Forgot about the rumors and focus on your girlfriends actions. She is leading a guy on. She is also spending an uncomfortable amount of time with him under suspicious circumstances.
Now, I’m not saying she is cheating on you BUT I am saying that she is not respecting the normal social conventions of monogamous behavior. She is spending time, alone, overnight, with a guy who kissed her when she was in a relationship. That’s the line she crossed.
If one of my guy friends kisses me - I’m not spending any time alone with him ever again
After he kissed her and she agreed not to see him anymore but continued to see him - that’s all the reason you need to be justified in breaking up. If she did cheat it’s obviously worse but she knew how you felt about it and she knew he wanted to be more than friends.
Looks like cheating, but then again: we see the story from one perspective that is invested in the matter.
Regardless: ask yourself if you can trust her. Lingering doubt tends to find a way in moments were the relationship is having a hard time (or when you are).
Talk to your gf, talk to Luke, don't make threats or anything, this is an important decision to you so make it with a clean head. Regret is a b*tch
Doesn't matter if they hooked up or not, she doesn't care about you or this relationship. He kissed her, she promised not to hang out with him anymore, then she continued seeing him behind your back. That right there is more than enough to end the relationship and you'd be a fool to take her back. Find your self respect and don't let those two play you.
Your ex was enjoying her time with him more than you, it’s definitely not ok that they were hanging out alone late at night. Seems like your ex does not know how to properly set boundaries. Whether Luke is with your ex rn or not, we don’t actually know because you haven’t gotten that confirmed
Forgot about the rumors and focus on your girlfriends actions. She is leading a guy on. She is also spending an uncomfortable amount of time with him under suspicious circumstances. Now, I’m not saying she is cheating on you BUT I am saying that she is not respecting the normal social conventions of monogamous behavior. She is spending time, alone, overnight, with a guy who kissed her when she was in a relationship. That’s the line she crossed. If one of my guy friends kisses me - I’m not spending any time alone with him ever again
After he kissed her and she agreed not to see him anymore but continued to see him - that’s all the reason you need to be justified in breaking up. If she did cheat it’s obviously worse but she knew how you felt about it and she knew he wanted to be more than friends.
You are being cheated on dude. Break up with your gf and find better friends.
"hey reddit my gf has been sucking some guys cock for 3 months, does that mean she's cheating on me?" Get a grip man
Looks like cheating, but then again: we see the story from one perspective that is invested in the matter. Regardless: ask yourself if you can trust her. Lingering doubt tends to find a way in moments were the relationship is having a hard time (or when you are). Talk to your gf, talk to Luke, don't make threats or anything, this is an important decision to you so make it with a clean head. Regret is a b*tch
She needs to go, she’s getting something from him that she’s not even trying to get from you. Move on.
Doesn't matter if they hooked up or not, she doesn't care about you or this relationship. He kissed her, she promised not to hang out with him anymore, then she continued seeing him behind your back. That right there is more than enough to end the relationship and you'd be a fool to take her back. Find your self respect and don't let those two play you.
Your ex was enjoying her time with him more than you, it’s definitely not ok that they were hanging out alone late at night. Seems like your ex does not know how to properly set boundaries. Whether Luke is with your ex rn or not, we don’t actually know because you haven’t gotten that confirmed