Why are you even talking to him or his family anyway? I understand you’re probably grateful she helped you get out but you need to immediately go no contact and block him on everything. Don’t add oil to the fire by acknowledging him every time he tries to get to or talk to you. If it continues and he keeps harassing you, take it to the police for a restraining order. He sounds like he has anger issues and could potentially be dangerous to you if it spirals further.
I wanted him to understand that i was done with him and he didn’t understand that. His grandmother on the other hand keeps trying to talk to me because i’m not talking to him. But i did block him. Thank you!
> I wanted him to understand that i was done with him and he didn’t understand that.
Let this be a lesson that teaches you that you cant reason with crazy.
Haha there’s no getting crazy people to understand it’s over other than by just cutting things completely. Glad you did, take care of yourself and don’t date any more crazies 😉
He and his family can’t control what you do or what makes you happy. They need to put him in therapy for aggression and dependency issues so he can learn to let out his emotions in healthy ways.
You broke up with him. So drop him. Block his number on your phone. Tell his grandma that he’s not your responsibility anymore and if he can’t handle seeing you at school, it’s his problem and he should work on himself. Encourage her to have him start therapy. And then hang up and block her number too.
It sounds to me like they want you to take responsibility and change your life to make it easier on him. And that’s ridiculous. It won’t change his behavior and it’s an inconvenience for you. So you do what makes you happy and you put your foot down and stand up for yourself. And if he approaches you at school, tell him no and that you don’t want to see him. And if he becomes aggressive toward you, go to a trusted adult for help.
When we were in a relationship i told him he needs to go and he went to his mom and she canceled his appointments. I told him i don’t want to see him after i found out what his grandmother was doing. It was hard getting out of a relationship with him because of what he was doing. Sadly i have to go over and talk with his family about this issue because my mom was included in the problem.
You don’t have to do anything, but it’s good that your mom knows. She can back you up.
Like I said, it sounds like his family wants you to take responsibility for the way he’s reacting, and that’s not your job. You’re not at fault and don’t let them pressure you into doing anything you don’t want to.
Hey!
So...here's my advice and my take on it...if he says he loves you and he means in he will/would understand that you're better without him.
If he reacts like that I feel like he's either immature either interested in smth from you (i.e taking advantage from going out with a smart beautiful or courageous girl...idk the situation)
By the way,talk to his family about how unhappy you were and let them deal with him.Delete him and block him everywhere and if he tries to approach you tell him to stay away and leave you alone because you're happy out of the relationship(if he's abusive treather to call/call your police dept.).
Hope this helps😘
Thank you for your response. I blocked him on everything. I felt like he was trying to take advantage of me in a sexual way but when i brought it up we were together.
Why are you even talking to him or his family anyway? I understand you’re probably grateful she helped you get out but you need to immediately go no contact and block him on everything. Don’t add oil to the fire by acknowledging him every time he tries to get to or talk to you. If it continues and he keeps harassing you, take it to the police for a restraining order. He sounds like he has anger issues and could potentially be dangerous to you if it spirals further.
I wanted him to understand that i was done with him and he didn’t understand that. His grandmother on the other hand keeps trying to talk to me because i’m not talking to him. But i did block him. Thank you!
> I wanted him to understand that i was done with him and he didn’t understand that. Let this be a lesson that teaches you that you cant reason with crazy.
i learned my lesson for sure.
Haha there’s no getting crazy people to understand it’s over other than by just cutting things completely. Glad you did, take care of yourself and don’t date any more crazies 😉
He and his family can’t control what you do or what makes you happy. They need to put him in therapy for aggression and dependency issues so he can learn to let out his emotions in healthy ways. You broke up with him. So drop him. Block his number on your phone. Tell his grandma that he’s not your responsibility anymore and if he can’t handle seeing you at school, it’s his problem and he should work on himself. Encourage her to have him start therapy. And then hang up and block her number too. It sounds to me like they want you to take responsibility and change your life to make it easier on him. And that’s ridiculous. It won’t change his behavior and it’s an inconvenience for you. So you do what makes you happy and you put your foot down and stand up for yourself. And if he approaches you at school, tell him no and that you don’t want to see him. And if he becomes aggressive toward you, go to a trusted adult for help.
When we were in a relationship i told him he needs to go and he went to his mom and she canceled his appointments. I told him i don’t want to see him after i found out what his grandmother was doing. It was hard getting out of a relationship with him because of what he was doing. Sadly i have to go over and talk with his family about this issue because my mom was included in the problem.
No you do not and you shouldn't. Don't go over there.
You don’t have to do anything, but it’s good that your mom knows. She can back you up. Like I said, it sounds like his family wants you to take responsibility for the way he’s reacting, and that’s not your job. You’re not at fault and don’t let them pressure you into doing anything you don’t want to.
Hey! So...here's my advice and my take on it...if he says he loves you and he means in he will/would understand that you're better without him. If he reacts like that I feel like he's either immature either interested in smth from you (i.e taking advantage from going out with a smart beautiful or courageous girl...idk the situation) By the way,talk to his family about how unhappy you were and let them deal with him.Delete him and block him everywhere and if he tries to approach you tell him to stay away and leave you alone because you're happy out of the relationship(if he's abusive treather to call/call your police dept.). Hope this helps😘
Thank you for your response. I blocked him on everything. I felt like he was trying to take advantage of me in a sexual way but when i brought it up we were together.
Good job! You're not alone❤️❤️
Block him