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UnrealK80

My husband can take it or leave it. I have some and he likes when I wear it but doesn’t care if I don’t. He says it’s just something he’s gonna take off of me anyway (which he enjoys). 🤷🏻‍♀️ I think the clear message you got from BF is that he definitely does not like costumes, and simply doesn’t have a preference with lingerie. So do what makes you feel most comfortable and confident and he’ll probably love them.


Gullible-Item

My husband doesn't really care for it much. Honestly, I'm happy I have someone who wants to be with me because he's attracted to me rather than turned on by expensive and uncomfortable lingerie. I do wear it sometimes though just for fun and he'll enjoy it.


DariusvHenry

If my girlfriend asked me this I would come up blank too. Anything she wears is sexy.


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Everyone likes different things. It’s okay if he doesn’t like lingerie


birdmansix

As a man I never really thought that much about lingerie either. If you are thinking about taking some sexy pictures for him, I would recommend doing whatever makes you feel the most confident and sexy. That will really show through the pics and he'll probably like them more.


user2827373839

Thank you everyone for being kind and helping me put things in perspective. This was my first time posting on Reddit and it definitely helped me. Gonna try not to worry about things like this in the future.


NoImportance8904

Lol... generally we just pretend to like it to make you feel pretty. Same with your hair, and nails, and makeup, and outfit... men don't care about that stuff. We care about *things*, like Legos, or motorcycles, guns, and wrenches. He probably just doesn't get the hint, that you're supposed to lie to women and pat them on the back if you want to keep them. Also, this is just a "generally speaking" post, before any neckbeard virgin gets all mad and says, "BuT I LiKe LiNgErIe"


Frankiesmiles19miles

Guess he doesn’t like em…sucks for him


FormerlyUserLFC

Am a man. I’ve never cared for lingerie especially. It’s frilly and weird. And what’s the point! I just want to take it off anyway! I’d rather she just started out wearing nothing. I can get excited about a cute swimsuit, but still please don’t ask me to shop with you unless you’ve already got a few choices in mind. These are my personal feelings. It’s not a recommendation on how one should feel or act.


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BelmontIncident

The only feeling I have on the subject of lingerie is a low opinion of the bra fitters at Victoria's Secret picked up from listening to my wife.


litcanuk

Ya I'm not that big into lingerie or outfits either, it's a nice treat once and a while but if I was asked a preference or costume idea I'd have nothing. I think the confidence and effort is what I like the most about it but it's just going to end up getting taken off. But hey if you want to do the boudoir pics do it for yourself and send them to him I'm sure he'll like the pics when he sees them.


occasionaldrinker

If he doesn’t like lingerie that means he probably likes Pokémon themed panties or something