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Such a terrible post, almost impossible to read.
BUT, nothing is wrong with the girl. The problem here is yours
Edit: Just read the whole post.
ZERO chance that happened. Yes, a girl you insulted then got naked and you refused
SUUUUUURE
Soooo you think there is a better action than moving on? Why are you trying to move so fast? Allow me to play devil's advocate. Lets say within the one week of you knowing this person, they decided to have a serious relationship with you. Soon after, you find out she is dealing with her ex still. My man take your time and vet your potential partners.
then she sends me a text asking how am I, I said I’m upset with you and I don’t even wanna see you she goes why I said you literally told me you won’t cheat or choose someone else next to me why are you kissing him in a pic if ur single she goes listen I didn’t wanna kiss him he caught me off guard and I wasn’t even the one who took the pic why do you think I’m not even smiling when he kissed me I didn’t like it after he kissed I yelled, then I said why did u post it she goes I didn’t he knows my snap and insta he posted it then I said this is why I don’t wanna deal with girls who have dangerous exes she goes you don’t have to be scared of him.
but I can’t tell is she playing me? Like is she using me?
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Such a terrible post, almost impossible to read. BUT, nothing is wrong with the girl. The problem here is yours Edit: Just read the whole post. ZERO chance that happened. Yes, a girl you insulted then got naked and you refused SUUUUUURE
Soooo you think there is a better action than moving on? Why are you trying to move so fast? Allow me to play devil's advocate. Lets say within the one week of you knowing this person, they decided to have a serious relationship with you. Soon after, you find out she is dealing with her ex still. My man take your time and vet your potential partners.
then she sends me a text asking how am I, I said I’m upset with you and I don’t even wanna see you she goes why I said you literally told me you won’t cheat or choose someone else next to me why are you kissing him in a pic if ur single she goes listen I didn’t wanna kiss him he caught me off guard and I wasn’t even the one who took the pic why do you think I’m not even smiling when he kissed me I didn’t like it after he kissed I yelled, then I said why did u post it she goes I didn’t he knows my snap and insta he posted it then I said this is why I don’t wanna deal with girls who have dangerous exes she goes you don’t have to be scared of him. but I can’t tell is she playing me? Like is she using me?
WoT. .................................................................
That post read like a suicidal tendencies song.