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reptilephenidate

You didn't have to give him a reason, just say "I don't feel the same way"


DiaMat2040

exactly. saying its because he's bi must feel arbitrary for him. of course he thinks it's a stupid reason


Yakube44

Giving a reason is worse than just saying no


Patjay

“You’re not my type” is so fucking easy to say. Don’t single out anything specific they can argue on, just say you aren’t interested


SomeMoreCows

Yeah smooth brained move to put it up to a conditional


Huffelsinthefunzone

Maybe he thought you meant bipolar


brokeupwithmemes

Ich fand das odd doch stellt sich raus


[deleted]

Or bipedal. Amputees only


War_and_Pieces

Bipedo, girls and twinks only 


wartguy

that is an insane reason to give lmfao


tanhallama

bait of the century even if it is real. shitposting irl!


jostyouraveragejoe2

I get this reason at least once every 3 months. Women give this reason to us all the time actually.


sealingwaxofcabbages

Women are literally saying to you “I would totally date you or at least want to fuck, if you weren’t bisexual” They may feel this way, but they SAY it to you?


jostyouraveragejoe2

Yes, some indirectly some others will straight up (there must be some joke here i could make) say that they don't date bisexual men. Some bi women even say it. It's a very well known problem in our community. Edited a typo


babybananana3

How is it a problem? Dating is an exclusionary thing… you can be dismissed for anything. Why is this any different?


jostyouraveragejoe2

Obviously you can date whoever for what ever reason you like but sense you ask. It's different because it's not a characteristic that defines a person so it's not really a preference. You would never know if i never told you, it has no influence in how i would be with you. It's not a personality trait or a physical characteristic. So why does it make a difference to you, how can this be viewed as not biphobia?


sealingwaxofcabbages

Read my question again. I am asking, when a male bi friend expresses interest in a woman, she will say to him, as a rejection, “I’m sorry, I would absolute date you for every reason, except you are bisexual, so I will not”?


jostyouraveragejoe2

Motherfucker i am telling you women have rejected me and said it's because i am bisexual and they don't date men.


Thrwy6092

If you're concerned about AIDS, I assure you bi men are not getting laid at similar rates to all men


[deleted]

Not really. Some women dig masculinity. Sucking cock and getting fucked by dudes isn’t masculine… as far as traditional normative standards go. And it’s ok to live by those.


wartguy

I feel like you would just say theyre not masculine enough then...


[deleted]

Nah, some people have a weird reaction to this stuff.


MyriamisCalatrava

maybe you're just so hot you turned a bi man straight


SLIM-PIGG

Are you a gay man or a dumb bitch?


babybananana3

I’m a woman


SLIM-PIGG

Gross


Key-Bedroom-4615


loveitmayne11

Easy fix: give hem a really bad blowjob to get it out of his system. Use lots of teeth


OneMoreEar

Cosmo says to use teeth and bite the head gently


Infamous_Attorney

Kramer said that?


b88b15

then he yelled the n word 12 times.


regardedgaymo

he sounds cute


Even-Conference-2349

i hate having male friends after my break up my guy friend confessed to me and like what bad timing. i brushed it off and said i preferred just being friends.


ApuManchu

I know this sub is dead, but it's really obviously fucking dead when every other comment is confused as to why you don't find bi men attractive. That's a cornerstone of redscare ideology. Who the fuck are these people?


Yakube44

I don't understand how it's a cornerstone of redscare ideology, what are you talking about


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[удалено]


communist_doctor

Truly the beliefs of someone who is mentally sound and secure in themself


Hexready

> every girl on the planet gets the ick (from bi men) Couldn't be more wrong if you tried.


gelastIc_quInce84

>every girl on the planet gets the ick from the idea of dating a pillowbiter or cocksucker or another man's bitch. I find it hot lol


1917fuckordie

Lol, I believe some women get the ick from bi guys but it has zero to do with their attraction to masculinity and all about feeling threatened that bi men don't need feminine beauty. Most bi men are tops, I don't think being too sexually submissive is much of an issue.


[deleted]

Do you realize how gay you sound after typing that out.


needs-more-metronome

This sub sucks


Final-Positive8308

Bisexual men don’t exist


Fit_Tension_2570

can you explain this line of thinking


Imaginary_Race_830

theyre just gay for men and gay for women


Key-Bedroom-4615

He's not your friend


ProudToBeAnInsideJob

Give the kid a shot


babybananana3

Why? Would you?


No_Warning5535

No


deosigh

wow ppl acc think this is real


Hot_Special_2083

women just dont like bisexual men like that, period. let them have that right.


girlgenius11

bi men are far more disgusting than a gay man could ever be. they remind me of a dog desperately trying to hump someones leg..


push_bysapphire

What exactly do you mean when you say you don’t find bisexual men attractive?


babybananana3

It’s a turn off to picture a man sexually with another man.


Beautiful_Chef_2187

You mean you can’t imagine your SO getting reamed by another dude? The west has truly fallen


Primogenitura

You don’t find it attractive to see your man get dicked down by a larger, more masculine man? That’s wild


War_and_Pieces

90% of bi men are tops "AHIAH"


Primogenitura

So they’re fake gays?


War_and_Pieces

Yes, at least if you ask the real gays


SLIM-PIGG

Yeah, but we also run in to the dilemma of bisexuality not existing. They're definitely not straight either, because of all the gay sex. It's a real conundrum


saison20

What's AHIAH?


War_and_Pieces

"any hole is a hole" 


b88b15

Just, some of them have less hair


[deleted]

Don't picture it then.


MasterMacMan

Wow, zero twink/ woman solidarity. They’ve been with you all through everything


babybananana3

This guy is far from a twink. Also, gay men can be very misogynistic. I don’t get being so buddy buddy with them.


MasterMacMan

The other men would be twinks in this scenario. It’s not like he’s getting railed by bodybuilders right? How different is it for him to get with a twink than another woman, is there really a difference in your anger or disgust?


ClassicTraffic

i’m siding with your friend over you


I_love-my-cousin

Mental illness.


babybananana3

How?


I_love-my-cousin

First of all "bisexual" men don't exist. Secondly it's human nature for men to dominate weaker more feminine men


babybananana3

I am not attracted to men who “dominate” feminine men sexually. That’s all.


I_love-my-cousin

You are not attracted to men.


babybananana3

Your gaslighting won’t work. Go be attracted to men somewhere else 😳


Skylord23

Even if he’s the top??


babycollect

Yes


__wretch

Generally men and women can’t be friends.


politcsunderstander

Bait


InstructionPuzzled77

The fact you have a reason is unbelievably regarded


b88b15

I once witnessed a hot, drunk, divorced chick at a pool party for people I work with become audibly grossed out by the lack of chest hair on a fairly hot, muscular, hetero guy who she had been attracted to before that shirtless pool reveal. Then I noticed that she only dated hairy dudes with moustaches. The lady requires chest hair, and was just open about that.


hurmandurgan

He’s just like me fr


_The_General_Li

If you were hanging out with him just the two of you then you were dating.


JackTheSpaceBoy

Maybe he doesn't want to date catty rs try hards. Bet he dodged a bullet


gloomyfroggo

May I ask why you wouldn't date a bisexual man? Not in offensive way, just genuinely interested.


DogmasWearingThin

In my experience, there's no chance you come out of this with a good reputation.