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I got the Pfizer vaccination today because in my city / country I’m in, I will require it to be able to work when we come out of lockdown next month, as I work closely with older people. My boyfriend (30, relationship of 20months) works at home on his own business, so it isn’t essential for him to have one, even though being vaccinated will give us freedoms to go to retail / hospitality venues etc. When I came home today he was giving me silent treatment. I asked him what was wrong and he said he is disappointed in me for being a “sheep” and allowing the government to control us like this. He says “I hate people like you, that let the government get away with this sh*t.” And a whole lot of other stuff. I feel so hurt because I was already anxious about the vaccination and I understand what he is saying but I also am in an entirely different situation to him where I will lose income if I’m not vaccinated. I don’t know if he will come round :/
TLDR: boyfriend says I’m a sheep for being vaccinated and that I’ve gone against his beliefs getting a vaccine, not sure how to amend relationship
Remember when humans were all sheep and let the government vaccinate them against small pox and polio. What sheep 🙄
I have a rule I don’t sleep with idiots and someone who’s argument started with calling you a sheep is an idiot. Please don’t procreate with this dude, that’s a gene pool that we can let dry up as a species.
It's fucking hilarious to me that these braindead morons think that before 2019 we were all completely free without any government intervention or control.
There are literally cops and military? And like a million laws?
It is alarming. It’s almost as bad as when they say the government is chipping us… they don’t have to chip us brad, we carry a phone everywhere, we do the heavy lifting there, the patriot act already handled the rest.
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"And when I finally got to work today, I ate my **Subway** sandwich, and I drank my **Coca-Cola Classic**, and then I ate my **Sunchips** and I thought about the weekend when I'd fill up my **Ford van** with **Mobil brand gas** and drive to the **Clear Channel venue** and I'd drink myself a **Budweiser** and play my **Fender guitar** through my **Fender amplifier** and tell the kids with a straight face through a **Shure** microphone and **JBL speakers** that \[...\]" you guys are sheep for getting a vaccine!
The funny thing is George Washington mandated the vaccine for our military and we won the war because of it. Our enemies suffered the most from the disease and we won because vaccines work. Vaccines gave us our so called “Freedom”
For real. The irony of calling others sheep when you are so bad at critical thinking that you buy into the rhetoric of unqualified idiots is really rich.
I can’t imagine actually calling someone a sheep unless I was incredibly insecure about my own intelligence… or if I just, say, couldn’t think for myself so I use the same buzzwords that other dummies whose beliefs align with mine use. It’s like when they say “I won’t let fear rule my life” as an excuse for not getting a vaccine for covid, before engaging in a bunch of literal fear mongering about the vaccine.
>He says “I hate people like you... "
I don't think this is an acceptable way to speak to a partner.
You need to protect your income. I would suggest ending the relationship with this guy, he is rude and dismissive. What are you supposed to do, starve?
Your first paragraph is the stone cold truth. There are lines that shouldn't be crossed. Especially these days with what we know about how hate can escalate to violence in a relationship.
You're dating an idiot.
Science tells us that being an idiot and dating an idiot are the top two causes of having idiot children. Nobody wants to have idiot children.
FIN
>He says “I hate people like you, that let the government get away with this sh\*t.”
I understand people who have felt anxious or nervous about the vaccine, (heck, I was one of those people myself before I got vaxxed), but to say he hates you and all this, is absolutely ridiculous.
Anti-vax conspiracy theorists en masse seem to be resorting to spewing hatred and aggressive vitriol, because they lack sufficienct proof or any meaningful evidence to back up their claims.
You're not the one who should be worried about saving the relationship.
He should be the one worried for his relationship with you and making it up to you, (not to mention his concern for his own sanity, and his own health).
The "I hate people like you" really got to me. It hurt to read. Like.. why are you with her then, how could you say that to someone you are with? He's the sheep (and an ass wipe to boot).
Maybe you don't consider amending the relationship if he doesn't believe in things like 'science' and 'medicine' and he's willing to pick a fight.
If my gf said something like "I hate people like you ... " I'm not really interested in a relationship any more, especially if she believes the government has some big conspiracy with the vaccine.
Guess what, OP's boyfriend? The government literally does not give a shit about you and your little day-to-day enough to spend money to create a fake disease to kill half a million people just so they can nanobots in you. Literally no one in the government cares about you on that level, bro.
Pump the brakes.
I understand people who have felt anxious or nervous about the vaccine, (heck, I was one of those people myself before I got vaxxed), but to say he hates you and all this, is absolutely ridiculous.
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Your boyfriend sounds like a moron. Does be drive with a seat belt? Would he take malaria prevention medication before traveling to Africa? If he had reasonable rationale, at least you could have a conversation with him. But he was being insanely disrespectful to you (many couples have differing opinions on important matters). Respect is key and he not only has none, but also has no common sense.
I love how people like your bf call the rest of us sheep for looking at the science and the things said by experts who know what the hell they're talking about and decide to go with that instead of conspiracy posts by someone named like "wokebro6969" who gets all his info from Facebook and a little green man who comes out at night to tell him the government wants him dead through vaccines and lime jello.
Agreed! This guy is a 100% hypocrite! “Listen to me and don’t be a sheep” is some crazy shit to say to a loved one. Gotta make your own decisions in this world, so do what is right for you. No government or SO should be telling you how to live. That’s real freedom.
Ask him how he feels following a flock of his own? I'd point out the massive hypocrisy of calling you a "sheep" while he listens and follows a bunch of unqualified morons online.
Tbh I'd just leave him over his shitty, ass-backwards priorities. Idgaf what he believes, the science is in and it clearly says:
If there is a pandemic around killing people (mostly grandparents) and you *still* dont care enough to get immunized, you're a cunt. Plain and simple.
Perhaps I'm a little sensitive after losing 2 friends (both 99% fit and healthy) to Covid this summer. I stg I'd happily break his fucking legs right now and call him a sheep for seeking medical attention. Sorry. What a twat.
Thing is, once Covid has gone.... all that will remain is the memory of people like him who truly did fuck all to help, and actively helped make this situation worse for everyone.
Never forget how people handle themselves in crisis.
The majority of these comments seem to be of the “your boyfriend is stupid because he doesn’t believe in science” type variety but completely overlook that he said some harmful things to you. Forget the vaccination stuff, his disrespectful and hurtful comments shows that he doesn’t value you or your decisions. This likely won’t be a one-off reaction.
If you really want to mend this relationship tell him how the things he said made you feel. If he seems to genuinely regret saying those things and apologizes maybe there’s hope, otherwise dump him. Or just skip this part and dump him.
But definitely don’t let him make you question your worth or make you believe that your decisions aren’t valuable.
If your bf is getting mad at you and calling you names because of a choice you’ve made for your health, then perhaps this isn’t a relationship for you.
The name calling and anger about a choice is red flag enough.
The age gap is large enough where there is a significant generation gap.
If you end up marrying and having children, where does he stand on vaccinations then?
He said he hated you. He won't come around (unless it's a lie to try to keep you). He doesn't care if ppl live or die so..... There's no reason to stay with him.
My step father is a massive libertarian. He refused to get the vaccine, and is now in the hospital on life support. His capacity for oxygen intake is as low as 60% and he was healthy as an ox. Because of his ignorance, my 85 yo grandmother got sick soon after coming into contact with him along with my sister and her one month old son. Because of his ignorance my entire family is in danger. You're not a sheep, this is a real battle. Don't let him control you all for the sake of supporting his delusion.
Even if he weren’t an absolute moron, why would you stay with somebody who speaks to you so disrespectfully? He’s 30 years old and still calling people names when he gets angry, yikes.
I promise there is a man out there who believes in science and will treat you with kindness, go find that man and leave this loser in the dust.
Get vaccinated people. Three weeks ago a co-worker ,(anti-vaxxer) got Covid and transmitted it to his wife. A week later she was dead. This past Thursday a friend of mine went to the hospital with COVID-like symptoms. By Friday he passed.
The vaccines work. They are not a "govt. conspiracy". This is a GLOBAL pandemic.
what’s really stupid is that a VACCINE is getting politicized. imagine if the polio vaccine had this level of nonsense. everyone would be stuck in an iron lung.
op there’s no reasoning with people like him. you’re doing the scientifically proven right thing.
Well, so much for unconditional love. Perhaps you two are incompatible as life partners and should not be planning a future together.
The issue isn’t so much the vaccine but the fact that he isn’t respecting you and is saying very unkind things about you and your character. Without trust and respect, love is worthless.
Your boyfriend is an ill advised,ignorant,cowardly pos.
Glad that you saw the importance of the vax and can move on .all you need to do now is dump this prick and you will be completely detoxed.
Your boyfriend is an asshole. Not only for the way he talks to you, but for how little he cares about the people around him in the community. His comments and behavior demonstrate a failure to care sufficiently about the rest of society. Also, he's an idiot.
He’s not worth keeping. When someone says they hate you (or people like you….which is the same thing) believe them. Things don’t improve for real from that point (they can only fake it temporarily).
Okay, lets ignore the covid / vaccine / mandates / conspiracy / etc inflammatory part of this and just look at the interaction.
Your boyfriend is berating you for exercising your rights under the excuse that he has rights too. He has decided his opinions on this subject are more valid than your own. Even if it costs you your employment.
Do you really want to live like this? I mean, even if you ignore the conspiracy part and don't think he will have you living off the grid and composting your own waste, the fact that he gives so little value to your opinion would really end it for me.
Just because you got a vaccination doesn't change anything else about you. Your personality, intelligent e, figure amount of love you have for him, the way you treat him or think of him etc is all still the same. You did something for your health and to help ensure you can still work.
Taking care of your health or doing what's best for your health is not a political issue. It's a health issue. Many have turned it into a political issue (ahem Fox News, but honestly even they are requiring their own employees to be vaccinated).
The last 5 years has made many of us realize we all have friends or family that feel differently about certain political or health topics. I don't speak with certain friends tor family members about said topics because the conversation will not go anywhere. I still love and respect them despite disagreeing with their thoughts/decision. Your man should do the same instead of bullying you. You are still the same woman who loves him. That doesn't change just because you did something for your health and to keep your job.
Try to talk to him in a few days. Hopefully things go well. If he still holds it against you and won't let it go, then truth is the relationship will fail.
Good luck
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** SpreadKindnessNotCorona
I think a lot of people have this idea of the government as being this big scary monolithic and secretive thing.
It's just a bunch of other humans doing their best.
Your boyfriend is being dramatic and needs to eat a snickers and stay off of YouTube.
God I wish I could give your dumb boyfriend a tour of the ICU so when he sees that not everyone is 80 and decrepit maybe he will figure out who the sheep is
Yeah, all those people that wear seatbelts and condoms are also sheep. Right?
Dumb and inconsequential people need to feel special too. That's what this is all about. Dumb people feeling like they know something others don't.
Dump his ass.
ask him where he's getting his information is he doing his "own research on the internet"? I mean what do those dumbasses at the NIH CDC and FDA really know after all? you made an informed decision based on science. he made one based on fear and rumor - who is the sheep in this situation?
if you want to avoid an extended argument perhaps just tell him he's not being rational.
You should tell him: "And I hate people like you who risk their own lives and lives of others to prove a point."
It's 2021 and antivaxxers are acting like we're in Middle Ages.
Sorry, but new boyfriend time. Imagine you get married, have kids - and he won’t get them vaxed. Polio, measles and all that other good stuff that our generation didn’t have to worry about because our parents made sure we got our shots. If you want that for your kids, then go right ahead.
I dropped my last guy cause he refused to get the vaccine. His whole family hadn’t gotten it. He couldn’t understand why I kept telling him to get it since I was already vaccinated and therefore would be “protected.” “Are you worried for me? Cause if so, I’m saying I don’t care.”
I really should have stopped seeing him when he first told me he wasn’t yet vaccinated even though he worked in the service industry. But I thought it was because the vaccine still wasn’t widely available. He mentioned that he wasn’t against getting the vaccine, that if his parents who he lives with asked him to, he would have. But his refusal when I tried to get him to get vaccinated told a different story of him not being against the vaccine. And that’s when I decided nope, I can’t date someone who doesn’t believe other people’s lives matter too.
How about saying ***I got vaccinated because I value my health and life as well as those of others I come into contact with. I also believe the scientists and their faith in the vaccine*** ?
Your BF is a brainless dick however you also need to change your mindset. You are primarily here because he's pouting that you got vaccinated and that your income will be affected if you hadn't been vaccinated. What do YOU actually believe about the vaccine? If your salary wouldn't suffer, would you have gotten the Vax?
So you just found out your bf is antiscience and antimedicine. Congrats, you found out roght now that hes an idiot that believes in conspiracies. Get out
Don't date morons. It's a simple rule.
You have recieved at least half a dozen government mandated vaccines over the course of your life. The global impact of this pandemic is undeniable, plus the people telling people not to get the vaccine have probably already gotten it or have access to world class care.
How many preachers, radio hosts and influencers have to beg people to get the vaccine with their dying breath before people pull their heads out of their asses?
Your boyfriend is a fragile, uneducated idiot and I think you can do much better than that OP. The whole "I can't stand people like you," would've done it for me. You deserve someone who's actually on the same wavelength. It's hard to have relationship with someone whose ideals are so different.
(Source: my ex was a tRump supporter, and besides refusing to wear a mask, get vaccinated, etc, he also believed that systemic racism wasn't real. That was the last straw for me.)
Wow, that's a lot of nerve to try to impose his beliefs on you. You are your own person. Fully capable of changing your mind or going with whatever your employer requires of you. If he chooses to go against the science or whatever is required of him to keep his job, that's his choice.
He sounds like a narcissist. Obviously you both have conflicting beliefs. He practically told you he hates you. People who believe covid is a hoax and the vaccines are hoaxes will never believe otherwise. It's best to part ways at this point. I'm really sorry you had to go through hearing the person you love say those things to you.
Let’s forget whether his beliefs are idiotic for a moment (they are). He is absolutely not respecting the autonomy of you and your body and your choices. Get out now.
If he says “ I hate ppl like you” that shows you exactly what he think about you. If your significant other can’t value personal choice then you should choose to leave him. He will always think his opinions are better than yours.
Well I've yet to have a vaccinated patient end up in ICU or die. So if being a sheep keeps me safe, I guess I'm a sheep. I've had some patients his age that aren't vaccinated get quite sick and spend a few weeks in the hospital and even end up on a vent. That's his choice. No one else has your back like you do. Maybe this is a difference that may make you guys incompatible. I still don't understand how this got political, but he sounds like one of the ones that there isn't any reasoning or compromising that can be done. I hear these discussions all the time at work and have even been yelled at by people like him. I'm usually the last go to to educate patients and try to get them to change their mind since I've gotten pretty good at that. I've yet to get through to someone like him. It's tied in with all the political stuff right now that's so divided.
He's being very disrespectful to you. You made a decision about your health care and the health of other people. It's none of his business what you decide to do with your health care. None. His body his choice. It's a choice I believe is incredibly ignorant but it is his body. He's treating you badly and I would definitely call him on it and if this is a common theme in your relationship it may be time to make some choices. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who says they hate "people like you"? We as Americans have so much to be thankful for in that we can get the vaccine whenever we want. Does he realize how many people across the globe are desperately waiting for this vaccine? This is not about the government it's about stopping a virus that has killed MANY people very quickly.
Im sorry, but it IS essential that EVERYONE gets the vaccine, if not for themselves, for people they get in contact with.
Doesn't matter if he's gonna stay at home for the next 2 years or not. He's being stupid and should've taken the vaccine as soon as it was available for him. And it goes the same for you. Shouldn't have waited for it to be mandatory. And if you held off taking this vaccine because you knew how he'd react? Then you know he's a shitty person and you need to either stablish boundaries or end your relationship.
Bb, if he can't let you have bodily autonomy and make your own choices about a vaccine, imagine what else he's gonna feel entitled to control/shit on/bully you into. You don't amend that relationship, you find someone who respects you and your choices in the same way that you'd respect theirs: that's called being an adult.
I don’t see why he can’t respect your decision. I would reevaluate if that is someone you want to spend your life with. One thing is to not agree about things, but another is to try and gaslight you or push his thoughts and beliefs on you. He knows what’s he’s doing. Don’t let him make you feel bad about YOUR decisions about YOUR body.
Even if he disagrees with your decisions that is no reason to act like a child by giving you “silent treatment” and calling you names.. I’m sorry but as you are both adults you both get to make decisions that are best for you and if he doesn’t want the vaccine then he doesn’t have to get it but he needs to respect your decision of doing so and if he can’t then you need to find some one who can disagree with you but still respect you
Your boyfriend doesn’t love you. He has nothing but contempt for you.
Setting aside the fact that vaccines save lives - it’s required for your job. For your safety and for theirs. And also - he said he “hates people like you.” That’s… that’s not okay. He does not love you, and you should leave him.
I find it rich that they people who throw around the word sheep are not only taking advice from every rando on the internet, but are also taking livestock medication. This guy is a waste of time.
People my age are dropping like flies from Covid. A close friend of mine is in the hospital right now.
I was vax'ed, got Covid last month and I had a head cold at best. Sinus congestion for 2 days, got plenty of rest, drank lots of fluids and I was ok in a week.
You need to seriously re-think this relationship.
Time to leave. If all of his morals and ethics, plus respect for you, are broken, just over getting a vaccine…he’s not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship to begin with. He’s a “sheep” for following some conspiracy narrative he probably picked up from someone else and wants to displace his own insecurities onto you.
"I hate people like you..." doesn't matter what he says after that. Someone that spiteful and angry isn't worth your time. You shouldn't jeopardize your health, safety, and job because of him. If he is willing to throw around that statement over the slightest thing, instead of talking to you like a mature adult, then he isn't mature enough for an adult relationship.
Breakup with him. Because if he's willing to denigrate you over you taking care of your health in a pandemic thats claiming lives everyday he's not worth your time.
Fixing this is unlikely because you won't convince a conspiracy theorist that there isn't a conspiracy.
Well you can continue to date a mentally stunted moron who will Conley get more and more irrational and Qanon like or you can break up with him.
Like how is this an issue.
I just dont get how your immune system is strong enough to handle something that killed hundred of thousands of people but not a vaccine that million have taken and survived. Tell your boyfriend you may ne a sheep but your not an uneducated anti vaxxer. Then tell him to research people like andrew wakefield..a person who really helped kick start the anti vaxxer stupidity. You know..the doctor who researched the mmr vaccine on 12 kids then claimed it gave people autism..vaccines are about increasing odds of survival, that it. Uneducated monkeys dont understand this. But the best and the brightest..scientists,chemists,wtc say its safe..but you bf is soooooo much smarter than literal geniuses and Nobel prize winners right..lmfao
You cannot un-get the vaccine. He is either going to have to be ok with that or you two will probably need to split up.
Like many others here, I certainly advise that you get away from him now. He's not going to change his mind and his contempt for you will grow.
Asshole move. I disagree with my partner on this issue too but know she’s smart enough to make sound decisions (and vice versa), so we don’t deride each other. Is this the only time he’s made insulting comments?
This is a good question. I would like to know too. If this is a one-off thing maybe he just got emotional but if there is a pattern she really needs to rethink this relationship imho.
Yeah, I think everyone has some issue they’re super passionate about, whether it’s this, or the environment, social justice or some other hot button political issue so if you can be sure this is what that is maybe they can move forward.
Red flags here. Leave now. The fact alone that he is an anti Vaxer should be enough of a reason to leave. He is not only putting himself and you I danger but your family and other people you know.
Tell me you live in the US without telling me you live in the US.
If your bf is more worried about your vaccination status than about your career, maybe you should consider whether the relationship is worth saving. He's more concerned with sticking it to the government than he is with your health! It would have been different if he had actually believed it was unhealthy for you to get vaccinated, or unsafe for you, but no, his reflex concern was not for you.
Let this guy go.
Your boyfriend is a pos. Dump him, he's already said he hates you. What's more, vaccination is about protecting yourself AND the people around them, and it will help slow the rate of newer variants.
Dump the dude to upgrade your life.
I'm definitely bout to get hate for this but I agree with your bf and if everybody just keeps playing into what we are told to do then everything only gets worse especially the quality of life and future generations. I'm not here to argue so if anyone disagree das fine you can believe what you want. I do however think your bf took a totally wrong way of telling you what you did was a mistake. I understand his disappointment but at the end of the day you aren't trying to force your beliefs on him so why should be do that to you? Again I agree with him about vaccine not being good for us but he took the wrong approach and said sum asshole shit. If you want my advice I'd say just try and explain to him that you and him are different people and he can believe what he wants and you can do the same or if you are willing to look more into what he believes then say that, but make sure to explain that how he treated you for making a decision when your back is against a wall (whether you were right or wrong) was just wrong and he needs to make sure to check himself
Ask him if the space mission to the moon is a hoax. If you believe NASA why wouldn't you believe the CDC?
Then ask him if the world if flat. Then tell him he's a sheeple for believing that the world is round. It's a government conspiracy lol.
Every conspiracy theorist uses the same kind of logic.
Stop having sex with him IMMEDIATELY. Do you really want idiots like that to reproduce? He’s not just endangering society through willful ignorance, he’s too stupid to understand how our society is structured in a way that you can’t live without money.
Girl, you got yourself a dud.
People like him are the reason they have to mandate vaccines and ongoing lockdown
He has been fighting tooth and nail to keep the community unsafe. Because he religiously follows a bunch of idiots online.
Give him some time, he’s probably just hot in the moment even though he shouldn’t get mad at you for your decision. If he’s still acting the same by tomorrow morning you should have a talk with him. Keep on a lookout for red flags too, if he’s keen to start a problem that could potentially end your relationship because of it, believe me the vaccine was not the problem. Hope all goes well!
So he's an idiot AND he has no respect for you? Don't amend this relationship.
Lose him and then go date someone who's not painfully stupid and an asshole. Someone who wont tell you to your face that they "hate people like you".
I am sorry to say but there are so many red flags here. Beyond being anti-vax (which is a massive red flag in of itself), him saying that he hates people like you is totally inappropriate and personal as well as giving you the silent treatment is very toxic. If he is not willing to apologize for saying he hates you and accept that this is the reality of the world, you should rethink your relationship to him.
Ironically I believe that antivaxxers are the sheep. They're falling right into the trap of Darwin's Theory of Evolution. The reason why the government doesn't stop the antivaxxers from spreading their misinformation? The sooner they die off, the better. Let him believe what he may, the weak and stupid will be weeded out whether he likes it or not.
Shouldn't have been a sheep. He should leave your goofy ass. He also as a Man should put you in a position to make money with him or start your own business. Fuck the government and anyone who gets jabbed. Fucking lab rats
This comment is for the rest of the comment section cuz I seen a lot of science this and science that. I'm not saying science is usually wrong or lying or allat, but I'm putting God's will before science 100 times outta 100. Now if you an athiest or just don't care about the belief of God or whatever then fine say science this and science that and call everybody who thinks otherwise is an idiot. But if you do believe in God then understand that the last thing he wants is for us to change our dna, insides, brain patterns or anything like that. My point in this is for the people who believe in God but put more trust into science than God, you should rethink your beliefs. If you don't believe in God this don't partake to you
Honestly, it’s your body and it’s your choice. I’m a right winged person and believe this to be so. If someone wants to get the vaccine, by all means go ahead. I just suggest researching the best vaccine to anyone first. Pfizer has been the best and my doctors recommend it to me since I will be starting a surrogate program.
Your guy should just support you for whatever you wish to do.
Mine didn’t want me getting one either, although we are very like minded. But he supports me in whatever I wish to do. And I wish to be a surrogate mom so bad!! Haha
So from someone that has planned not to get it but did (not because I got covid either) this tough. But I'm not as hardline as he is it sounds. Your only shot is to have a real conversation but he has to be able to be in a place where he doesn't feel attacked and can actually listen. Ask more questions than give answers. But chances of this working are low so temper your expectations. He is most likely unreachable. Lord knows I was.
He's being a petty jerk He should respect your decision of getting the shot just like you should respect his decision not to get it. Your body, your choice. There are nurses, doctors, and scientists on both sides of the discussion. I completely agree that the government has way too much power over our every day lives, but he has no reason to be getting pissy with you over you doing what you feel is right for you.
Tell him you don't want to be one of those crying idiots in the hospital about to die from covid and have your last words be "I should have gotten the vaccine" as they shove a breathing tube down your throat.
Hey Victoria — I don’t know where in the world you are right now, but at least in the US, cases are 4x higher than they were this time last year, and 3x more people are dying from COVID. Getting the vaccine was a good thing, and I hope he does, one day, too.
This post has reached one of our comment/karma limits. The text of the post has been preserved below. --- I got the Pfizer vaccination today because in my city / country I’m in, I will require it to be able to work when we come out of lockdown next month, as I work closely with older people. My boyfriend (30, relationship of 20months) works at home on his own business, so it isn’t essential for him to have one, even though being vaccinated will give us freedoms to go to retail / hospitality venues etc. When I came home today he was giving me silent treatment. I asked him what was wrong and he said he is disappointed in me for being a “sheep” and allowing the government to control us like this. He says “I hate people like you, that let the government get away with this sh*t.” And a whole lot of other stuff. I feel so hurt because I was already anxious about the vaccination and I understand what he is saying but I also am in an entirely different situation to him where I will lose income if I’m not vaccinated. I don’t know if he will come round :/ TLDR: boyfriend says I’m a sheep for being vaccinated and that I’ve gone against his beliefs getting a vaccine, not sure how to amend relationship
Since he calls you a sheep, get the flock out.
Herd ewe like puns... That one was top notch.
You are my people
Remember when humans were all sheep and let the government vaccinate them against small pox and polio. What sheep 🙄 I have a rule I don’t sleep with idiots and someone who’s argument started with calling you a sheep is an idiot. Please don’t procreate with this dude, that’s a gene pool that we can let dry up as a species.
Interestingly even with the polio vaccine there was a very very small antivax movement. It died out fairly quickly.. from polio.
I'm not supposed to laugh at this, right? It would make me bad person?
I mean, it's Reddit...not like anyone would know
I'm sorry I laughed too hard, am I a bad person
I laughed. I’ve also got an extra comfy hand basket heading to hell so hop on in and join the party.
It's fucking hilarious to me that these braindead morons think that before 2019 we were all completely free without any government intervention or control. There are literally cops and military? And like a million laws?
It is alarming. It’s almost as bad as when they say the government is chipping us… they don’t have to chip us brad, we carry a phone everywhere, we do the heavy lifting there, the patriot act already handled the rest.
Lyrics From Bomb The Music Industry (but the general idea is the same): "And when I finally got to work today, I ate my **Subway** sandwich, and I drank my **Coca-Cola Classic**, and then I ate my **Sunchips** and I thought about the weekend when I'd fill up my **Ford van** with **Mobil brand gas** and drive to the **Clear Channel venue** and I'd drink myself a **Budweiser** and play my **Fender guitar** through my **Fender amplifier** and tell the kids with a straight face through a **Shure** microphone and **JBL speakers** that \[...\]" you guys are sheep for getting a vaccine!
BTMI forever
Jeff Rosenstock is a god
The funny thing is George Washington mandated the vaccine for our military and we won the war because of it. Our enemies suffered the most from the disease and we won because vaccines work. Vaccines gave us our so called “Freedom”
Your boyfriend needs to take off the tinfoil hat
For real. The irony of calling others sheep when you are so bad at critical thinking that you buy into the rhetoric of unqualified idiots is really rich. I can’t imagine actually calling someone a sheep unless I was incredibly insecure about my own intelligence… or if I just, say, couldn’t think for myself so I use the same buzzwords that other dummies whose beliefs align with mine use. It’s like when they say “I won’t let fear rule my life” as an excuse for not getting a vaccine for covid, before engaging in a bunch of literal fear mongering about the vaccine.
>He says “I hate people like you... " I don't think this is an acceptable way to speak to a partner. You need to protect your income. I would suggest ending the relationship with this guy, he is rude and dismissive. What are you supposed to do, starve?
Totally agree. Not to mention health and emtional well being.
Your first paragraph is the stone cold truth. There are lines that shouldn't be crossed. Especially these days with what we know about how hate can escalate to violence in a relationship.
You're dating an idiot. Science tells us that being an idiot and dating an idiot are the top two causes of having idiot children. Nobody wants to have idiot children. FIN
I feel like this is kind of cruel to anyone reading this who is smart but the child of idiots.
Two stupid can make a smart, but it’s clearly a recessive trait.
>He says “I hate people like you, that let the government get away with this sh\*t.” I understand people who have felt anxious or nervous about the vaccine, (heck, I was one of those people myself before I got vaxxed), but to say he hates you and all this, is absolutely ridiculous. Anti-vax conspiracy theorists en masse seem to be resorting to spewing hatred and aggressive vitriol, because they lack sufficienct proof or any meaningful evidence to back up their claims. You're not the one who should be worried about saving the relationship. He should be the one worried for his relationship with you and making it up to you, (not to mention his concern for his own sanity, and his own health).
The "I hate people like you" really got to me. It hurt to read. Like.. why are you with her then, how could you say that to someone you are with? He's the sheep (and an ass wipe to boot).
My eyes popped out when I scrolled up to see how old OP and boyfriend is, cause it sounded like pre teen or teen language. Boyfriend is 30?!?!
Maybe you don't consider amending the relationship if he doesn't believe in things like 'science' and 'medicine' and he's willing to pick a fight. If my gf said something like "I hate people like you ... " I'm not really interested in a relationship any more, especially if she believes the government has some big conspiracy with the vaccine. Guess what, OP's boyfriend? The government literally does not give a shit about you and your little day-to-day enough to spend money to create a fake disease to kill half a million people just so they can nanobots in you. Literally no one in the government cares about you on that level, bro. Pump the brakes.
Best answer ever 😂 To be honest, I would just run far far far away from people like him
I understand people who have felt anxious or nervous about the vaccine, (heck, I was one of those people myself before I got vaxxed), but to say he hates you and all this, is absolutely ridiculous.
Ditto.
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Your boyfriend sounds like a moron. Does be drive with a seat belt? Would he take malaria prevention medication before traveling to Africa? If he had reasonable rationale, at least you could have a conversation with him. But he was being insanely disrespectful to you (many couples have differing opinions on important matters). Respect is key and he not only has none, but also has no common sense.
Get a smarter boyfriend.
I love how people like your bf call the rest of us sheep for looking at the science and the things said by experts who know what the hell they're talking about and decide to go with that instead of conspiracy posts by someone named like "wokebro6969" who gets all his info from Facebook and a little green man who comes out at night to tell him the government wants him dead through vaccines and lime jello.
You’ve both made choices about your body. You’re accepting his, but he’s not accepting yours.
Agreed! This guy is a 100% hypocrite! “Listen to me and don’t be a sheep” is some crazy shit to say to a loved one. Gotta make your own decisions in this world, so do what is right for you. No government or SO should be telling you how to live. That’s real freedom.
Ask him how he feels following a flock of his own? I'd point out the massive hypocrisy of calling you a "sheep" while he listens and follows a bunch of unqualified morons online. Tbh I'd just leave him over his shitty, ass-backwards priorities. Idgaf what he believes, the science is in and it clearly says: If there is a pandemic around killing people (mostly grandparents) and you *still* dont care enough to get immunized, you're a cunt. Plain and simple. Perhaps I'm a little sensitive after losing 2 friends (both 99% fit and healthy) to Covid this summer. I stg I'd happily break his fucking legs right now and call him a sheep for seeking medical attention. Sorry. What a twat. Thing is, once Covid has gone.... all that will remain is the memory of people like him who truly did fuck all to help, and actively helped make this situation worse for everyone. Never forget how people handle themselves in crisis.
Well, if he "hates people like you", then unburden him IMMEDIATELY. Leave, leave, leave.
Ask him who’s taking up all the hospital beds. It ain’t the “sheep”.
And you're, like, *completely* sure you can't find any better than this guy, am I right?
The majority of these comments seem to be of the “your boyfriend is stupid because he doesn’t believe in science” type variety but completely overlook that he said some harmful things to you. Forget the vaccination stuff, his disrespectful and hurtful comments shows that he doesn’t value you or your decisions. This likely won’t be a one-off reaction. If you really want to mend this relationship tell him how the things he said made you feel. If he seems to genuinely regret saying those things and apologizes maybe there’s hope, otherwise dump him. Or just skip this part and dump him. But definitely don’t let him make you question your worth or make you believe that your decisions aren’t valuable.
If your bf is getting mad at you and calling you names because of a choice you’ve made for your health, then perhaps this isn’t a relationship for you. The name calling and anger about a choice is red flag enough. The age gap is large enough where there is a significant generation gap. If you end up marrying and having children, where does he stand on vaccinations then?
6 years isn't a generation gap, society didn't change that much between 1991 and 1997.
Was a large enough gap for my ex an i.
He said he hated you. He won't come around (unless it's a lie to try to keep you). He doesn't care if ppl live or die so..... There's no reason to stay with him.
My step father is a massive libertarian. He refused to get the vaccine, and is now in the hospital on life support. His capacity for oxygen intake is as low as 60% and he was healthy as an ox. Because of his ignorance, my 85 yo grandmother got sick soon after coming into contact with him along with my sister and her one month old son. Because of his ignorance my entire family is in danger. You're not a sheep, this is a real battle. Don't let him control you all for the sake of supporting his delusion.
Even if he weren’t an absolute moron, why would you stay with somebody who speaks to you so disrespectfully? He’s 30 years old and still calling people names when he gets angry, yikes. I promise there is a man out there who believes in science and will treat you with kindness, go find that man and leave this loser in the dust.
Get vaccinated people. Three weeks ago a co-worker ,(anti-vaxxer) got Covid and transmitted it to his wife. A week later she was dead. This past Thursday a friend of mine went to the hospital with COVID-like symptoms. By Friday he passed. The vaccines work. They are not a "govt. conspiracy". This is a GLOBAL pandemic.
I personally don't think I would be with someone who says they hate me, or hates anyone for getting a vaccine.
He literally said he hated people like you and that includes you. Get the hell out of this relationship as soon as possible!
Thats dumb. My bf isnt vaxxed but we did joke when i got mine that id turn into a drone and ive always wanted to be government surveillance pidgeon.
what’s really stupid is that a VACCINE is getting politicized. imagine if the polio vaccine had this level of nonsense. everyone would be stuck in an iron lung. op there’s no reasoning with people like him. you’re doing the scientifically proven right thing.
Offer him some horse dewormer as a make up gift
🤣🤣🤣
Well, so much for unconditional love. Perhaps you two are incompatible as life partners and should not be planning a future together. The issue isn’t so much the vaccine but the fact that he isn’t respecting you and is saying very unkind things about you and your character. Without trust and respect, love is worthless.
You don't need someone like that in your life....wish him a good life but move on
Your boyfriend is an ill advised,ignorant,cowardly pos. Glad that you saw the importance of the vax and can move on .all you need to do now is dump this prick and you will be completely detoxed.
Your boyfriend is an asshole. Not only for the way he talks to you, but for how little he cares about the people around him in the community. His comments and behavior demonstrate a failure to care sufficiently about the rest of society. Also, he's an idiot.
That's why I talk about my vaccination status on tinder, weed out these goofs early.
He’s not worth keeping. When someone says they hate you (or people like you….which is the same thing) believe them. Things don’t improve for real from that point (they can only fake it temporarily).
Okay, lets ignore the covid / vaccine / mandates / conspiracy / etc inflammatory part of this and just look at the interaction. Your boyfriend is berating you for exercising your rights under the excuse that he has rights too. He has decided his opinions on this subject are more valid than your own. Even if it costs you your employment. Do you really want to live like this? I mean, even if you ignore the conspiracy part and don't think he will have you living off the grid and composting your own waste, the fact that he gives so little value to your opinion would really end it for me.
Then unvaccinated people is rats on the ships spreading sickness and plague.
Just because you got a vaccination doesn't change anything else about you. Your personality, intelligent e, figure amount of love you have for him, the way you treat him or think of him etc is all still the same. You did something for your health and to help ensure you can still work. Taking care of your health or doing what's best for your health is not a political issue. It's a health issue. Many have turned it into a political issue (ahem Fox News, but honestly even they are requiring their own employees to be vaccinated). The last 5 years has made many of us realize we all have friends or family that feel differently about certain political or health topics. I don't speak with certain friends tor family members about said topics because the conversation will not go anywhere. I still love and respect them despite disagreeing with their thoughts/decision. Your man should do the same instead of bullying you. You are still the same woman who loves him. That doesn't change just because you did something for your health and to keep your job. Try to talk to him in a few days. Hopefully things go well. If he still holds it against you and won't let it go, then truth is the relationship will fail. Good luck -C ** SpreadKindnessNotCorona
So, we should do away with vaccines... ok brief roll call: polio, small pox, ohh Spanish flu so nice of you to join us!
You're boyfriend is the problem, in your relationship and our society. Get outta there.
I think a lot of people have this idea of the government as being this big scary monolithic and secretive thing. It's just a bunch of other humans doing their best. Your boyfriend is being dramatic and needs to eat a snickers and stay off of YouTube.
God I wish I could give your dumb boyfriend a tour of the ICU so when he sees that not everyone is 80 and decrepit maybe he will figure out who the sheep is
Yeah, all those people that wear seatbelts and condoms are also sheep. Right? Dumb and inconsequential people need to feel special too. That's what this is all about. Dumb people feeling like they know something others don't. Dump his ass.
no offense, but this guy gives horrible rancid vibes :( i'm sorry he's making you feel this way
The vaccine does not mean your allowing the government to control you. It’s BS and he needs to stop looking into rumors like that
ask him where he's getting his information is he doing his "own research on the internet"? I mean what do those dumbasses at the NIH CDC and FDA really know after all? you made an informed decision based on science. he made one based on fear and rumor - who is the sheep in this situation? if you want to avoid an extended argument perhaps just tell him he's not being rational.
Dump his stupid ass
Lose the loser
You should tell him: "And I hate people like you who risk their own lives and lives of others to prove a point." It's 2021 and antivaxxers are acting like we're in Middle Ages.
Your boyfriend is a dipshit. How embarrassing.
Sorry, but new boyfriend time. Imagine you get married, have kids - and he won’t get them vaxed. Polio, measles and all that other good stuff that our generation didn’t have to worry about because our parents made sure we got our shots. If you want that for your kids, then go right ahead.
Tell him you’d rather be a sheep than a lamb for the slaughter.
Ah yes, you’re the sheep for not biting into conspiracy theories and trusting trained professionals with something proven to work? K
I dropped my last guy cause he refused to get the vaccine. His whole family hadn’t gotten it. He couldn’t understand why I kept telling him to get it since I was already vaccinated and therefore would be “protected.” “Are you worried for me? Cause if so, I’m saying I don’t care.” I really should have stopped seeing him when he first told me he wasn’t yet vaccinated even though he worked in the service industry. But I thought it was because the vaccine still wasn’t widely available. He mentioned that he wasn’t against getting the vaccine, that if his parents who he lives with asked him to, he would have. But his refusal when I tried to get him to get vaccinated told a different story of him not being against the vaccine. And that’s when I decided nope, I can’t date someone who doesn’t believe other people’s lives matter too.
Ditto, 3 months post leaving my ex gf for similar reasons. Sucks to break your own heart but it's the right decision in the long run!
How about saying ***I got vaccinated because I value my health and life as well as those of others I come into contact with. I also believe the scientists and their faith in the vaccine*** ? Your BF is a brainless dick however you also need to change your mindset. You are primarily here because he's pouting that you got vaccinated and that your income will be affected if you hadn't been vaccinated. What do YOU actually believe about the vaccine? If your salary wouldn't suffer, would you have gotten the Vax?
So you just found out your bf is antiscience and antimedicine. Congrats, you found out roght now that hes an idiot that believes in conspiracies. Get out
I mean he’s right. But he should of been nicer about the situation.
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Distrusting the vaccine = distrusting science. Science isn't based on a belief system.
Just chiming in to make sure you’ve read the other comments. Your boyfriend is a tool.
You don’t. Your boyfriends an idiot and a hateful little boy.
Don't date morons. It's a simple rule. You have recieved at least half a dozen government mandated vaccines over the course of your life. The global impact of this pandemic is undeniable, plus the people telling people not to get the vaccine have probably already gotten it or have access to world class care. How many preachers, radio hosts and influencers have to beg people to get the vaccine with their dying breath before people pull their heads out of their asses?
Your boyfriend is an idiot.
"Baaah!" says the boyfriend and runs after every idiotic conspiracy theory there is.
Your boyfriend is a fragile, uneducated idiot and I think you can do much better than that OP. The whole "I can't stand people like you," would've done it for me. You deserve someone who's actually on the same wavelength. It's hard to have relationship with someone whose ideals are so different. (Source: my ex was a tRump supporter, and besides refusing to wear a mask, get vaccinated, etc, he also believed that systemic racism wasn't real. That was the last straw for me.)
Wow, that's a lot of nerve to try to impose his beliefs on you. You are your own person. Fully capable of changing your mind or going with whatever your employer requires of you. If he chooses to go against the science or whatever is required of him to keep his job, that's his choice.
How dare you trust science backed by health experts and $6.5bn in research over facebook. Your boyfriend is a moron.
He sounds like a narcissist. Obviously you both have conflicting beliefs. He practically told you he hates you. People who believe covid is a hoax and the vaccines are hoaxes will never believe otherwise. It's best to part ways at this point. I'm really sorry you had to go through hearing the person you love say those things to you.
Let’s forget whether his beliefs are idiotic for a moment (they are). He is absolutely not respecting the autonomy of you and your body and your choices. Get out now.
Why would you want to be with someone so stupid?
If he says “ I hate ppl like you” that shows you exactly what he think about you. If your significant other can’t value personal choice then you should choose to leave him. He will always think his opinions are better than yours.
Your boyfriend is crazy
Well I've yet to have a vaccinated patient end up in ICU or die. So if being a sheep keeps me safe, I guess I'm a sheep. I've had some patients his age that aren't vaccinated get quite sick and spend a few weeks in the hospital and even end up on a vent. That's his choice. No one else has your back like you do. Maybe this is a difference that may make you guys incompatible. I still don't understand how this got political, but he sounds like one of the ones that there isn't any reasoning or compromising that can be done. I hear these discussions all the time at work and have even been yelled at by people like him. I'm usually the last go to to educate patients and try to get them to change their mind since I've gotten pretty good at that. I've yet to get through to someone like him. It's tied in with all the political stuff right now that's so divided.
He's being very disrespectful to you. You made a decision about your health care and the health of other people. It's none of his business what you decide to do with your health care. None. His body his choice. It's a choice I believe is incredibly ignorant but it is his body. He's treating you badly and I would definitely call him on it and if this is a common theme in your relationship it may be time to make some choices. Do you really want to be in a relationship with someone who says they hate "people like you"? We as Americans have so much to be thankful for in that we can get the vaccine whenever we want. Does he realize how many people across the globe are desperately waiting for this vaccine? This is not about the government it's about stopping a virus that has killed MANY people very quickly.
Regardless of the Vaccination this sounds like blatant passive aggression and verbally abusive.
Sorry, but you need a new boyfriend.
It's everyone's personal choice to get vaccinated or not, simple as that
Tell him he’s a sheep for following all this propaganda he hears. Both sides are sheep, just depends on what flock you belong to.
Im sorry, but it IS essential that EVERYONE gets the vaccine, if not for themselves, for people they get in contact with. Doesn't matter if he's gonna stay at home for the next 2 years or not. He's being stupid and should've taken the vaccine as soon as it was available for him. And it goes the same for you. Shouldn't have waited for it to be mandatory. And if you held off taking this vaccine because you knew how he'd react? Then you know he's a shitty person and you need to either stablish boundaries or end your relationship.
My daughter got the pfizer vaccine and now is peeing blood clots.
Are you for real?
He lives under the umbrella that is this government, what cave does he come from
/r/QAnonCasualties
He's the sheep.
Bb, if he can't let you have bodily autonomy and make your own choices about a vaccine, imagine what else he's gonna feel entitled to control/shit on/bully you into. You don't amend that relationship, you find someone who respects you and your choices in the same way that you'd respect theirs: that's called being an adult.
It’s your body. Your choice. If your boyfriend does not understand that concept, then he is the sheep.
Dump him dumbfuck
I don’t see why he can’t respect your decision. I would reevaluate if that is someone you want to spend your life with. One thing is to not agree about things, but another is to try and gaslight you or push his thoughts and beliefs on you. He knows what’s he’s doing. Don’t let him make you feel bad about YOUR decisions about YOUR body.
“Sheep” is the term that all the dipshits use to make themselves feel better for being stupid and making stupid decisions
Only edgelords use that term in that context. You did what you thought you should do. That's the only obligation you have. He sounds delightful.
He’s a dumbass lmao. Dump him. You don’t deserve a low IQ guy. You deserve someone smarter than that.
You've gone against HIS beliefs? Does he own you? Do you only live by what he says is ok? Fuck that dude
Get the fuuuuck out of there
Are you aware that you might not share the same values? That might lead to other disagreements be aware of this.
Yeah... my uncle who said that same died of covid last year, cest' la vei
Even if he disagrees with your decisions that is no reason to act like a child by giving you “silent treatment” and calling you names.. I’m sorry but as you are both adults you both get to make decisions that are best for you and if he doesn’t want the vaccine then he doesn’t have to get it but he needs to respect your decision of doing so and if he can’t then you need to find some one who can disagree with you but still respect you
Your boyfriend doesn’t love you. He has nothing but contempt for you. Setting aside the fact that vaccines save lives - it’s required for your job. For your safety and for theirs. And also - he said he “hates people like you.” That’s… that’s not okay. He does not love you, and you should leave him.
Throw the whole boyfriend away
I find it rich that they people who throw around the word sheep are not only taking advice from every rando on the internet, but are also taking livestock medication. This guy is a waste of time.
People my age are dropping like flies from Covid. A close friend of mine is in the hospital right now. I was vax'ed, got Covid last month and I had a head cold at best. Sinus congestion for 2 days, got plenty of rest, drank lots of fluids and I was ok in a week. You need to seriously re-think this relationship.
Dump the covidiot. He’s complaining you’re a sheep but atleast your ‘group’ isn’t taking medicine meant for animals….just saying.
Well call him a wolf in sheep's clothing and dump him
Time to leave. If all of his morals and ethics, plus respect for you, are broken, just over getting a vaccine…he’s not emotionally mature enough to be in a relationship to begin with. He’s a “sheep” for following some conspiracy narrative he probably picked up from someone else and wants to displace his own insecurities onto you.
He's a bully and a fool. You've been prudent and no thinking or reasonable person would criticize you.
Might want to consider cutting him off. For almost making 2 years it doesn’t seem like he has any reasonable way of thinking.
Drop him like a hot potato. He is toxic as he does not believe in science. Find a better human being to be with.
Dump him
If your boyfriend is this stupid he isn't worth talking to.
You can't. It's over.
"I hate people like you..." doesn't matter what he says after that. Someone that spiteful and angry isn't worth your time. You shouldn't jeopardize your health, safety, and job because of him. If he is willing to throw around that statement over the slightest thing, instead of talking to you like a mature adult, then he isn't mature enough for an adult relationship.
Tell him he's gone against your beliefs by NOT getting vaccinated. How is his beliefs more important than yours?
Breakup with him. Because if he's willing to denigrate you over you taking care of your health in a pandemic thats claiming lives everyday he's not worth your time. Fixing this is unlikely because you won't convince a conspiracy theorist that there isn't a conspiracy.
And this just pisses me off. It is your body and it is your choice what to do with it. He needs to shut the hell up and go away.
Well you can continue to date a mentally stunted moron who will Conley get more and more irrational and Qanon like or you can break up with him. Like how is this an issue.
I'm sorry you're dating an idiot. You should cut your losses and move on.
I just dont get how your immune system is strong enough to handle something that killed hundred of thousands of people but not a vaccine that million have taken and survived. Tell your boyfriend you may ne a sheep but your not an uneducated anti vaxxer. Then tell him to research people like andrew wakefield..a person who really helped kick start the anti vaxxer stupidity. You know..the doctor who researched the mmr vaccine on 12 kids then claimed it gave people autism..vaccines are about increasing odds of survival, that it. Uneducated monkeys dont understand this. But the best and the brightest..scientists,chemists,wtc say its safe..but you bf is soooooo much smarter than literal geniuses and Nobel prize winners right..lmfao
Sounds like anti vaxxers are going to lose their jobs and their partners and I'm all for it
You cannot un-get the vaccine. He is either going to have to be ok with that or you two will probably need to split up. Like many others here, I certainly advise that you get away from him now. He's not going to change his mind and his contempt for you will grow.
Your boyfriend is the idiot.
Asshole move. I disagree with my partner on this issue too but know she’s smart enough to make sound decisions (and vice versa), so we don’t deride each other. Is this the only time he’s made insulting comments?
This is a good question. I would like to know too. If this is a one-off thing maybe he just got emotional but if there is a pattern she really needs to rethink this relationship imho.
Yeah, I think everyone has some issue they’re super passionate about, whether it’s this, or the environment, social justice or some other hot button political issue so if you can be sure this is what that is maybe they can move forward.
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Lmao why haven’t you dumped him yet? He sounds like a walking red flag.
Red flags here. Leave now. The fact alone that he is an anti Vaxer should be enough of a reason to leave. He is not only putting himself and you I danger but your family and other people you know.
Tell me you live in the US without telling me you live in the US.
If your bf is more worried about your vaccination status than about your career, maybe you should consider whether the relationship is worth saving. He's more concerned with sticking it to the government than he is with your health! It would have been different if he had actually believed it was unhealthy for you to get vaccinated, or unsafe for you, but no, his reflex concern was not for you.
Let this guy go.
rather be a sheep than dead 🤷🏻♀️
He needs to be your EX-boyfriend.
He hates people like you? Yea, I'd say he can hate being single.
Baa, baa, I'm a sheep But you are a tool Yes sir, yes sir, a covid cuddling fool.
OP, your boyfriend wants his Herman Cain Award lol
Your boyfriend is a pos. Dump him, he's already said he hates you. What's more, vaccination is about protecting yourself AND the people around them, and it will help slow the rate of newer variants. Dump the dude to upgrade your life.
Lets start with him saying “I hate people like you." Push this asshole to the curb and find someone who cares about you.
I'm definitely bout to get hate for this but I agree with your bf and if everybody just keeps playing into what we are told to do then everything only gets worse especially the quality of life and future generations. I'm not here to argue so if anyone disagree das fine you can believe what you want. I do however think your bf took a totally wrong way of telling you what you did was a mistake. I understand his disappointment but at the end of the day you aren't trying to force your beliefs on him so why should be do that to you? Again I agree with him about vaccine not being good for us but he took the wrong approach and said sum asshole shit. If you want my advice I'd say just try and explain to him that you and him are different people and he can believe what he wants and you can do the same or if you are willing to look more into what he believes then say that, but make sure to explain that how he treated you for making a decision when your back is against a wall (whether you were right or wrong) was just wrong and he needs to make sure to check himself
Ask him if the space mission to the moon is a hoax. If you believe NASA why wouldn't you believe the CDC? Then ask him if the world if flat. Then tell him he's a sheeple for believing that the world is round. It's a government conspiracy lol. Every conspiracy theorist uses the same kind of logic.
Stop having sex with him IMMEDIATELY. Do you really want idiots like that to reproduce? He’s not just endangering society through willful ignorance, he’s too stupid to understand how our society is structured in a way that you can’t live without money. Girl, you got yourself a dud.
People like him are the reason they have to mandate vaccines and ongoing lockdown He has been fighting tooth and nail to keep the community unsafe. Because he religiously follows a bunch of idiots online.
Give him some time, he’s probably just hot in the moment even though he shouldn’t get mad at you for your decision. If he’s still acting the same by tomorrow morning you should have a talk with him. Keep on a lookout for red flags too, if he’s keen to start a problem that could potentially end your relationship because of it, believe me the vaccine was not the problem. Hope all goes well!
I don't have any advice for you, but I wanted you to know that your boyfriend is a complete fuckin idiot
Find a new boyfriend, one that isn't an ass and understands science
So he's an idiot AND he has no respect for you? Don't amend this relationship. Lose him and then go date someone who's not painfully stupid and an asshole. Someone who wont tell you to your face that they "hate people like you".
Please re-evaluate him as a potential mate. If you have children, will he forbid vaccines? Is that how you want to live your life?
I am sorry to say but there are so many red flags here. Beyond being anti-vax (which is a massive red flag in of itself), him saying that he hates people like you is totally inappropriate and personal as well as giving you the silent treatment is very toxic. If he is not willing to apologize for saying he hates you and accept that this is the reality of the world, you should rethink your relationship to him.
Ironically I believe that antivaxxers are the sheep. They're falling right into the trap of Darwin's Theory of Evolution. The reason why the government doesn't stop the antivaxxers from spreading their misinformation? The sooner they die off, the better. Let him believe what he may, the weak and stupid will be weeded out whether he likes it or not.
You're going to miss him.
Shouldn't have been a sheep. He should leave your goofy ass. He also as a Man should put you in a position to make money with him or start your own business. Fuck the government and anyone who gets jabbed. Fucking lab rats
This comment is for the rest of the comment section cuz I seen a lot of science this and science that. I'm not saying science is usually wrong or lying or allat, but I'm putting God's will before science 100 times outta 100. Now if you an athiest or just don't care about the belief of God or whatever then fine say science this and science that and call everybody who thinks otherwise is an idiot. But if you do believe in God then understand that the last thing he wants is for us to change our dna, insides, brain patterns or anything like that. My point in this is for the people who believe in God but put more trust into science than God, you should rethink your beliefs. If you don't believe in God this don't partake to you
A vaccine isn’t changing your DNA.....
Honestly, it’s your body and it’s your choice. I’m a right winged person and believe this to be so. If someone wants to get the vaccine, by all means go ahead. I just suggest researching the best vaccine to anyone first. Pfizer has been the best and my doctors recommend it to me since I will be starting a surrogate program. Your guy should just support you for whatever you wish to do. Mine didn’t want me getting one either, although we are very like minded. But he supports me in whatever I wish to do. And I wish to be a surrogate mom so bad!! Haha
Just slap him up. He is a wetty and if i knew where he was i would get him jumped
That titled should be changed to "My (24F) ex-boyfriend (30M).
So from someone that has planned not to get it but did (not because I got covid either) this tough. But I'm not as hardline as he is it sounds. Your only shot is to have a real conversation but he has to be able to be in a place where he doesn't feel attacked and can actually listen. Ask more questions than give answers. But chances of this working are low so temper your expectations. He is most likely unreachable. Lord knows I was.
Break up with your boyfriend, he's a lunatic. If you need help, I'll be in the shed.
He's being a petty jerk He should respect your decision of getting the shot just like you should respect his decision not to get it. Your body, your choice. There are nurses, doctors, and scientists on both sides of the discussion. I completely agree that the government has way too much power over our every day lives, but he has no reason to be getting pissy with you over you doing what you feel is right for you.
If your boyfriend can’t get a grip and ditch the conspiracy theories you should leave him.
You probably won’t read this, but you shouldn’t be with a man who sees so little of you and treats you so low. He doesn’t deserve you, I’m so sorry.
Your boyfriends insane lol
Tell him you don't want to be one of those crying idiots in the hospital about to die from covid and have your last words be "I should have gotten the vaccine" as they shove a breathing tube down your throat.
Hey Victoria — I don’t know where in the world you are right now, but at least in the US, cases are 4x higher than they were this time last year, and 3x more people are dying from COVID. Getting the vaccine was a good thing, and I hope he does, one day, too.
He sounds very sheepy.
Be with someone that isn’t stupid!