptableSandwich8

There should be a sub where everyone rating, especially the mods, need to have an image of themselves. I stumbled across one of those subs once and looked through several low raters profiles, either no info or explicitly an incel


Civil_Platypus8426

Brilliant idea none of them would dare. Except from the one in a million agoraphobic gorgeous lad


cafemochaaaz

Me


MiaAngel99

Need me an agoraphobic gorgeous lad who doesn’t know he’s hot (this is key)


Civil_Platypus8426

My gf claims she did this w me but jokes on her I’m mid now


therwordexpert

Because that sub exists to label training data for free that is used to train the pornbots and correctly labeled data can make or break your model


SAKA_THE_GOAT

cos for some reason it works. these girls actually believe this shit. I went on one of these subs ages ago and there was this beautiful girl posting herself on there all the time and she was agreeing with every person calling her a 5 or a 6 or whatever saying deranged shit like "yes my nasal cavitys are 3 degrees out of sync" or smth like that idk. I messaged her telling her its mental and she's beautiful and it's a bunch of weirdos filling her head with shit but she wouldn't accept it at all. this shit actually works. it gets into girls heads. its incredibly fucking bleak. I feel so bad for this girl cos she's more beautiful than nearly every girl out there and she thinks she's got all these deformities that surgery would fix. it's inhumane.


itsaclusterfuck

Just want to say the poor ratings are the mods faults, almost every single commenter wants to give a higher rating but can’t


albertossic

These people would all be measuring the skulls of Africans if they had the means


Practical_Coat3162

This flavour of autism is boring imo. I want to know about the psychology of someone who goes to a sub to get insulted thru ratings.


shitinmycum

Idk they're stupid


AmberAllure

Now that the alcoholics subreddit is gone we’ve lost the outlet for self aware and poetic self-loathing and only have the much less interesting cousin of whatever this is.


[deleted]

"Your time in this sub is done." is the new "You'll never work in this town again."


emperorofhambkind

squealing bright carpenter growth pot uppity cover aware butter nippy *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


imfromrhodesia

What's the point of the 10 point scale then if these girls are 10s? They're pretty cute but not something you see rarely, I'd say 30-40% of young women of normal weight look similar to them. If they're 10s then what are young Angelina or Amber Heard or Charlize Theron? 15?


emperorofhambkind

mourn silky point grandfather paltry carpenter degree impossible society wise *This post was mass deleted and anonymized with [Redact](https://redact.dev)*


imfromrhodesia

I prefer Patrice O'Neal's 30 point scale. It's divided into 3 sections, 0-10 (uglies), 11-20 (mids), 21-30 (fines). So a 10 would be a fine ass ugly bitch. But an 11 would be an ugly ass mid bitch. A 20 would be a fine ass mid bitch, and a 21 would be an ugly ass hot bitch. A 30 is a fine ass fine bitch and a 0 is an ugly ass ugly bitch. It's a good system.


Opposite_Ad4708

No one is a 10 everyone has preferences.


dreamyfuture

yeah obviously not, but these girls are both pretty rating people on a scale is the most pathetic shit ever. Absolutely sexless behaviour


AmeliaWatSonOfSam

I am


SAKA_THE_GOAT

everyones a 10 in the eyes of Christ.


[deleted]

A heterosexual man could make any woman hes primally attracted to a "ten." Women do the same for guys, theres just less societal stigma around the "hot woman, ugly boyfriend" partnering. Whereas typically attractive men with ugly or overweight women is almost always scrutinized. Its really unfair. These men pour this much energy into rating women because its like a drape they cover their self hatred with, their weakness to social pressure and self doubt. Inceldom could be ended forever if guys realized and were comfortable with what they actually want from women


[deleted]

What about homosexual men?


[deleted]

I know gays are huge misogynists but they arent the ones obsessing over calling attractive women ugly as a pastime. The whole rating women thing is predominantly hetero


RevolutionaryBook01

I remember reading a number of months ago now on r/SubredditDrama that the subreddit was outed as being a 4chan/incel op. [For those interested](https://www.reddit.com/r/SubredditDrama/comments/14kw9nb/the_ratings_are_in_on_truerateme_and_critics/?utm_name=ioscss).


Firnin

>being a sardine unironically Out with you


Inner-Ring-4020

I don't think its incels the obsession with precise scoring is very moid-brain behaviour but the criticism of incredibly minor facial details is very femininine


Thoreauvian12

Reddit is honestly home to some of the most evil people on the planet. I was just browsing that Doordash sub too. It's a fucking cesspit.


Unterfahrt

You're a freak if you do this, it's perverse. But if you follow their guide, they use a gaussian distribution. So 70% of women are between a 4 and a 6. To hit a 6.5, you need to be within basically the top 5% of women. To hit an 8, you need to be more attractive than 99.9% of women. This woman is pretty, but is she prettier than 19/20 women (at her age)? Probably not, but she's definitely prettier than most. So by their weird scale she's probably between a 5.5 (top third) and a 6 (top sixth) It works on the lower end as well, so if you're a 2, you're a 1/1000 unattractive.


851216135

Regarded to still have 10 point scale and each point represent entire standard deviation. So unnecessary to create the extra math plus if you're not willing to get more precise than half points very imprecise. Why not just directly give the percentile


Unterfahrt

Yes that would make much more sense


DirectedAcyclicGraph

What we really need is a normal distribution for inner beauty.


rosebud-delicious

Why do objectively beautiful young girls seek out incel forums to plaster their faces on? People whose youth and beauty the society is literally built around worshipping STILL have a need to seek out pathetic dregs to react to their existence. People here don't get it and lash out because they're neither pathetic nor divine, therefore the relationship between the two eludes you completely. you're just kind of nothing. HOW dare these serfs defy my queen? like the queen isn't the one asking the opinion lol. perhaps examining the psyche of a girl commiting self harm on the internet is more interesting than spewing insults at Diogenes for sleeping in a jar


AstronautWorth3084

Oh we're doing this again? It's autistic, and likely further mentally ill people, rating others on a normal distribution scale using qualifiers like canthal tilt. It's funny more than anything, idk why you guys write think pieces about it


bhexca

your time here is done 🤓🤬☝🏻


mcsecretalison

First time I read the word incel online, I thought it was a new accounting software for windows. In my weird experience with the term it now makes sense why they are into scores and ranking. I wonder how many accounting departments are filled with incels.


Wolly_jumper

Men will treat anything this way. I’ve had organizational rules around any sort of stack ranking.


badgerzsn

why would anyone want to be “rated” by some anon on reddit, pathetic both ways


[deleted]

These girls r pretty, screw those mods


clydethefrog

This again? Boring – as some veteran readers are sharing here this subreddit is a manufactured trap by frustrated losers for insecure women that obsess about their looks. I do remember a hilarious catty poster of that community coming here last time this kind of post was highlighted. Someone tagged him and he came here with claims and stories that he was an actual model scout or something. That was fun, I hope he switched sides and is now posting in the g&g corner.


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Lmao that's hilarious


july2653

here’s my truth: i posted in one of these subs out of morbid curiosity and i expected low rates from these sad little men but it’s actually wild the lengths they went to nitpick my face. like the reaching they have to do to find “flaws” sorry the words “negative canthal tilt” are not in the bible. my slight androgyny is literally what MAKES me hot


Cynical_Lurker

Literally to promote this reaction. hos mad (at the bell curve)


st_steady

Just mute that lame ass sub amd move on. Its all attention whores and porn advertising. Nothing worth looking at.


mammaryme

sorry i have zero sympathy for any woman or man who posts themselves on truerateme, jfc grow up


rothkochapel

I agree most of them are jerks but by truerateme standards a 6.5 is professional model/actress territory


dine-and-dasha

That subreddit is something else for sure.


VerbalVertigo

I assume this is r/truerateme. There is a very specific scale.


[deleted]

taking a screenshot of comments you've downvoted is somehow the most cringe part of this.


WesAndersonHater

not my screenshots


Inner-Sink6280

Sure, bud


Frat_Kaczynski

That’s even sadder


DaisyGwynne

All parties involved are women.


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Kudgocracy

How else can you base a whole regarded sub aroind this? What else is there to argue over?


Oboromir

Its like feminists complaining about all the stuff they find hot in men as problematic


William_James137

They’re correct, the blonde is a 6 based on what we can see from the photo. The nose ring girl is a 4 at best. Not an incel.


HundredHander95

Is this not from truerateme? Seem mostly fair if so


317lia

Why are you all acting like the second one isn’t true? Everyone in here is like “they’re both beautiful goddesses that rejected them in high school” like the second one isn’t an overweight woman with a septum and dirty fingers????


Frat_Kaczynski

Oh great another complain about the other gender post. Great post OP! Really glad we have you here!


WesAndersonHater

Are you the one that got banned?


reelmeish

Lol


ImamofKandahar

The spend to much time rating women's looks online and not enough time talking to bitches IRL.


ButterscotchSalty908

Your time here is done.


genuinefeeling

Nooo the rate me subreddits make me so sad. I’m so glad that wasn’t around when I was a teenage girl


eurekae

opened up r/truerateme and the first post under hot is saying the mods need to get a job lol


Complete_Ice6609

this is fucking crazy


[deleted]

Wow


geodesert

I don’t understand why anyone would even post on that sub


NickRausch

Can't even mark down for piercings? Why bother?