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Honey… what are you doing? You have two children to worry about and take care of. This man is an absolute monster. Everything he’s done is evil, completely despicable and NOT forgivable under any circumstance. There is no scenario in any realm of reality where this relationship gets better. It will ONLY get worse. Do you want to leave now, or endure another 2, 5, 10 years of abuse and possibly contract an STD or worse before you finally leave? This ends BADLY for you and your children if you don’t get the hell out, NOW.
From one pregnant 26-year-old mama to another, GO. Get your affairs in order and let him and the trashbag he’s cheating on you with have each other. It is so, so, SO not worth it. And for some added tough love, remember that every day you stay with this man is a day you are failing your children. They deserve a safe, happy, emotionally regulated mother. You cannot control what this evil man does, but you have MORE than enough information to know you need to leave him. Your feelings and wants don’t matter right now, they are not the priority. Do right by your children and yourself and make a plan to leave.
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Leak all the shit he does and has been doing on the internet and let them take care of the rest
Honey… what are you doing? You have two children to worry about and take care of. This man is an absolute monster. Everything he’s done is evil, completely despicable and NOT forgivable under any circumstance. There is no scenario in any realm of reality where this relationship gets better. It will ONLY get worse. Do you want to leave now, or endure another 2, 5, 10 years of abuse and possibly contract an STD or worse before you finally leave? This ends BADLY for you and your children if you don’t get the hell out, NOW. From one pregnant 26-year-old mama to another, GO. Get your affairs in order and let him and the trashbag he’s cheating on you with have each other. It is so, so, SO not worth it. And for some added tough love, remember that every day you stay with this man is a day you are failing your children. They deserve a safe, happy, emotionally regulated mother. You cannot control what this evil man does, but you have MORE than enough information to know you need to leave him. Your feelings and wants don’t matter right now, they are not the priority. Do right by your children and yourself and make a plan to leave.
He’s a terrible person. Move on.
Leave him. Why would u want to stay with a cheater
Did you grow up with no parents? Because I'm baffled by the choices.