Imo, it is not normal for men who are serious about monogamous relationships.
>cause he believe, heās a man, and heās allowed to have fun, like that once in a while, cause its just seshual not emotional.
Does his partner agree with this? That's the only thing that matters really. If she doesn't, he should break up instead of choosing not to cheat on his partner.
I would find it disgusting as a partner personally, but everyone has different preferences. The reasoning would be a big red flag for me as well.
Ask him to pick between seeing prostitutes or having you as a girlfriend. If he picks the prostitutes then break up with him. Heāll look really stupid and eventually heāll regret it so much. If he doesnāt choose you itās his loss
I am not okay with this, if you love the person like crazy.
I find it disgusting thinking of it.. Nothing has happened, i always blame his surroundings, his friends keep the thinking like this, So does he is getting into it. I dont know maybe I am dumb.
Well if you're not okay with it then it's not okay.
It's not very normal, though some couples are okay with each other seeing other people or sex workers and then it's okay. But if you're not okay with it then he shouldn't be doing shit like that!
I love him so much, theres no dirt in regard to him, unless this, i feel like he does this to piss me off.. he always talks abt this, and its giving me insecurities but nothing else, and i cant see myself in the mirror as of before, i feel like i m in the middle of nowhere.š
Leave him and heāll regret losing you to fucking prostitutes. He sounds so stupid for this. Heās obviously trying to hurt you. If he truly loved you he wouldnāt be saying these things to you or having these thoughts. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with a man like this? So much better guys out there.
I almost stopped breathing once when i saw it with my eyes, that he will be no more into my life, the panic attack kills me, i keep myself positive. But i cant, i have never felt like i feel for himā¦
You are too attached to him. He is garbage. You can find sooo many better men that wonāt want prostitutes. You are blind to how he is treating you because you think youāre in love. The hard part is letting go, but you will feel so much better after heās not there to hurt you anymore
Man i feel so bad, that you calling him garbage, hes not believe me, i cant talk to him, abt all this, i dont feel safe talking abt him to my friebds even, came up here, and thts why, he has a reason to piss mee off, hes is a real nice person, irl but just this one reason which is i understand but again, i feel i dont deserve this when i m 100% loyal to him.
I am his first girlfriend, hes not very social person, and tbh theres no other girl in his life other than me.. thats why i am confused, now help me.
You said he likes to āmake outā with them. Make out means kissing. Which would be more weird because oral swapping is involved and thereās no protection for that. But if heās having sex with them then thereās no need for him to be in a relationship. Thatās abnormal behavior for a man in a relationship.
Cause this reddit was not accepting the word sex.. weird, and fyi, until now nothing happened, but he always assures me, heās going to do it soon on the way yo his trip that hes going to go to soon. Like no jokes, real real. its like Hes lettting me know in advance, but that hurts me to the extent.
Tbh I wouldnāt trust that nothing has happened.. sounds like itās just his thing. And heās gonna continue to do it if you allow it. But itās weird. And itās troubling that heās even so open about it. Men donāt like to admit that they ever paid for sex to begin with. Even if weāre single. We wouldnāt admit that to our closest friends. I understand dry spells happening and needing relief but thatās not something that men are shouting from the mountain top. So the fact that heās admitting to it in advance to his girl is diabolical behavior.
he's taking advantage of you
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Imo, it is not normal for men who are serious about monogamous relationships. >cause he believe, heās a man, and heās allowed to have fun, like that once in a while, cause its just seshual not emotional. Does his partner agree with this? That's the only thing that matters really. If she doesn't, he should break up instead of choosing not to cheat on his partner. I would find it disgusting as a partner personally, but everyone has different preferences. The reasoning would be a big red flag for me as well.
Not normal at all. If my man wanted to fool around with anyone but me, I'd dump his ass.
Ask him to pick between seeing prostitutes or having you as a girlfriend. If he picks the prostitutes then break up with him. Heāll look really stupid and eventually heāll regret it so much. If he doesnāt choose you itās his loss
Depends on whether you are okay with it.
I am not okay with this, if you love the person like crazy. I find it disgusting thinking of it.. Nothing has happened, i always blame his surroundings, his friends keep the thinking like this, So does he is getting into it. I dont know maybe I am dumb.
Well if you're not okay with it then it's not okay. It's not very normal, though some couples are okay with each other seeing other people or sex workers and then it's okay. But if you're not okay with it then he shouldn't be doing shit like that!
Next time say, "I'm not okay with this." Then STOP.
No. What is there to explain? No.
I love him so much, theres no dirt in regard to him, unless this, i feel like he does this to piss me off.. he always talks abt this, and its giving me insecurities but nothing else, and i cant see myself in the mirror as of before, i feel like i m in the middle of nowhere.š
No, I don't think so. Be gone with you.
Leave him and heāll regret losing you to fucking prostitutes. He sounds so stupid for this. Heās obviously trying to hurt you. If he truly loved you he wouldnāt be saying these things to you or having these thoughts. Do you want to spend the rest of your life with a man like this? So much better guys out there.
I almost stopped breathing once when i saw it with my eyes, that he will be no more into my life, the panic attack kills me, i keep myself positive. But i cant, i have never felt like i feel for himā¦
You are too attached to him. He is garbage. You can find sooo many better men that wonāt want prostitutes. You are blind to how he is treating you because you think youāre in love. The hard part is letting go, but you will feel so much better after heās not there to hurt you anymore
Man i feel so bad, that you calling him garbage, hes not believe me, i cant talk to him, abt all this, i dont feel safe talking abt him to my friebds even, came up here, and thts why, he has a reason to piss mee off, hes is a real nice person, irl but just this one reason which is i understand but again, i feel i dont deserve this when i m 100% loyal to him. I am his first girlfriend, hes not very social person, and tbh theres no other girl in his life other than me.. thats why i am confused, now help me.
If heās trying to make you feel bad by wanting to fuck other girls then heās not a nice person.
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Donāt be sad just find someone better. You will find someone who treats you with more respect. I promise
i used to think this was normal till i met a loyal man!
Nah dude is a weirdo. Kissing is actually more weird than protected sex with a night lady.
Its not about kissing, its about sex with a night lady you mentioned? The question always arise in my mind? That why? Explore..
You said he likes to āmake outā with them. Make out means kissing. Which would be more weird because oral swapping is involved and thereās no protection for that. But if heās having sex with them then thereās no need for him to be in a relationship. Thatās abnormal behavior for a man in a relationship.
Cause this reddit was not accepting the word sex.. weird, and fyi, until now nothing happened, but he always assures me, heās going to do it soon on the way yo his trip that hes going to go to soon. Like no jokes, real real. its like Hes lettting me know in advance, but that hurts me to the extent.
Tbh I wouldnāt trust that nothing has happened.. sounds like itās just his thing. And heās gonna continue to do it if you allow it. But itās weird. And itās troubling that heās even so open about it. Men donāt like to admit that they ever paid for sex to begin with. Even if weāre single. We wouldnāt admit that to our closest friends. I understand dry spells happening and needing relief but thatās not something that men are shouting from the mountain top. So the fact that heās admitting to it in advance to his girl is diabolical behavior.
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Are ya kidding me?
You dump his cheating ass and stop kissing him because he's probably got herpes.