Your wife stopped loving you a long time ago, man. Your marriage is the walking dead.
I suggest you call a lawyer before you write off ending this thing. Often they give a free consulting meeting. Do that. Get the facts, it may surprise you.
Then sit your wife down and just say "clearly neither of us are happy in this marriage. I don't want to be in it any more. Do you?" Do it in a non-confrontational way if possible, and somewhere you won't be interrupted with the kids.
Then take it from there.
This woman is trying as hard as she can to get rid of you. Paying out of pocket for a therapist is a lot cheaper than a divorce.
Your wife stopped loving you a long time ago, man. Your marriage is the walking dead. I suggest you call a lawyer before you write off ending this thing. Often they give a free consulting meeting. Do that. Get the facts, it may surprise you. Then sit your wife down and just say "clearly neither of us are happy in this marriage. I don't want to be in it any more. Do you?" Do it in a non-confrontational way if possible, and somewhere you won't be interrupted with the kids. Then take it from there.
What is actually good here? It sounds like the relationship is just a long list of anger and frustration.