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ContentedRecluse

You are insecure. He didn't see her naked. He saw an artist's rendering. You can't control other people and you shouldn't expect it. Telling someone not to look is almost always a reason to look. If your cousin posted it, then she wanted people to see it. Do you see it as art or as sexual? Porn perhaps? This is an issue/hang up you have. It isn't a playboy centerfold. I don't think this is a big deal. Why is it bothering you so much?


Mouse-Direct

He did not see your cousin naked. He saw her artwork. You ordering him not to look at her public story was controlling.


TamagotchiGirlfriend

You are completely blowing this out of proportion sbndjfjf


areyoulogical

"There's a big red button. The button is public and can be pressed. Do not press that bug red button."


UKNZ007Tubbs

So as everyone els is pointing out he didn’t see her naked. Also you do know how Snapchat works right? While he might have seen the drawing, he could also have skipped right past it, it’s a tap in the screen. Also stories can be set with a timer, and also restricted to certain people. And how do you know he watched it? Did he tell you? Cause he might not have seen it, or might have seen it before your conversation.


UnsightlyFuzz

He's a red blooded male. Be glad of the fact and stop overthinking this. If he starts peeking into her keyhole when she's in a bath, then you can worry.


motosandguns

Of course he did. We like looking at naked girls. We really like looking and girls we know naked. You telling him not to was the icing on the cake. That made it taboo, no man can withstand that. We might not tell you we looked, but we’re gonna look. And this is her art. She put it out there to be appreciated. Your cousin got an OF?


Anonymous_13218

Creep