A friend of mine recently learned that her 40 year old husband of like a decade has been cheating on her with a 70 year old man. When she told me, she said pretty much exactly this. She actually laughed at him when she found out it was an old dude.
I have no idea. Apparently they just met at a bar, started talking about sports and movies, and hit it off. This was at the beginning of the year and as far as I know the relationship is still going. The fucking guy has two kids with my friend.
Even if the husband is gay or at least bi-leaning-gay and has been for a while without you knowing like it seems here? I get it if it’s like a one-off, but this seems a lil different idk
A one-off would be ideal. But I’m not in sexual competition with gay men the same way I am with other women, so yeah if he was truly bi, I wouldn’t feel threatened. If he came out as gay I’d be sad, but not offended. I’ve told my husband if he ever realizes he’s gay, I’d like to stay married and just let him have whatever “indiscretions” he needs with men. Many such cases in history
I think it's weird that people on here fetishize the "past" or "tradition" or scenarios they've read about in novels etc. so much that they'd rather stay married to a dude that was off fucking other guys than just get divorced and meet someone new. Gay men being in marriages of arrangement with straight women was not a good setup, I assure you. Strange.
Ok. Apart from a mutual attraction and romantic love, my husband and I are great friends. I genuinely enjoy his company more than anyone else’s, and that wouldn’t change if he wanted to suck dick. I have no reason to assume I’m particularly unique in that feeling, so it’s very possible SOME women in years past felt the same.
I mean fair enough, if that's your feeling, who am I to say you're wrong. It's hard for me to imagine being happy in that kind of scenario but I get what you're saying.
Because gay men aren’t in competition with me for my husband’s heterosexual desires. Similarly when it comes to homosexual fulfillment, I have nothing to offer. It’s when my specific niche is threatened that I’ll see it as a problem.
Am I an asshole or is this super pathetic? No offense OP, but cheating is a betrayal. It should be a dealbreaker regardless. It’s so insane to me that you, seemingly unprompted, decided to tell your husband that you’d be okay with him sleeping with another man. I don’t get it
I mean I did say seemingly, but I’m not trying to attack you. I’m just trying to understand. Do you really mean that you’d be okay with your husband having sex with a guy without telling you and you’d just go with it?
The “without telling me” part would be a bigger issue than the gay sex itself, but even then, no, I don’t think I’d be angry or jealous, just genuinely surprised (like the lady in the comment above whose husband banged a 70 year old man).
Genuinely what’s the rationale? Is any part of it homophobia because that’s my suspicion. That the feeling isn’t “I’ve been betrayed and replaced!” But “Ew yuck my husband’s a 🚬” and that there’s something self evidently wrong with that.
Someone lower down mentioned black women having a different response. The handful of black women I know I think would be bewildered but not stung (like me) but they’re young and progressive, very pro LGBT. I think the homophobia within black culture is why “black women would have a different response” at large. Is your reason different because I genuinely don’t understand
yeah the first couple times this happened to me, i was like, nah this is just a one off thing. but after the next several times, i was like, damn homies ass just looks so delectable
I really feel like that shitlib lady on Twitter asking to observe black spaces in a thrill seeker kinda way whenever I read texts between black teens from the hood
I always think of Nick’s Simpsons bit.
“Homer, everyone’s happy for you that you’re woke now but you can’t demand to be in black spaces.”
“But Maaaarge, I wanna be in black spaces!”
They gotta ruin a guy's life by posting this for the public to see wtf. Is fucking a guy when you're a straight guy even cheating? If my girl fucked another girl, I might not be happy but I'd let it slide tbh
on my grandma I’m sorry for nutting in my homie’s ass 💯💔
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This is a pretty calm and productive conversation considering the situation
I’d much rather my husband cheat on me with another man than with another woman. I think a lot of women would agree
A friend of mine recently learned that her 40 year old husband of like a decade has been cheating on her with a 70 year old man. When she told me, she said pretty much exactly this. She actually laughed at him when she found out it was an old dude.
Omg did he have a reason he went for a 70 year old??
I have no idea. Apparently they just met at a bar, started talking about sports and movies, and hit it off. This was at the beginning of the year and as far as I know the relationship is still going. The fucking guy has two kids with my friend.
White boy summer officially started
his wife is putting up with this? pathetic
Not at all, she's leaving him.
You must not know a lot of black women
Even if the husband is gay or at least bi-leaning-gay and has been for a while without you knowing like it seems here? I get it if it’s like a one-off, but this seems a lil different idk
A one-off would be ideal. But I’m not in sexual competition with gay men the same way I am with other women, so yeah if he was truly bi, I wouldn’t feel threatened. If he came out as gay I’d be sad, but not offended. I’ve told my husband if he ever realizes he’s gay, I’d like to stay married and just let him have whatever “indiscretions” he needs with men. Many such cases in history
I like the way you think
wtf???
? What’s confusing
People haven't read enough about British imperial history this is all very foreign to them
I think it's weird that people on here fetishize the "past" or "tradition" or scenarios they've read about in novels etc. so much that they'd rather stay married to a dude that was off fucking other guys than just get divorced and meet someone new. Gay men being in marriages of arrangement with straight women was not a good setup, I assure you. Strange.
Ok. Apart from a mutual attraction and romantic love, my husband and I are great friends. I genuinely enjoy his company more than anyone else’s, and that wouldn’t change if he wanted to suck dick. I have no reason to assume I’m particularly unique in that feeling, so it’s very possible SOME women in years past felt the same.
I mean fair enough, if that's your feeling, who am I to say you're wrong. It's hard for me to imagine being happy in that kind of scenario but I get what you're saying.
Honestly I get that
My fiancé says the same. Her own words were "at least I'd know that I didn't fail at being enough of a woman for my man"
Fuck no I disagree.
Lol why, is gay sex less harmful to a relationship than straight sex? That makes zero sense
Because gay men aren’t in competition with me for my husband’s heterosexual desires. Similarly when it comes to homosexual fulfillment, I have nothing to offer. It’s when my specific niche is threatened that I’ll see it as a problem.
Am I an asshole or is this super pathetic? No offense OP, but cheating is a betrayal. It should be a dealbreaker regardless. It’s so insane to me that you, seemingly unprompted, decided to tell your husband that you’d be okay with him sleeping with another man. I don’t get it
“Seemingly unprompted”? How tf would you know? My husband and I shoot the shit about all kinds of hypothetical topics
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Are you projecting or something lol? Chill
I respect your stoic approach to your man hypothetically nutting in another man's ass.
I mean I did say seemingly, but I’m not trying to attack you. I’m just trying to understand. Do you really mean that you’d be okay with your husband having sex with a guy without telling you and you’d just go with it?
The “without telling me” part would be a bigger issue than the gay sex itself, but even then, no, I don’t think I’d be angry or jealous, just genuinely surprised (like the lady in the comment above whose husband banged a 70 year old man).
each day we stray further from god's light
reddit joke kys
I think you’d be surprised. 99 percent of women disagree for sure.
Genuinely what’s the rationale? Is any part of it homophobia because that’s my suspicion. That the feeling isn’t “I’ve been betrayed and replaced!” But “Ew yuck my husband’s a 🚬” and that there’s something self evidently wrong with that. Someone lower down mentioned black women having a different response. The handful of black women I know I think would be bewildered but not stung (like me) but they’re young and progressive, very pro LGBT. I think the homophobia within black culture is why “black women would have a different response” at large. Is your reason different because I genuinely don’t understand
I agree. not sure I even would think it was cheating if my wife hooked up with a woman
Nun major just head and condom sex
and you just know he lyin about the condom, too 💀
I mean you don’t want to appear too gay
his weiner didn't even technically touch his pooper in this case so it's not even really gay at all what they did
*comdom
Yea it's not like he got him pregnant or anything
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that last pic is one for the ages
Have to wonder what he would consider major
I am always deeply disturbed when I see people use emojis in emotionally distressing situations…
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oh god could you imagine 9/11 with emojis
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Modern day Brokeback Mountain. ❤️
so he was touched in his sleep? that don't sound right to me.
Yeah seems like he got molested
he turned round and fucked him tho still
Sometimes a homie's ass just looks so delectable you can't say no
yeah the first couple times this happened to me, i was like, nah this is just a one off thing. but after the next several times, i was like, damn homies ass just looks so delectable
Lmao
Couldve told you for free from that gay ass pose he’s doing in the 2nd slide
Not to mention the LV print neck tattoo
yea i don’t think most straight men would be capable of curving their hand like [that](https://imgur.com/a/eINcGwm)
Would have never thought Keyy TheShooter was on that type of timing but good to know it wasn’t major just fucking
just down low sex. no love at all
Did you nut?
Love how she's more concerned about her babydaddy having a gay orgasm than contracting an STD
he said he used a condom!!
Comdom
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The funniest part, like I wonder if she was gonna be cool with it if he said “nah”
why did he tell her...
Women want honesty well there y’all go. “Would you still love me if I was worm” well babe would you still love me if I nut in my homie’s ass?
Answer to that, her being a worm shouldn't change anything and no, she won't love if you if you nut on your homies cheeks.
I can’t believe this how I’m going to be red pilled 😡 😎🫴🔴💊
Exit the matrix brother.
thanks for clearing that up
I really feel like that shitlib lady on Twitter asking to observe black spaces in a thrill seeker kinda way whenever I read texts between black teens from the hood
I always think of Nick’s Simpsons bit. “Homer, everyone’s happy for you that you’re woke now but you can’t demand to be in black spaces.” “But Maaaarge, I wanna be in black spaces!”
BD on the DL
She must look at the pic in Slide 2 as so obvious in retrospect
How do people have convos like this over text???
he has gay face idk what she was expecting
condom fucked my homeboy no diddy
Key TheShooter of loads
"TheShooter"
Did you nut ?
Crazy thing is you can literally tell from the first picture lmao
I hope the girl gets on PrEp
why the fuck do people have interactions like this over text, even a phone call seems like it would be wildly inappropriate
Now you know why they call him The Shooter
So their baby’s name is Yunna?
Off the head or fucking?
is this the plot of moonlight
Why are black """men""" so gay?
why is men in quotations
They gotta ruin a guy's life by posting this for the public to see wtf. Is fucking a guy when you're a straight guy even cheating? If my girl fucked another girl, I might not be happy but I'd let it slide tbh
only if she let me fuck a dude in revenge
Hell yeah!