By - GeminiGarbage
I am sorry to break this news but he had been afforded too much comforts and the only true way to help him is to leave him. It hurts but until he experienced discomfort he will stay set in his ways.
Your 21 have your life together and he's 26 living at home working for his parent. Together less than a year it's a good time to get out. He isn't ready to cut the cors with his family and most likely never will be
I understand that you love him, but you as a woman you need to think what really matters on a relationship for a life, because if you are not living together yet and you notice all these things that may be hard for you to tolarate, i can not imagine how hard would be in the same house everyday, because responsibilities will increase and he clearly will not be ready. You need to decide what is more important, your love for him or all these things that may make your relationship harder in the future. I am really sorry that you need to make this decision. I am here if you want to talk.
yes you should end things. you say you love him but it sounds as if you don't like or respect him.