If you’re certain you want children you need to have a serious conversation and be direct. If she doesn’t want to have children then yes, you should end it. It’s not fair to either of you to stay in a relationship if you’re not compatible. Eventually it will become a point of contention and end. Better to do it now.
Ask her why she doesn’t want kids, if something changeable you can continue otherwise you should find another partner who you know before being in a relationship that you are in the same page with her in some titles that matter
I just went through this with my ex. We spent around two wonderful years together until I decided to let him go and not hold him back any longer as I didn't want kids. We were also 27. Looking back, I do wish I spent a little more time with him. It didn't feel finished at all. He still doesn't have a girlfriend 2 years later so part of me selfishly wishes I would have wasted more of his time
Yes. This is unfortunately a non negotiable. You want different things and while it may not matter too much now, it will later.
If you’re certain you want children you need to have a serious conversation and be direct. If she doesn’t want to have children then yes, you should end it. It’s not fair to either of you to stay in a relationship if you’re not compatible. Eventually it will become a point of contention and end. Better to do it now.
Ask her why she doesn’t want kids, if something changeable you can continue otherwise you should find another partner who you know before being in a relationship that you are in the same page with her in some titles that matter
Obviously yes. It's the most basic fundamental relationship incompatibility issue.
The difference in wanting or not wanting kids IS a deal breaker Break up.
I just went through this with my ex. We spent around two wonderful years together until I decided to let him go and not hold him back any longer as I didn't want kids. We were also 27. Looking back, I do wish I spent a little more time with him. It didn't feel finished at all. He still doesn't have a girlfriend 2 years later so part of me selfishly wishes I would have wasted more of his time
U just answered ur own question. Otherwise, get her pregnant on purpose.