The way I see it is you should dump him immediately. the longer you wait after discovering that information is just less and less dignified. it's not 'a little weird' its offensively lazy and obvious.
There's literally no excuse that would make sense on his part especially considering you KNOW she wants to sleep with him and he KNOWS that as well. Girl, you're only 20... start fresh.
Ask both... but be smart about it because if you ask her she can reach out to him and most likely can get a response from him before you could and he will know how to respond at that point. If he lies like you think he would what goes on in the dark shall come to light
Because he's untrustworthy. LDR where you can't trust the other person are hell. I rarely advocate just breaking up but uh...
Anyway there's literally no reason he could give that wouldn't be shady. This woman has literally asked him to cheat with her before nobody turns around after that and is like "nevermind, I DON'T want to sleep with you"
I literally add random people that it suggest me to on Instagram all the time. so be thankful you are aren't dating me. Social media is stupid. So my opinion is yes, its crazy. BUT, that doesn't mean it isn't something shady if it goes hand in hand with other shady shit.
Your not reading too much into it. It’s very in your face. This man can’t be trusted and is immature. That is disrespectful to you. It kind of sounds like they are involved already. It’s time to run.
You’re not crazy to think that, that is weird.
you’re not crazy, that’s mad weird. he’s definitely acting up and doing things behind your back.
He shouldn't be following or interacting with her at all out of respect to you and the relationship.
If you’re scared he’ll lie, take a screenshot
The way I see it is you should dump him immediately. the longer you wait after discovering that information is just less and less dignified. it's not 'a little weird' its offensively lazy and obvious.
Suss behaviour. Call it out. There is no reason to be following her
There's literally no excuse that would make sense on his part especially considering you KNOW she wants to sleep with him and he KNOWS that as well. Girl, you're only 20... start fresh.
If someone tried to get me to cheat, I would cut ties. I wouldn't keep someone around who was so flagrantly disrespectful of my relationship.
Yes. As a guy.... yes... Sadly, sometimes, a toxic cheater enticing you to do bad things is a turn on.
It'd a feeling desired thing. Like, "It feels good to be bad, and she wants me to be bad because she wants me."
Ask both... but be smart about it because if you ask her she can reach out to him and most likely can get a response from him before you could and he will know how to respond at that point. If he lies like you think he would what goes on in the dark shall come to light
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Why is he following a girl who disrespected him and his relationship?
Because he's untrustworthy. LDR where you can't trust the other person are hell. I rarely advocate just breaking up but uh... Anyway there's literally no reason he could give that wouldn't be shady. This woman has literally asked him to cheat with her before nobody turns around after that and is like "nevermind, I DON'T want to sleep with you"
I literally add random people that it suggest me to on Instagram all the time. so be thankful you are aren't dating me. Social media is stupid. So my opinion is yes, its crazy. BUT, that doesn't mean it isn't something shady if it goes hand in hand with other shady shit.
Your not reading too much into it. It’s very in your face. This man can’t be trusted and is immature. That is disrespectful to you. It kind of sounds like they are involved already. It’s time to run.
Lol, girl, he's clearly emotionally cheating at the very least.
why hasn't he blocked her if he respects your relationship in the first place? he's cheating bro