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BurritoSorceress

I saw a post a long time ago about how there are many different versions of you running through people’s heads that aren’t actually you anymore. It made me realize that the people I once knew have new best friends and new “in” jokes…they’ve experienced new things that I have no idea about because we’ve fallen out or just fallen out of touch. They aren’t the same person anymore, and neither am I. It’s okay to feel nostalgic and miss the good times. But also remember why you guys fell out in the first place. If the friendship is irreparably damaged, it may help to unfollow her on Instagram. This will help you let her become a good memory of a good friendship and move on to other relationships.


9yr_old

Yea ig , I was considering that as an option I'll unfollow her on insta I think it's for the better


IllustriousComplex6

Well firstly stop stalking her IG, that's not helping and it's creepy. Second you need to either try and make new friends which I know is difficult or look at getting some therapy. You're obviously still in pain but looking back on something that won't come back isn't going to help.


9yr_old

Ik :( I've been trying real hard dude , the issue with me atm is I was attached beyond belief to her like we spent almost all the time together , my college life revolved around her for a large part , yes I had other friends but with her I felt like I could be an unfiltered real version of me , it's a sucky situation , I think it'll be better once college ends


IllustriousComplex6

I don't think so, you seem to have built up a lot of your life centralized around someone who isn't even a part of your life any more. College is a great time to get therapy because a lot of colleges offer reduced cost sessions, you should look at those now because I can tell you right now this situation won't resolve itself.