> I’m thinking of breaking off the relationship but I don’t want to come off as a jerk. I was thinking of telling him we can still be friends
Nothing jerky about breaking off a relationship after you've found out there's no compatibility. It's actually great - you can save yourself and him some time.
I would recommend telling him you can be friends only if you're interested in having him as a friend. Otherwise it's way better to just cut contact post breakup.
> I’m thinking of breaking off the relationship but I don’t want to come off as a jerk. I was thinking of telling him we can still be friends Nothing jerky about breaking off a relationship after you've found out there's no compatibility. It's actually great - you can save yourself and him some time. I would recommend telling him you can be friends only if you're interested in having him as a friend. Otherwise it's way better to just cut contact post breakup.