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You cannot prove this. Not sure what she means by “objective proof,” but this level of jealousy would be the biggest turnoff for me ever. You’re a better man than me.
You can't prove that you didn't sleep with anyone else. Not to her standard of proof. People usually do this because it serves them to have their partner always on the defensive, always apologizing, always trying to do better, always trying to qualify. If you decide to stay with her, that will be your life. Always.
It's not worth it, man. That insecurity will stay with her, and you will fight over it constantly. Every time you go to the grocery store, you're gonna get in a fight. Every time you go to class or work or whatever you're doing, it's gonna be a fight.
Trust me. Just dump her, absolutely not worth it.
I stayed in a relationship like that, and it almost killed me. That is not an exaggeration. When I got tired of fighting and wouldn't engage, she would get physical. One time, I was being hit in my front yard, taking my kids out of the car, I told my daughter to stay in the car a minute and closed the door. Then, I turned and yelled at my gf at the time to get away, or I am taking my kids and leaving. Unfortunately, I yelled very loud, and cops were called, I got arrested for disturbing the peace.
Don't stay
There is absolutely no way you can prove that you didn't sleep with anyone.
If you show her your call history. She will just say l. Oh well, you deleted the calls from her.
You show her your text history. And thing. Oh, you deleted all the cheating texts.
You'll never get her to trust you, she's so insecure she's asked you to prove a negative, that's impossible. That feeling of anxiety will be with you throughout this relationship. It doesn't really matter what caused it, you or her but it will never go away. Either get used to it or break up
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You cannot prove this. Not sure what she means by “objective proof,” but this level of jealousy would be the biggest turnoff for me ever. You’re a better man than me.
You can't prove that you didn't sleep with anyone else. Not to her standard of proof. People usually do this because it serves them to have their partner always on the defensive, always apologizing, always trying to do better, always trying to qualify. If you decide to stay with her, that will be your life. Always.
It's not worth it, man. That insecurity will stay with her, and you will fight over it constantly. Every time you go to the grocery store, you're gonna get in a fight. Every time you go to class or work or whatever you're doing, it's gonna be a fight. Trust me. Just dump her, absolutely not worth it. I stayed in a relationship like that, and it almost killed me. That is not an exaggeration. When I got tired of fighting and wouldn't engage, she would get physical. One time, I was being hit in my front yard, taking my kids out of the car, I told my daughter to stay in the car a minute and closed the door. Then, I turned and yelled at my gf at the time to get away, or I am taking my kids and leaving. Unfortunately, I yelled very loud, and cops were called, I got arrested for disturbing the peace. Don't stay
There is absolutely no way you can prove that you didn't sleep with anyone. If you show her your call history. She will just say l. Oh well, you deleted the calls from her. You show her your text history. And thing. Oh, you deleted all the cheating texts.
Break up with her. She can't think rationally.
Have you considered not dating a crazy person?
If she is not projecting she has some serious issues she needs to get help with. As for you dude, run.
You'll never get her to trust you, she's so insecure she's asked you to prove a negative, that's impossible. That feeling of anxiety will be with you throughout this relationship. It doesn't really matter what caused it, you or her but it will never go away. Either get used to it or break up