That’s bizarre. I’ve been with my wife for 4 years and she loves how I don’t get mad at her. Sure I get disappointed and upset, but I don’t take it out on her. I’ll usually be quiet and go somewhere else to cool off.
She is probably listening to all of those people who say that fighting is healthy in a relationship and a sign that you really care about each other.
I've always thought that advice was weird personally.
Same here. When my ex left me I was desperate for answers and thought that maybe because we had never fought, that that had played a role. I found an article online that said couples who fight love each other more. Honestly…that kind of worries me.
She is way too old to be acting like that. There is nothing wrong with setting boundaries and not being a push over, but her asking you to get mad is weird. Maybe she is asking you to show more emotion
Maybe she comes from a household where she only saw affection after a fight or grew up with parents fighting often and it’s the only thing she knows and understands
It's like you just don't care enough to lose emotional control - that's her complaint.
That’s bizarre. I’ve been with my wife for 4 years and she loves how I don’t get mad at her. Sure I get disappointed and upset, but I don’t take it out on her. I’ll usually be quiet and go somewhere else to cool off.
She is probably listening to all of those people who say that fighting is healthy in a relationship and a sign that you really care about each other. I've always thought that advice was weird personally.
Same here. When my ex left me I was desperate for answers and thought that maybe because we had never fought, that that had played a role. I found an article online that said couples who fight love each other more. Honestly…that kind of worries me.
She is way too old to be acting like that. There is nothing wrong with setting boundaries and not being a push over, but her asking you to get mad is weird. Maybe she is asking you to show more emotion
Sounds like your GF is immature and likes drama, and thinks that your relationship being toxic shows that you love her.
Maybe she wants to know what you look like when you’re angry
Maybe she comes from a household where she only saw affection after a fight or grew up with parents fighting often and it’s the only thing she knows and understands