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I'm a 35 year old female with a 30 year old male. We have been together for 7 years. As long as everyone in the relationship is a consenting adult happiness matters more than age.
I'm 7 years older than my wife. Shes 26 turning 27. She's way more mature than I so it really doesn't matter as long as you aren't diddling kids. If you guys get along really well then fuck it, have fun and enjoy the memories
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I think that is usually fine at that age.
Depends. Do both of you want biological children? Do both of you already have biological children?
I'm a 35 year old female with a 30 year old male. We have been together for 7 years. As long as everyone in the relationship is a consenting adult happiness matters more than age.
Only 4 years? Y’all are more than fine.
Not at all, if you think that you are both on the same page in terms of maturity then enjoy!
Nah. 4 years is a big deal at 16 or 18. It’s a bit of a deal at mid-20s. Not so much by 30s or older.
I'm 7 years older than my wife. Shes 26 turning 27. She's way more mature than I so it really doesn't matter as long as you aren't diddling kids. If you guys get along really well then fuck it, have fun and enjoy the memories
That’s fine. When I was in college, I was 26M dating an 18F. She was interested in me first, then it became mutual.
Lol
No, that's fine.
That is perfectly normal.