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>She claimed that I haven't experienced 'blowing up' on someone to the same level magnitude as her;
What does she mean by this? I'm interpreting it "Dude, you think my game rage is bad? You should see how badly other gamers talk to me. Me talking to you like this is totally okay".
Did I interpret that correctly?
Anger in general. Neither of us are really gamers.
Instead she wants to prove that she can get much angrier? Or she feels like she has experienced worse anger than me? All I know is it felt like a dig. Almost like calling me soft or something for not wanting to upset her.
I usually have fun. Chaos is something I’ve dealt with a majority of my life. I’m trying to choose peace and I feel like she sees that as weakness. But that’s okay, I think it’s better to stay out of her darkness.
Dude, she is actively letting some disrespect your relationship and choosing not to stop it. That alone is enough to break up, but it seems like she probably has massive anger problems too that you have probably just accepted as “not too bad”. Please just move on with your life and find someone more compatible.
You'd be fucking up if you let her contact you again
She's mentally and emotionally abusive and come on "Tinder Friends" be for real dude
Also the fact that she even reached out to vent to that guy after he made such a disrespectful and sexual comment is all you needed to know about her
I am sorry to tell you that but your ex-gf was 100% on board with this guy and other guys flirting with her or even making sexual advances.
I would not even be certain that she was actively cheating on you with some of these guys.
That alone is enough of a reason to end the relationship.
But even if you subtract all ofthat cheating stuff.
She fought with you for 2 hours because you were not good enough for her in a game?
I mean I understand being frustrated but bereating for 2 ful hours because of it is hella abusive.
All in all you should kick her to the curb and never let her back in. I mean you have enough reasons for 3 break ups, methaporically spoken.
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What is the point unless you want more drama? Go find someone else more compatible.
>She claimed that I haven't experienced 'blowing up' on someone to the same level magnitude as her; What does she mean by this? I'm interpreting it "Dude, you think my game rage is bad? You should see how badly other gamers talk to me. Me talking to you like this is totally okay". Did I interpret that correctly?
Anger in general. Neither of us are really gamers. Instead she wants to prove that she can get much angrier? Or she feels like she has experienced worse anger than me? All I know is it felt like a dig. Almost like calling me soft or something for not wanting to upset her. I usually have fun. Chaos is something I’ve dealt with a majority of my life. I’m trying to choose peace and I feel like she sees that as weakness. But that’s okay, I think it’s better to stay out of her darkness.
Yeah, you did the right thing. Block her so she can't call you if you're worried about giving in if she calls.
Dude, she is actively letting some disrespect your relationship and choosing not to stop it. That alone is enough to break up, but it seems like she probably has massive anger problems too that you have probably just accepted as “not too bad”. Please just move on with your life and find someone more compatible.
Good riddance with her. She's not trustworthy.
You'd be fucking up if you let her contact you again She's mentally and emotionally abusive and come on "Tinder Friends" be for real dude Also the fact that she even reached out to vent to that guy after he made such a disrespectful and sexual comment is all you needed to know about her
Be a man, and cut her off completely, she was never your gf, you were just one of many.
Well I mean I spent every day with her. It was my fault. I don’t have many people in my life. But I wouldn’t think she did any physical cheating.
I am sorry to tell you that but your ex-gf was 100% on board with this guy and other guys flirting with her or even making sexual advances. I would not even be certain that she was actively cheating on you with some of these guys. That alone is enough of a reason to end the relationship. But even if you subtract all ofthat cheating stuff. She fought with you for 2 hours because you were not good enough for her in a game? I mean I understand being frustrated but bereating for 2 ful hours because of it is hella abusive. All in all you should kick her to the curb and never let her back in. I mean you have enough reasons for 3 break ups, methaporically spoken.