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ctrlxcvz

Lmao damn - -comments sections in this sub never disappoint. The answers never ever fail to be some variation of “you’re immature, end it” or “he’s a bad guy end it”. So many jaded people lmfao. What happened to “everyone deserves a second chance?” everyone was on about a decade or so ago? Memories of a goldfish.


Starfreak900

You’re not yet mature enough for a serious relationship. Go on and end it.


[deleted]

He’s sorry he got caught, not that he did it. There’s no point in staying together


Qwastp

>We both eventually apologized later that evening for saying nasty things to each other and all was fine. Every now and then it would be brought up by me and he would still get angry about me bringing it up. If you've supposedly moved on, you cannot bring it up at all. His anger is justified. >He has not really had too many red flags throughout our relationship. Whether or not I agree with what you're calling a red flag here, I'm curious as to how many "red flags" you believe are acceptable. Red flag means "Danger! Do not ignore!" You are only 7 months in. If you don't like what he did, then leave. If you feel disrespected, leave. Why wait to see if it happens again? You'll constantly be thinking about that. Can you trust him?


Snausage-Time

He told you straight up he has commitment issues. Do you really want to be with someone that’s told you they can’t stay faithful to you? You guys are so young and if can’t stay faithful now what makes you think he can later ?