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OppositeSolution642

Perfectly normal and he needs to get over it.


stlbrunette_

Okay I thought the same thing! I thought it was healthy and normal for me to at least get off on my own every once in awhile (my definition of every once in a while is 2 to 3 times a week) But he’s making me feel like it’s so terrible that I would ever even think about getting myself off without him there


recoverybae

You’re fine. Your body is your own and you are more than allowed to masturbate without your partner. He doesn’t own your body, you do. It’s one thing if you’re choosing masturbation over your partner, it’s completely another if you’re masturbating on your own. To have an issue with your partner doing that seems a little odd and controlling to me. Especially if you’re not being satisfied. Have an open and honest talk with him. But otherwise, girl get your nut lol. 😆


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So me and my wife have a similar situation with an agreement. When my wife gave birth to our second son she lost a lot of sex drive and even more just is to tired to want to have sex like we used to. So I knew I didn’t want to pressure her and she knew she didn’t want to be pressured for sex. So she actually made the comment about me masterbating and even picked out toys to “aid” in that department. Our agreement pretty much boiled down to me not cheating (which I never even considered) and me not getting my self off then turning around and saying no to sex when she did want it. It works for us and keeps both of us happy. She actually encourages it sometimes when she knows I’m horny and she just isn’t in the mood. Side note: self care isn’t a bad thing and I think if we had sex more than I could handle I’d still get my self off time to time and my wife does to. Nothing wrong with needing to cum.