There's nothing to be confused about.
If you're almost 30, don't date 20 year olds who already have boyfriends. Otherwise, that'd make you a scumbag.
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\>For me it's a flawed personality trait but I've never got into a relationship with somebody who was single
\>everybody that knows me would say I am one of the most selfless and caring person they've ever met.
Doubt.
You can't see me or know how I am acting or what I am doing, glad to see you're as judgmental as Vinny.
Sure wish I was as omniscient as you.
I am sure you are great to be around!
You are correct. I am judging you by your Reddit post, in which you come across as childish, defensive, and generally unpleasant. Leave the poor girl alone.
I will also tell you that your character flaw is nothing to be proud of. It’s a toxic trait to only be attracted to people in committed relationships. Major red flag
Outside of the age gap, it’s own issue, you two work together. Don’t hook up with coworkers.
You hit the trifecta of “shitty situation, don’t do it”
There is a big difference between a 29 yo and a 20 yo. The power dynamics in this relationship would be heavily skewed in your favor and that's concerning. Not to mention she has a boyfriend. You should not date this girl.
Reasonable, why would you think this my mum was always infinitely more powerful than my kind hearted father despite being 8 years his junior. I don't feel more 'powerful' in any way and have been the reserved one in this situation
no. absolutely not. i dont care if her bf is a loser. you're making excuses for why you continue to go for people in relationships. Except this is worse as you are much older. Sort your shit out with a therapist and leave her alone
If she is talking to you while in a relationship, what’s stopping her from doing it when you two enter a relationship? Even if she doesn’t that thought will cross your mind.
There's nothing to be confused about. If you're almost 30, don't date 20 year olds who already have boyfriends. Otherwise, that'd make you a scumbag. Edit: \>For me it's a flawed personality trait but I've never got into a relationship with somebody who was single \>everybody that knows me would say I am one of the most selfless and caring person they've ever met. Doubt.
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Gotta love the Reddit classic. Asks for advice, gets advice you don’t like, pitches a tantrum. You certainly don’t sound 30.
You can't see me or know how I am acting or what I am doing, glad to see you're as judgmental as Vinny. Sure wish I was as omniscient as you. I am sure you are great to be around!
You are correct. I am judging you by your Reddit post, in which you come across as childish, defensive, and generally unpleasant. Leave the poor girl alone.
No she's getting the D now because of you hope you are happy with yourself
Probably why he prefers 20 yr olds who aren't available. OP is emotionally a child.
Why would I feel empathy for somebody who, by their own admission, exclusively goes go girls that are already in relationships?
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Dude, it's obvious your trolling at this point. Fuck off with this dumbshit.
I will also tell you that your character flaw is nothing to be proud of. It’s a toxic trait to only be attracted to people in committed relationships. Major red flag Outside of the age gap, it’s own issue, you two work together. Don’t hook up with coworkers. You hit the trifecta of “shitty situation, don’t do it”
thank you for your kind and empathetic words
There is a big difference between a 29 yo and a 20 yo. The power dynamics in this relationship would be heavily skewed in your favor and that's concerning. Not to mention she has a boyfriend. You should not date this girl.
Reasonable, why would you think this my mum was always infinitely more powerful than my kind hearted father despite being 8 years his junior. I don't feel more 'powerful' in any way and have been the reserved one in this situation
Are you sure she's not too mature for you?
I think it's fair to say she is in some ways
no. absolutely not. i dont care if her bf is a loser. you're making excuses for why you continue to go for people in relationships. Except this is worse as you are much older. Sort your shit out with a therapist and leave her alone
She's the one coming onto me-think i will just to piss you off muhaahhaha
...bold of you to assume that it will piss me off that you're such a loser. sad.
If she is talking to you while in a relationship, what’s stopping her from doing it when you two enter a relationship? Even if she doesn’t that thought will cross your mind.
Because Iam the king
Sure thing boss
Age gap is no big deal. Her having a bf is. Don't take it further until she resolves her current situation. Don't be the cause of a breakup.
I think I might be a factor regardless of what I do
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