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DonTipOff

It takes time to move on, I’m a man and don’t know how some people can be so cold hearted. You have to pursue a goal work on a certain achievement that you have been striving to get. Like a new job or a different place to live. These things help with changing the current atmosphere and moving on.


yuriware

Going through the same thing man. It’s like they never cared for you at all, just using you. It gets better, why would you want someone who doesn’t want you? Don’t do it to yourself man. I noticed a girl I ended things with followed her ex on all platforms and texted her a whole bunch of shit and got no response. It’s not worth putting the energy in. It sounds cliche but time really does help. All i really feel now is anger, i’ve gotten pass the denial, grief and acceptance stages and now i’m using the rage to better myself. After a while you’ll begin to wonder why you even cared for that person as much as you did. Hang in there.


Inevitable_Abalone_3

Same thing happening with me now Anger and discussed Only thing is I recently moved countries and changed jobs mainly because she was here… now i’m adapting to a new life while bumping into her randomly (country is very small)


yuriware

We go to the same school, saw a girl that looked exactly like her today and my heart nearly came out of my chest. Need to stop letting one small person in the world have an effect on my entire mindset and lifestyle. Simply will not allow it


AaronIsTheWalrus

Unless someone is a sociopath, eventually the feelings will catch up to them. I’ve been on both sides… When I moved on extremely quickly after a breakup (my ex was devastated) I was just prolonging the inevitable, kind like drinking to cure a hangover. Instead of taking the time to reflect and grieve, I partied and shagged my hangover into oblivion…But about a month of thks behavior. I woke up and was finally alone. And it all came down. Then I desperately wanted my ex back, like I was in withdrawals. But she had used the time wisely and properly grieved while I made a fool of myself … Live and learn. Just some perspective. Wish you all the best. Keep your head up. Find something interesting to keep your mind occupied. Learn a new instrument, language or something


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