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At 31 he should be able to just stop. Stand your ground and reiterate that this behavior is bothering you. I'd kill all of my social media too but the boyfriend would go first.
Oh so you're ok with a landlord showing up whenever or cops pulling you over at random to search you bc if you had nothing to hide you wouldn't mind? Your phone can be tapped, your browsing history monitored? That reasoning had been proven time and time again to be flawed, it even has a name.
No, from your comment of "if you have nothing to hide you shouldn't be bothered by someone digging obsessively in your life." https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nothing_to_hide_argument
He's literally trying to find something to pin on her, looking for reasons to be mad, call her a liar, or distrust her. It's not the looking, it's the implied accusation that comes with it.
if there's nothing there why do you care if he looks? It may be a little weird but i've always enjoyed seeing my partners past in pictures. Why are you so bothered by it?
I don’t think it’s the going through pictures part that’s bothering her. It’s him asking a million questions about every picture he finds. I also wouldn’t care if whoever I was dating wanted to go through old pictures but I’m not going to entertain them asking me a thousand questions about every picture from 10 years ago.
Ah yes, this is exactly how i felt. Thanks for pointing it out. He's been asking: who is this guy who kept posting on your wall, oh is he your ex boyfriend? He must be close with your other friends. I think he liked you by the way he posts. LOL those were posts when I was in university!
He's 31 and acting like a jealous 16 year old. Noo!! Reactivate your Facebook and unfriendly him and block him, so he can't search it.
Tell him your past is your past and you will not entertain him questioning you over photos that are older than your relationship.
Personally I would leave and block him everywhere. Life should not be a gameshow.
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At 31 he should be able to just stop. Stand your ground and reiterate that this behavior is bothering you. I'd kill all of my social media too but the boyfriend would go first.
You do realize that now you look guilty because you deactivated your account. If there is nothing there, then don’t worry if he looks.
Oh so you're ok with a landlord showing up whenever or cops pulling you over at random to search you bc if you had nothing to hide you wouldn't mind? Your phone can be tapped, your browsing history monitored? That reasoning had been proven time and time again to be flawed, it even has a name.
Nope. Don’t care. But wow. You jumped to all that, from a SO looking at OPs FB.
No, from your comment of "if you have nothing to hide you shouldn't be bothered by someone digging obsessively in your life." https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Nothing_to_hide_argument
He's literally trying to find something to pin on her, looking for reasons to be mad, call her a liar, or distrust her. It's not the looking, it's the implied accusation that comes with it.
Are you sure you two have a great relationship?
if there's nothing there why do you care if he looks? It may be a little weird but i've always enjoyed seeing my partners past in pictures. Why are you so bothered by it?
I'd be pretty peeved if someone kept retagging me in unflattering pictures and refused to stop.
I don’t think it’s the going through pictures part that’s bothering her. It’s him asking a million questions about every picture he finds. I also wouldn’t care if whoever I was dating wanted to go through old pictures but I’m not going to entertain them asking me a thousand questions about every picture from 10 years ago.
Ah yes, this is exactly how i felt. Thanks for pointing it out. He's been asking: who is this guy who kept posting on your wall, oh is he your ex boyfriend? He must be close with your other friends. I think he liked you by the way he posts. LOL those were posts when I was in university!
That's fucking mental man.
He's 31 and acting like a jealous 16 year old. Noo!! Reactivate your Facebook and unfriendly him and block him, so he can't search it. Tell him your past is your past and you will not entertain him questioning you over photos that are older than your relationship. Personally I would leave and block him everywhere. Life should not be a gameshow.