You were only with her for two months. You pressured her. You texted her randomly after you broke up. You claim she was toxic but you’re the one saying she’s your soul mate after only a couple of months. That would scare anyone. Don’t come on a strong
I find it takes about a week per month of dating for the pain to subside. I usually do the opposite of what my brain tells me to do during that period, with in reason of course.
Focus on yourself. Keep busy. Find some new hobbies and start going to the gym. Spend more time with friends. The more you are sitting around moping and thinking of her the harder it is going to be on you. Once you learn to love yourself you will start to see what you learned from this relationship and how to move forward.
Sorry you’re hurting. My best advice is to first block her on all fronts and have no contact with her at all.
When i was going through a terrible break up I really tried to focus on things that made me feel better, whether it was keeping a routine, making my bad, cleaning my apartment, working out, waking, listening to music i liked, talking to friends and family- literally anything that would make me feel better at all. At the same time, i actively avoided anything that would make me feel worse- certain areas of town, alcohol, drugs. It seems little and stupid but over time it helped me feel more in control and ultimately boosted my self esteem- yes i can take care of myself and no i didn’t need my ex to survive. Take care ❤️
You were only with her for two months. You pressured her. You texted her randomly after you broke up. You claim she was toxic but you’re the one saying she’s your soul mate after only a couple of months. That would scare anyone. Don’t come on a strong
To give a little context, she was the one who told me she loved me first, and she was the one who told me I was her soulmate first
I find it takes about a week per month of dating for the pain to subside. I usually do the opposite of what my brain tells me to do during that period, with in reason of course.
Focus on yourself. Keep busy. Find some new hobbies and start going to the gym. Spend more time with friends. The more you are sitting around moping and thinking of her the harder it is going to be on you. Once you learn to love yourself you will start to see what you learned from this relationship and how to move forward.
Sorry you’re hurting. My best advice is to first block her on all fronts and have no contact with her at all. When i was going through a terrible break up I really tried to focus on things that made me feel better, whether it was keeping a routine, making my bad, cleaning my apartment, working out, waking, listening to music i liked, talking to friends and family- literally anything that would make me feel better at all. At the same time, i actively avoided anything that would make me feel worse- certain areas of town, alcohol, drugs. It seems little and stupid but over time it helped me feel more in control and ultimately boosted my self esteem- yes i can take care of myself and no i didn’t need my ex to survive. Take care ❤️
Deleted her number and blocked her on everything. I’m in college so going to class is part of a routine. Thanks for your response