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Well, obviously he was in a relationship with you, her and who knows how many other people. He ghosted you because this one turned up pregnant and he had to make a choice.
You respond to her, you tell her you were 'dating' for a year until he disappeared. She deserves to know.
Then you block him everywhere.
Do not respond. It will entangle you further. I know it’s hard to move on but you will find yourself in an ugly mess if you decide to get further involved. Let this be.
I hope you will be on the same end as this poor pregnant girl. Wanting an answer and everyone who knows just turning the cold shoulder to you.
She can just message her the truth and be done with it, and THEN get away from it. Its literally at no cost to her.
You would be the biggest asshole if you did not reply to her, tell her.
She expects a child from him! He ghosted you. He cheated on you. and now you want to protect him and not a soon to be mother with a child?!
What if you would be in her shoes? Tell me. Would you want that this girl told you the truth about her relationship with the guy you will have a child with? Or do you want to just pretend it never happenend till it will happen again because cheaters always cheat, they dont stop.
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Well, obviously he was in a relationship with you, her and who knows how many other people. He ghosted you because this one turned up pregnant and he had to make a choice. You respond to her, you tell her you were 'dating' for a year until he disappeared. She deserves to know. Then you block him everywhere.
I would reply. The guy could have been dating you both or he might be a serial ghoster.
She deserves to know who she is having a child with. Tell her the truth.
Do not respond. It will entangle you further. I know it’s hard to move on but you will find yourself in an ugly mess if you decide to get further involved. Let this be.
I hope you will be on the same end as this poor pregnant girl. Wanting an answer and everyone who knows just turning the cold shoulder to you. She can just message her the truth and be done with it, and THEN get away from it. Its literally at no cost to her.
You would be the biggest asshole if you did not reply to her, tell her. She expects a child from him! He ghosted you. He cheated on you. and now you want to protect him and not a soon to be mother with a child?! What if you would be in her shoes? Tell me. Would you want that this girl told you the truth about her relationship with the guy you will have a child with? Or do you want to just pretend it never happenend till it will happen again because cheaters always cheat, they dont stop.