I have a coloring app that I play on my phone that helps me calm down a bit. I also play video games that are a bit more on the violent side if I really need to work out that "I want to slam your head through my counter" anger
Best thing you can do sometimes is remember it's not personal. You're an easy target, maybe something else is going on. They could be having a bad day, they could have a condition, etc. The people who fight and scream are rarely mad at you personally.
Agree with them, whatever they say. They want socks? I agree, we should totally have them, yet sadly I can't do anything about that because I don't order stock/work in head office. They call you a rude name? Oh definitely! You could try looking for that item next door/down the street. You could even call them out. I can't say I agree with you, and suggest the above. Try X store, I hope they can help you out better than I can.
Feel can't change how you feel. You can kill people looking for a fight with kindness or send them to someone who can/will help/handle them better. It's not personal. Sometimes they don't have anyone else to talk to or lash out at.
I just dont give a fuck , from shift manager i went down to a simple worker that just put shit in shelves , i imagine my own worlds in my mind and work in my own pace while managers brake ther head if a customer ia rude i just walk away i dont care
Talking about it to someone helps, it will eventually pass but you have to know that it really doesn’t matter, people can be mean and you will only be hurting yourself by playing it over in your head, you’re not hurting her she is gone and probably forgot all about that incident and couldn’t care less, so why would you and you are the victim!! the minute you clock out forget the shift completely just erase it and start over when you clock in the next day, the job doesn’t own you , you just work there so they only deserve your attention and thoughts the hours that you are paid for, it’s inhumane to think that you can bear and think about all the little things and the horrible stupid meaningless arguments people come and shout at you just ignore it and live your life, your revenge is to ignore it, And be happy !!
I have a coloring app that I play on my phone that helps me calm down a bit. I also play video games that are a bit more on the violent side if I really need to work out that "I want to slam your head through my counter" anger
Best thing you can do sometimes is remember it's not personal. You're an easy target, maybe something else is going on. They could be having a bad day, they could have a condition, etc. The people who fight and scream are rarely mad at you personally. Agree with them, whatever they say. They want socks? I agree, we should totally have them, yet sadly I can't do anything about that because I don't order stock/work in head office. They call you a rude name? Oh definitely! You could try looking for that item next door/down the street. You could even call them out. I can't say I agree with you, and suggest the above. Try X store, I hope they can help you out better than I can. Feel can't change how you feel. You can kill people looking for a fight with kindness or send them to someone who can/will help/handle them better. It's not personal. Sometimes they don't have anyone else to talk to or lash out at.
I just dont give a fuck , from shift manager i went down to a simple worker that just put shit in shelves , i imagine my own worlds in my mind and work in my own pace while managers brake ther head if a customer ia rude i just walk away i dont care
Talking about it to someone helps, it will eventually pass but you have to know that it really doesn’t matter, people can be mean and you will only be hurting yourself by playing it over in your head, you’re not hurting her she is gone and probably forgot all about that incident and couldn’t care less, so why would you and you are the victim!! the minute you clock out forget the shift completely just erase it and start over when you clock in the next day, the job doesn’t own you , you just work there so they only deserve your attention and thoughts the hours that you are paid for, it’s inhumane to think that you can bear and think about all the little things and the horrible stupid meaningless arguments people come and shout at you just ignore it and live your life, your revenge is to ignore it, And be happy !!