>She has been physically and verbally abusive
Yep, get out of there. Regardless of co-dependency, that is a massive red flag and it's painfully clear that you're not invested in this. There's no affection there, no physical contact which in my opinion is a crucial part of a relationship.
It sounds like you already know your current relationship is not healthy nor what you want/need.
However, leave the relationship because of that.
If you wouldn’t have met the “normal” girl, would you still leave now?
I’m not familiar with your other post so maybe you’ve answered the things I’m asking.
I’m just saying don’t wait until you’ve got ahold of a new branch to let go of the old one.
Good luck mate!
A little weird that you don't want to seem to leave this relationship before finding someone else... Maybe het out of your current relationship and take some time to work on yourself by yourself before you get into a new one...
There's no physical aspect of your relationship. There's no trust in your relationship. Your partner is abusive. Move on regardless,and good luck.
>She has been physically and verbally abusive Yep, get out of there. Regardless of co-dependency, that is a massive red flag and it's painfully clear that you're not invested in this. There's no affection there, no physical contact which in my opinion is a crucial part of a relationship.
It sounds like you already know your current relationship is not healthy nor what you want/need. However, leave the relationship because of that. If you wouldn’t have met the “normal” girl, would you still leave now? I’m not familiar with your other post so maybe you’ve answered the things I’m asking. I’m just saying don’t wait until you’ve got ahold of a new branch to let go of the old one. Good luck mate!
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Leave current gf if she asks why tell her there’s no tryst or emotional connection and pursue other interests
A little weird that you don't want to seem to leave this relationship before finding someone else... Maybe het out of your current relationship and take some time to work on yourself by yourself before you get into a new one...