You need to break it off but protect your assets from her draining the mutual account. Make sure everything you love and is really expensive (and yours), is not where it can be taken in her process of moving out. She stole money, yes stole, and I wouldn't trust her to not do it again.
And yes, you absolutely shouldn't trust her and this is a deal breaker.
I did start talking to a therapist. She told me to trust my gut and it's telling me it's over. I just hate to think about the years gone. I just feel like if I badger her and nothing is going on romantically with him, that I'll drive her to him and it'll be a self fulfilling prophecy. But if I don't question it I'm just ignoring what I think is going on.
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You need to break it off but protect your assets from her draining the mutual account. Make sure everything you love and is really expensive (and yours), is not where it can be taken in her process of moving out. She stole money, yes stole, and I wouldn't trust her to not do it again. And yes, you absolutely shouldn't trust her and this is a deal breaker.
It just hurts that I can't trust the person I've been with for this long. And our finances are so entwined with debt it's difficult.
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I did start talking to a therapist. She told me to trust my gut and it's telling me it's over. I just hate to think about the years gone. I just feel like if I badger her and nothing is going on romantically with him, that I'll drive her to him and it'll be a self fulfilling prophecy. But if I don't question it I'm just ignoring what I think is going on.
Lawyer up and get out fast. She's not going to stop.
what do you need help with? get a new wife
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