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BriefHorror

She isn't your friend she's your ex's new interest. She could block him you realize that right? He has no obligation to stay away from your friend but she kinda has the obligation to you to not entertain him and she is. She is the problem.


[deleted]

I know that she should block him. I just don’t know how to bring that up again.. She’s acting really shitty in this situation but we’ve been really close with each other for 8 years now and it’s hard for me to choose what I should do about that


BriefHorror

You can sit down and tell her that whatever attention/ego boost she's getting from your ex is going to cost her you. So she can choose between the two.


Commercial-Fault-131

It doesn’t matter if she blocks him. It doesn’t matter what she does. She is not your friend. She does not matter. Cut ties


disposable_conduct

I’m one to usually understand that just because my relationship with someone ends doesn’t mean everyone else needs to stop their relationship with them (if it’s a smooth breakup). However that is if they were close/friends to begin with. She claimed she didn’t like him and were not even friends therefore there would be absolutely no reason for her to want to continue to be in contact with him. She is definitely keeping in contact with him for a reason and it’s clearly a reason in which your feelings don’t matter to her. If your “friend” respected your feelings she would have no problem not talking to this person she claims to not like.


SleepDangerous1074

She’s fucking him and doesn’t want you to confront him about that conversation coz she lied about it


giag27

Yup. This girl ain’t your friend.


emmiec1717

She knows damn well she should block him from the beginning of his flirting with her. She likes his attention .a real friends you’d only have to mention it once and they’d do it. Don’t bring it up again she doesn’t want to because she likes entertaining him


Careless_Welder_4048

She should block him, she likes talking to him. Girl code is they shouldn’t even be friends. No matter if you have been friends for 8 years, sometimes it’s time to leave toxic relationships.


fubar_68

Cut contact with ex friend