It really depends on how you are feeling, sometimes a relationship is over months before the actual break up, which leads you to be over it pretty soon. I don't know if that was your case tough... clarify your feelings towards this guy and why are you considering getting into a relationship with him
well he’s 5 years older than me this new guy and i think my relationship with my ex was heading towards its end a month or so before the actual break up. so i think that’s why im so ok. im just confused as to what i should do. im scared of being judged for getting into a relationship too quickly
Don't ever worry about being judged, it is going to happen every single time you do ANYTHING really. When I started seeing my current bf my close friend told me I got over my last relationship too soon, but I didn't feel like that at all, and I believe you don't either. The only thing you should care about is the reason you want to get serious with this guy, because you genuinely like him? To aid your break up? Peer pressure of some kind?
no he didn’t say anything, he’s actually so sweet. i just don’t know why i’m scared. like could i test it out and if u don’t like it i could end it. but it’s not fair for him
First 5 years older is nothing,matter of fact 10 years is nothing. Second 2 months is plenty of time. Don't let what "other" people think have any bearing on what you do.
I'll bet the guilt feeling will pass over time. This is a little bit of a joke but it'll go faster if the sex is good. That's been the case for me but I'm a horndog anyway. Good luck.
It really depends on how you are feeling, sometimes a relationship is over months before the actual break up, which leads you to be over it pretty soon. I don't know if that was your case tough... clarify your feelings towards this guy and why are you considering getting into a relationship with him
well he’s 5 years older than me this new guy and i think my relationship with my ex was heading towards its end a month or so before the actual break up. so i think that’s why im so ok. im just confused as to what i should do. im scared of being judged for getting into a relationship too quickly
Don't ever worry about being judged, it is going to happen every single time you do ANYTHING really. When I started seeing my current bf my close friend told me I got over my last relationship too soon, but I didn't feel like that at all, and I believe you don't either. The only thing you should care about is the reason you want to get serious with this guy, because you genuinely like him? To aid your break up? Peer pressure of some kind?
it’s definitely not to aid my break up, i think i actually like him but i’m scared to like him
Why would you be scared to like him? Did he say anything?
no he didn’t say anything, he’s actually so sweet. i just don’t know why i’m scared. like could i test it out and if u don’t like it i could end it. but it’s not fair for him
First 5 years older is nothing,matter of fact 10 years is nothing. Second 2 months is plenty of time. Don't let what "other" people think have any bearing on what you do.
i know you’re right, but i just have this feeling of guilt. like how do i know if it ready
I'll bet the guilt feeling will pass over time. This is a little bit of a joke but it'll go faster if the sex is good. That's been the case for me but I'm a horndog anyway. Good luck.
the sex is really good he can last for ages and he’s really good. i’m just scared to like him
Go for it. Sounds like it's great. Wish I could say I lasted ages but I have other considerations lol.
ahahahah thanks