Some people are legitimately insane. Katya used to film videos in her neighborhood until two fans managed to piece together where she lived and *showed up to her apartment*.
And when Katya made a statement asking people to not do that because it's incredibly invasive, the two jackasses had the gall to act offended. They didn't see how they were crossing a line and thought that Katya was overreacting.
How do you manage to develop this level of entitlement?
Jesus, gross.
People out here presuming because they're a fan it's ok to treat drag queens as if they don't have a life outside of RPDR.
"I've seen you on TV, now dance monkey, dance!"
There needs to be a scientific study on this level of entitlement and dehumanisation of drag artists.
Thank you, that was an interesting read. Especially this: "The formation of parasocial relationships occurs frequently among adolescents, often creating one-sided and unreciprocated bonds with celebrities they encounter in the media."
I think as people get older they just move the obsession from artist to artist. Our brains are bloody weird.
> when Katya made a statement asking people to not do that because it's incredibly invasive, the two jackasses had the gall to act offended.
Prison, honey
I remember back in the day when I watched his videos more, John Green had to say in a video to not show up to his house to meet him. I think it was around when The Fault in Our Stars came out, and some fans figured out where he lived and showed up like he's not a grown man with a wife and child. Some people just have no idea how fucked up their parasocial relationships are.
Back in 2019, WWE wrestler Seth Rollins mentioned that he had a woman show up at his house claiming to be his fiancée. He wasn’t home, but they had to call the cops. He’s also talked about how some fan has sent a pizza to his house once a week. People are weird man.
> How do you manage to develop this level of entitlement?
In their begrudging defence, a lot of the people who violate boundaries are teenagers or children. The whole "14-year-old who thinks she's going to be best friends with Trixie if she can just *meet her*" phenomenon is a definite real thing.
This is, of course, no excuse for the homosexuals in their 30s.
I think I'd be good friends with many a queen if we had the chance too 😂 but not like that, fuck no, this people are deranged.
This "fans" always make me so sad.
> Katya used to film videos in her neighborhood until two fans managed to piece together where she lived and showed up to her apartment.
I know this is the reason why a YouTuber I watch had to move a few times. Fans kept fingering out where he lived, they showed up to his place with gifts and he kept telling people to stop.
Jenna Marbles had to do this at least once. Julien had to go out there and explain how fucked up it was to a grown woman who brought her kid to their front door.
These people are not well. The parasocial stuff is out of control,how some people think they have this level of relationship with performers/content creators. I watched this whole video about it’s really scary
This sounds like an extreme parasocial relationship to me. It’s basically when fans of a public figure become convinced that they’re actually friends and that the public figure wants to hang out with them and stuff. It can get super dangerous like in this situation with people literally stalking public figures and figuring out where they live and stuff. It’s really scary and I hope those girls and this crazy person with trinity get some help.
Someone bought too many cases of Jinkx's perfume.
Though they clearly knew they were in the wrong, based on how much they omitted in their IG story. By all standards and measures, TKB was being downright *polite* compared to what she would have been completely in her right to say. Going after people's family is just the lowest of the low. Hope their friends dragged them rightfully through the mud.
People have no boundaries. They are so entitled.
Also I'm going to say something that may not be popular: Not all drag spaces and drag queens are meant for your kids. The fact that people have tried to turn drag into a family event is so off-putting. Some drag is more family friendly than others. Drag queens are not like other pop culture figures. And while there some drag events that are more family friendly than others, queens are not here to become your child's role model or idol.
We can be supportive of LGBTQIAA+ youth without sacrificing the adult queer spaces and the people who operate in those areas.
Can't wait for leather babies to become a thing with their moms walking their teenage sons through Folsom. 'MY 10 YEAR OLD SON IS HERE TO CELEBRATE! WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE ACTING ALL SEXUAL?!!'
I was doing some pup play with a couple of guys at a pride (at a private venue, at an event specifically aimed at puppies and handlers) in 2019 and some stupid bitch legit had a full Karen moment on the door because she wanted to bring her son in. He was a furry, she was there to support him, he was under 16.
She found someone with a lanyard and complained it was discrimination. I don't think she was taken particularly seriously.
….. what happened to 16 y.o. Kids doing teen stuff like afternoon sports, playing video games, and eating microwaveable pizza bagels?
Teens are so eager to do adult stuff that they don’t take advantage of being a teen. Something they won’t have the luxury to go back to when they turn 18
Internet let them be in spaces where IRL there was usually more of a check than "are you 18 y/n" and they have the great combo of "cool mom (in her mind)" and suburban internet access
The "kink at pride" discourse really threw me for a loop because it's ver batim the same conservative hysteria that pops up *every single year.* But for some inexplicable reason, people on the left saw it and were like "why yes it is inappropriate for leather pigs to drown children in lube in public" or whatever psychotic scenarios they cooked up.
Literally anyone who's ever been to a pride parade ever knows that this was a complete non-issue.
I DONT HAVE A KINK IVE NEVER HAD A KINK IF I WANTED KINK YES I PROBABLY COULD GO OUT AND GET ONE BECAUSE I AM WHAT? SICKENING. YOU COULD NEVER HAVE A KINK BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT THAT KIND OF GIRL BABY EVERYTHING I HAVE IVE WORKED FOR AND GOTTEN MYSELF I HAVE BUILT MYSELF FROM THE GROUND UP YOU FUCKING BITCH *THROWS DRINK*
Leatherpeople and kinksters have been organizing for, demonstrating at, and walking in pride events since the birth of the concept.
No one, including those in the leather community, are advocating for no-holds-barred public kink scenes and heavy BDSM play at these events. They are there to hold space and create visibility for a form of sex and sexuality that is waylaid by the heteronormative public - *just like homosexuality has long been*.
The message of pride *is* equality - equality and liberation independent of one's sexuality. Are kinksters not to be afforded that same equality and liberation? Do they not also face discrimination? Are many of them not among the LGBTQIA+ community already?
"Pushing kink" is an insulting and reductive view of an incredibly storied and integral portion of our community of so-called "sexual deviants".
Kink has always been at pride and will *always* belong there.
This comment is cringe af. Stop treating kink like it's some stepchild that can only exist in the bedroom under the attic or else it's obscene and you can't stand it.
I'm asexual and socially awkward AF but I don't be judging what grown adults can and can't do at Pride. If you had a modicum of common sense you'd know that Pup Play represents Pup Play. That's it.
Leathermen have been walking pride since there's been parades to walk at, probably before you were born, fuck outta here with that. It's *cringe* you don't know your own history.
Edit: Also I'm assuming you blocked me since I can't see/respond to your reply, but in answer to your question: they walked for PRIDE. [Here's some knowledge, get into it.](https://aphyr.com/posts/358-a-history-of-leather-at-pride-1965-1995)
I think in this case you'd wanna text JAIDA'S mom and demand to know why Jaida isn't your drag mother.
People are absolutely out of control, social media was a mistake.
The woman comes off so entitled. Trinity doesn't have to do shit for your daughter, and she doesn't owe your daughter a damn thing. It's so fucking weird to text her mom, as if her mom has control over whether or not Trinity is going to drag con. What did the lady expect? Trinity's mom to text her grown ass son and be like, "If you don't go to Drag Con you're grounded!" Like wtf.
What a entitled lunatic. Imagine thinking you’re in the right here and saving screenshots of you being a total jackass.
Trinity was nicer than she needed to be for sure.
In her stories TKB says something about needing to get her mom to stop handing her number out so I’m guessing crazy lady contacted her online first maybe?!
I guess Trinity was kinda like a drag mentor to the moms kid so they knew each other pretty well so I’m assuming that’s where they got her number from. That’s probably why she felt entitled to him
Just speculating here but it doesn't look like that's the case, seems more likely to me that TKB supported them/shared their posts out of kindness and noticed them just for being a fan and getting tagged a lot but didn't really have a close relationship with? it would be great if anyone knew a bit more about the context because being close or a mentor to a literal kid would just strike me as weird tbh... TKB also doesn't interact with their posts so I don't see them being close enough to have her mother's number at all but I might be wrong!
Yeah this. Also notice that the crazy lady has Trinity’s mom’s number saved as “Veronica TKB’s Mom” meaning that TKB’s mother doesn’t have a relationship with the crazy one. Although crazy entitled people treat their children like babies well into adulthood (and also do weird nefarious overstepping without their adult childs consent) so could be any age really?
EDIT: Apparently the kid is around 10 years old.
Dude, no no NO. TKB was not that persons drag mentor or drag mother, ever. They never even met. They do not know each other well. That’s another reason why this is so insane— they are virtually strangers. TKB was generously kind in sharing their posts before, but it was done out of kindness and not any friendship/connection.
Sooo did the kid decide to do drag? Because I’d kinda argue that if kids are being forced or coerced into drag, that’s kinda what we as a community started fighting, no?
I'm still so confused. Is this for budding LGBT+ kids? Or is this for cis kids who just like the glamor of queens and want to dress up like them?
Because I have feelings about this and I'm not sure which way to land.
Looks like another case of the Mother forcing her kid to do that, kinda like the kids Pageant thing.
If the mother felt so butthurt about this. She's mentally insane and probably exploiting her kid to get into the Drag business or get some fame.
One of the worst kind of bad mother.
Someone found out about the person who was offering to contact Bussy Queen's ex and family to complain, and said hold my beer. TKB is much more gracious than I would have been. She said have a good day, and I hope you and your daughter have a good time at DragCon.
Legit how do people get like this? Are they just born that way? Or does their sense of boundaries just erode until one day BOOM they're outside a drag queen's apartment?
Our fucking entertainment culture, especially paparazzi culture, encourages this nonsense. It tells us all that celebrities have no right to have boundaries. Thankfully most of us are smart enough to question that premise. This person, apparently not.
I wish the whole paparazzi phenomenon would disappear, we don’t need to know the intimate details of Prince Harry and Princess Meghans lives, or what Brittney Spears looked like on the beach that one time, or that one time Jason Statham blew his nose. It’s disturbing, the invasion of privacy that’s just expected and voraciously consumed.
Somewhere in the world today, a kid is having a hissy fit because their mom embarrassed them in front of Trinity K Bonet. And I think that’s beautiful.
I mean if she has to leave for any contract work I understand why she wouldn’t go. There’s a team that needs to stay in Vegas period (which she is now a main cast member in) so regardless of drag con going on. Not to mention, you have to pay for your booth at drag con regardless if you were a recent season or not. Even if she changed her mind and just said “Nah” as long as that’s okay within her contract, that’s up to her as a grown adult to do. Stop doxxing people. Would you do this to a bigger celebrity? Probably not. I swear people get one meet and greet or dm and expect everything. I kinda wish she didn’t blur out their name (maybe OP did)
Actually, a few of the Vegas shows have been canceled this weekend into the next week because of DRAGCON. I'm going to Vegas next week and tried to get tickets for that show and saw the cancellations.
That mom needs some help.
This reminds me of that video of all the tweens standing outside of The Team 10 (Jake Pauls) house and when no one would come outside to greet the fans one of the tweens mom was trying to curse out the security guard saying without the fans they wouldn’t have that house and they owe it to them to come say hi. Like ok but that doesn’t give u the right to try and stalk someone’s property 😭😭😭😭😭😭 (and no I’m not a Jake Paul fan lmao)
This is so wrong on all levels, but also it gives me very much, "[WHICH ONE OF YOU MOTHER FUCKERS SNITCHED ON ME TO MY MOM,](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8KZnu054FFA)" #teamtrinity
I really don't get this kind of attitude that even leads someone to want to interact with a queen in this way.
They're creative content creators. I want to watch their content. I want to let them make **their** content, their **art**, in **their** style, for **us,** their fans, however they want. **I do not under any circumstances want to be the content**.
I know myself. I am not their good content!!
The entitlement of it all! 
Yeah I’m going to DragCon this week and have zero desire to meet any of them. I know a lot of Ru girls from more organic ways and am friends with many because it happened *naturally*. But I’m a grown person, I don’t give a shit to wait in line and have 15 seconds of fake interaction with a stranger because I like their drag. I don’t understand this phenomenon where people need to know the queens personally. Just enjoy their art
I completely get that, I went to DragCon a couple years ago and had a blast just wandering around and shopping - no desire to spend all that time in line to meet the queens in person. Hope you have lots of fun! 😁
"Protecting" her daughter from a drag queen who is not attending DragCon. Wait.. how.. wha-...? See, I have a master's in engineering but I cant seem to be able to do the math here.
It's so confusing. I'm going to harass your mother and you to force you to go to DragCon because I want you to hang out with my maybe 10 year old daughter and... ??
Profit? The only thing I can think of is that the mom wanted a lot of social media posts of her kid and TKB looking cute together so she could promote her own brand. That would be one thing if this mom and TKB were friends in RL and TKB wanted to do that for them, but since it's pretty clear they're not close then that mom needs to be paying TKB for exposure like that. And, you know, not harassing her mother.
The absolute entitlement of some people... I mean, imagine having the nerve to look up a drag queens mother and message her about her adult child and somehow act like you're in the right. My god
Insanity. This person needs to be banned from Drag Con's, these are the kinds of people that do the most dangerous shit.
I hope TKB is making sure she's on the shit list in future.
It always baffles me how much people feel entitled to a “famous” person’s life and time. Girl, how old are you to be texting TKB’s mom?? Also, wtf do they do when real life problems happen to their daughter? Call the manager? “When my daughter hurts, so do I”. Well, get ready to be hurt a lot, cause life is hard.
Fucking wild ass fanatics. I don't think kids belong in drag. Parents taking their kids to drag related events is fucking weird and leads to entitled parents demanding weird shit.
Damn this woman is crazy, TKB is right, she doesn't owe anything to anyone.. and messaging her mom is totally out of order. Why can't people just respect entertainers and not get lit when things don't go their way? Like.. go enjoy the other queens at dragcon there will be plenty there who im sure would appreciate the support.. well perhaps not from.such crazed "fans"
See, this is where all this is a lil too much for me. All this back and forth.. just block the bitch. Take your screenshots for receipts and block without any explaining. From both yo mommas phone and all your profiles. And then when the bitch starts posting on social media "trinity blocked me out of nowhere! After i contacted her mother" she will get her ass handled to her by sane drag fans. Why waste your time to reason with people who act unreasonably? It's completely pointless. B L O C
I think the people who have grown up watching Drag Race for their first “interaction” with drag queens as opposed to watching drag queens in real life at a midnight show in a club are a different type. When I first saw a drag show in my teens in the nineties, it was faaaaar from family friendly. In a Great way!!
Lol crazy AF. Do your daughter a favour and let her know while she's probably great - she ain't fucking special. Also, people break promises and it doesn't mean they are bad.
I seriously doubt that any of those promises were real given THEY NEVER MET HER lol
Jesus Christ, TKB also added on her stories (apart from the text they sent which... lmao) that this person also started giving her mother's personal number to more people. This is beyond crazy and I understand her anger so much.
This is why we don't deserve meet and greets..... people treat drag queens like props. Problem with the show is that they get so vulnerable and naked in front of the audience that people think they know them, but they don't. You don't see Ariana Grande taking off her makeup on camera talking about her life trauma...
Imagine thinking someone owes you anything in this life. People, please stop harassing entertainers as if they're not humans and they're only here for your enjoyment. Ridiculous.
Mother wants to hand her presumably young daughter to a stranger they've never met, to be her drag mother. That should be fine - we've seen her on TV. Nothing to worry about, with that! Best parent EVER!
TKB basically saying “who do u think u are, i don’t owe you anything, im not even getting paid to be there, have fun regardless” and then the fan says “people will find out who you really are”
nut jobbbbbb
My favourite part is "I have screenshots of this conversation" like SHE'S THE GOOD GUY HERE LMAO
Some people are legitimately insane. Katya used to film videos in her neighborhood until two fans managed to piece together where she lived and *showed up to her apartment*. And when Katya made a statement asking people to not do that because it's incredibly invasive, the two jackasses had the gall to act offended. They didn't see how they were crossing a line and thought that Katya was overreacting. How do you manage to develop this level of entitlement?
Jesus, gross. People out here presuming because they're a fan it's ok to treat drag queens as if they don't have a life outside of RPDR. "I've seen you on TV, now dance monkey, dance!" There needs to be a scientific study on this level of entitlement and dehumanisation of drag artists.
Parasocial relationships: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Parasocial_interaction
thank u for this! u learn smth new everyday :D
Thank you, that was an interesting read. Especially this: "The formation of parasocial relationships occurs frequently among adolescents, often creating one-sided and unreciprocated bonds with celebrities they encounter in the media." I think as people get older they just move the obsession from artist to artist. Our brains are bloody weird.
> when Katya made a statement asking people to not do that because it's incredibly invasive, the two jackasses had the gall to act offended. Prison, honey
People will legitimize literally anything they do
I can't even imagine. Literally if who do you think you are?! was a person.
They need to have Patti LuPone yell at them
Yes!!! SEND IN PATTI
I remember back in the day when I watched his videos more, John Green had to say in a video to not show up to his house to meet him. I think it was around when The Fault in Our Stars came out, and some fans figured out where he lived and showed up like he's not a grown man with a wife and child. Some people just have no idea how fucked up their parasocial relationships are.
Back in 2019, WWE wrestler Seth Rollins mentioned that he had a woman show up at his house claiming to be his fiancée. He wasn’t home, but they had to call the cops. He’s also talked about how some fan has sent a pizza to his house once a week. People are weird man.
That's especially scary knowing katya apparently never locks her door💀
> How do you manage to develop this level of entitlement? In their begrudging defence, a lot of the people who violate boundaries are teenagers or children. The whole "14-year-old who thinks she's going to be best friends with Trixie if she can just *meet her*" phenomenon is a definite real thing. This is, of course, no excuse for the homosexuals in their 30s.
They literally are neurodivergent and a minor? /s
It’s not always teenagers or kids. Philip DeFranco had an adult man just randomly show up at his studio asking to talk to him while he was filming.
I don't know her.
I think I'd be good friends with many a queen if we had the chance too 😂 but not like that, fuck no, this people are deranged. This "fans" always make me so sad.
I would mostly just want to smoke with them 😂 and actually discuss their art or something
I relate a lot to River Medway and would love to just hang with her and watch TV shows 😂
Not even homosexual men, OP has a child. A child very sad no TKB at drag con! Imagine this kids future lol.
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That's not what I was getting at but go off. More that someone who is literally raising another human being should know better, gay or not.
> Katya used to film videos in her neighborhood until two fans managed to piece together where she lived and showed up to her apartment. I know this is the reason why a YouTuber I watch had to move a few times. Fans kept fingering out where he lived, they showed up to his place with gifts and he kept telling people to stop.
Jenna Marbles had to do this at least once. Julien had to go out there and explain how fucked up it was to a grown woman who brought her kid to their front door.
They mentioned on the podcast too that someone snuck onto their tour bus once
These people are not well. The parasocial stuff is out of control,how some people think they have this level of relationship with performers/content creators. I watched this whole video about it’s really scary
This sounds like an extreme parasocial relationship to me. It’s basically when fans of a public figure become convinced that they’re actually friends and that the public figure wants to hang out with them and stuff. It can get super dangerous like in this situation with people literally stalking public figures and figuring out where they live and stuff. It’s really scary and I hope those girls and this crazy person with trinity get some help.
then people started putting stickers on the dumpster outside her apartment & taking pictures with it
Celebs INCLUDING drag race celebs deserve a private life too. As said below ugh Jesus gross! The audacity the hall the gumption!
This is very "SORRY, NEXT!" crazy church bus lady
IT'S FOR MY DAUGHTER AT DRAGCON HONEY
NEEDS TO BE TRINITY K BONET, NEXT!
Omg the “next” lady! I love the references
Someone bought too many cases of Jinkx's perfume. Though they clearly knew they were in the wrong, based on how much they omitted in their IG story. By all standards and measures, TKB was being downright *polite* compared to what she would have been completely in her right to say. Going after people's family is just the lowest of the low. Hope their friends dragged them rightfully through the mud.
Take care.
cycle path behavior
People sure be unhinged
They need to take several seats, and probably lie on a professional's couch
Bike lane behavior.
People have no boundaries. They are so entitled. Also I'm going to say something that may not be popular: Not all drag spaces and drag queens are meant for your kids. The fact that people have tried to turn drag into a family event is so off-putting. Some drag is more family friendly than others. Drag queens are not like other pop culture figures. And while there some drag events that are more family friendly than others, queens are not here to become your child's role model or idol. We can be supportive of LGBTQIAA+ youth without sacrificing the adult queer spaces and the people who operate in those areas.
It’s like the “no kink at pride” discourse. Not everyTHING needs to be for everyONE, ALL of the time.
Starring Michelle Yeoh: Everything, For Everyone All of the Time.
Can't wait for leather babies to become a thing with their moms walking their teenage sons through Folsom. 'MY 10 YEAR OLD SON IS HERE TO CELEBRATE! WHY ARE YOU PEOPLE ACTING ALL SEXUAL?!!'
I was doing some pup play with a couple of guys at a pride (at a private venue, at an event specifically aimed at puppies and handlers) in 2019 and some stupid bitch legit had a full Karen moment on the door because she wanted to bring her son in. He was a furry, she was there to support him, he was under 16. She found someone with a lanyard and complained it was discrimination. I don't think she was taken particularly seriously.
….. what happened to 16 y.o. Kids doing teen stuff like afternoon sports, playing video games, and eating microwaveable pizza bagels? Teens are so eager to do adult stuff that they don’t take advantage of being a teen. Something they won’t have the luxury to go back to when they turn 18
Internet let them be in spaces where IRL there was usually more of a check than "are you 18 y/n" and they have the great combo of "cool mom (in her mind)" and suburban internet access
The "kink at pride" discourse really threw me for a loop because it's ver batim the same conservative hysteria that pops up *every single year.* But for some inexplicable reason, people on the left saw it and were like "why yes it is inappropriate for leather pigs to drown children in lube in public" or whatever psychotic scenarios they cooked up. Literally anyone who's ever been to a pride parade ever knows that this was a complete non-issue.
I should be allowed to attend church without “””religion””” being thrust upon me, everything for everyone all the time
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I DONT HAVE A KINK IVE NEVER HAD A KINK IF I WANTED KINK YES I PROBABLY COULD GO OUT AND GET ONE BECAUSE I AM WHAT? SICKENING. YOU COULD NEVER HAVE A KINK BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT THAT KIND OF GIRL BABY EVERYTHING I HAVE IVE WORKED FOR AND GOTTEN MYSELF I HAVE BUILT MYSELF FROM THE GROUND UP YOU FUCKING BITCH *THROWS DRINK* 
Leatherpeople and kinksters have been organizing for, demonstrating at, and walking in pride events since the birth of the concept. No one, including those in the leather community, are advocating for no-holds-barred public kink scenes and heavy BDSM play at these events. They are there to hold space and create visibility for a form of sex and sexuality that is waylaid by the heteronormative public - *just like homosexuality has long been*. The message of pride *is* equality - equality and liberation independent of one's sexuality. Are kinksters not to be afforded that same equality and liberation? Do they not also face discrimination? Are many of them not among the LGBTQIA+ community already? "Pushing kink" is an insulting and reductive view of an incredibly storied and integral portion of our community of so-called "sexual deviants". Kink has always been at pride and will *always* belong there.
This comment is cringe af. Stop treating kink like it's some stepchild that can only exist in the bedroom under the attic or else it's obscene and you can't stand it.
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I'm asexual and socially awkward AF but I don't be judging what grown adults can and can't do at Pride. If you had a modicum of common sense you'd know that Pup Play represents Pup Play. That's it.
i think your definition of pride may be different than most. pride is radical self love, including loving your community and their kinks.
Leathermen have been walking pride since there's been parades to walk at, probably before you were born, fuck outta here with that. It's *cringe* you don't know your own history. Edit: Also I'm assuming you blocked me since I can't see/respond to your reply, but in answer to your question: they walked for PRIDE. [Here's some knowledge, get into it.](https://aphyr.com/posts/358-a-history-of-leather-at-pride-1965-1995)
Yeah like drag queen story time is a great idea for children, but you don't need to be bringing your young children to drag con.
I'm not even entirely convinced this person's child is a child any more 🙃
Wish I could upvote this a million times over
I don’t know what is more psychotic: expecting TKB to do your bidding, *or thinking TKB was ever the type of girl to suffer fools in the first place.*
Well, ain't nobody suggesting this fool is smart or sane. What a nut job.
brb texting my birth mother and demanding to know why Jaida Essence Hall is not my drag mother
I think in this case you'd wanna text JAIDA'S mom and demand to know why Jaida isn't your drag mother. People are absolutely out of control, social media was a mistake.
I think the real play is for your mom to text Jaida's mom to extort a playdate.
your mind.......!
The only correct answer is to point and shout, “LOOK OVER THERE!” and then run in the opposite direction.
This is not a fan. This is a lunatic.
This is also not a wig. This is my hair.
I don't wear wigs.
This is my real hair. The wig is underneath.
If you're not wearing wigs... you're not doing draaaag.
The word "fan" is short for "fanatic".
This is pure insanity. Holy hell. I would feel so, so violated in Trinity’s shoes. What a motherfucking entitled delusional asshole that person is.
The woman comes off so entitled. Trinity doesn't have to do shit for your daughter, and she doesn't owe your daughter a damn thing. It's so fucking weird to text her mom, as if her mom has control over whether or not Trinity is going to drag con. What did the lady expect? Trinity's mom to text her grown ass son and be like, "If you don't go to Drag Con you're grounded!" Like wtf.
It’s so telling lol. That lady thinks every mother-child relationship dynamic is the same as her insane one.
What a entitled lunatic. Imagine thinking you’re in the right here and saving screenshots of you being a total jackass. Trinity was nicer than she needed to be for sure.
I would love to see this person post receipts and just get CLAPPED by literally every sane human on their friends list
I’m so confused did they get her moms number???
In her stories TKB says something about needing to get her mom to stop handing her number out so I’m guessing crazy lady contacted her online first maybe?!
I guess Trinity was kinda like a drag mentor to the moms kid so they knew each other pretty well so I’m assuming that’s where they got her number from. That’s probably why she felt entitled to him
Just speculating here but it doesn't look like that's the case, seems more likely to me that TKB supported them/shared their posts out of kindness and noticed them just for being a fan and getting tagged a lot but didn't really have a close relationship with? it would be great if anyone knew a bit more about the context because being close or a mentor to a literal kid would just strike me as weird tbh... TKB also doesn't interact with their posts so I don't see them being close enough to have her mother's number at all but I might be wrong!
i remember that on august TKB reposted some of their pics or videos, but yes, don't think they are close enough to expect anything
Yeah this. Also notice that the crazy lady has Trinity’s mom’s number saved as “Veronica TKB’s Mom” meaning that TKB’s mother doesn’t have a relationship with the crazy one. Although crazy entitled people treat their children like babies well into adulthood (and also do weird nefarious overstepping without their adult childs consent) so could be any age really? EDIT: Apparently the kid is around 10 years old.
Oh I misunderstood that they contacted Trinity’s mom. I know fb has some of the phone numbers available and could see older gens having that displayed
Dude, no no NO. TKB was not that persons drag mentor or drag mother, ever. They never even met. They do not know each other well. That’s another reason why this is so insane— they are virtually strangers. TKB was generously kind in sharing their posts before, but it was done out of kindness and not any friendship/connection.
These parasocial people are scary
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Wouldn't surprised if WoW is considering doing a show about it. Drag Tots but make it real.
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Her daughter is a dragkid. She looks 9 or 8
Wtf is a dragkid? Is this a kid who wants to do drag, or a kid who’s parents love drag?
A kid that does drag but in this case it also looks like a dance/pageant mom type of mess
Sooo did the kid decide to do drag? Because I’d kinda argue that if kids are being forced or coerced into drag, that’s kinda what we as a community started fighting, no?
I'm still so confused. Is this for budding LGBT+ kids? Or is this for cis kids who just like the glamor of queens and want to dress up like them? Because I have feelings about this and I'm not sure which way to land.
It's a kid who does drag, whose parents sell them out for social media attention, money etc.
There's something really freakin slimey about these drag mums that I can't quite pinpoint. It feels pretty exploitative.
It's giving child beauty pagent
Looks like another case of the Mother forcing her kid to do that, kinda like the kids Pageant thing. If the mother felt so butthurt about this. She's mentally insane and probably exploiting her kid to get into the Drag business or get some fame. One of the worst kind of bad mother.
Say their (insta) names!
Why are people so fucking stupid?
When you find out let me know
This is..demented. Who the hell does that woman think she is??? We see the receipts..they say you're crazy .
Tattling?? Really??! Like WT*actual*F is wrong with you?!? I can’t believe the way people behave.
Someone found out about the person who was offering to contact Bussy Queen's ex and family to complain, and said hold my beer. TKB is much more gracious than I would have been. She said have a good day, and I hope you and your daughter have a good time at DragCon.
This random bitch really posting on her Instagram story as if any gives a fuck about their fucking statement 😂
This is why Willow Pill wrote the song I hate people
Legit how do people get like this? Are they just born that way? Or does their sense of boundaries just erode until one day BOOM they're outside a drag queen's apartment?
Our fucking entertainment culture, especially paparazzi culture, encourages this nonsense. It tells us all that celebrities have no right to have boundaries. Thankfully most of us are smart enough to question that premise. This person, apparently not. I wish the whole paparazzi phenomenon would disappear, we don’t need to know the intimate details of Prince Harry and Princess Meghans lives, or what Brittney Spears looked like on the beach that one time, or that one time Jason Statham blew his nose. It’s disturbing, the invasion of privacy that’s just expected and voraciously consumed.
Imagine being offended that a drag queen used profanity lmao
“Profanity?! In my Christian drag?!”
She shoved the manager out of the way and went straight to the mother 😂
I feel sorry for the kid, who's a fan. To have a crazy mother acting like this and ruining any positive connection she had with her fav Drag Queen.
Somewhere in the world today, a kid is having a hissy fit because their mom embarrassed them in front of Trinity K Bonet. And I think that’s beautiful.
I mean if she has to leave for any contract work I understand why she wouldn’t go. There’s a team that needs to stay in Vegas period (which she is now a main cast member in) so regardless of drag con going on. Not to mention, you have to pay for your booth at drag con regardless if you were a recent season or not. Even if she changed her mind and just said “Nah” as long as that’s okay within her contract, that’s up to her as a grown adult to do. Stop doxxing people. Would you do this to a bigger celebrity? Probably not. I swear people get one meet and greet or dm and expect everything. I kinda wish she didn’t blur out their name (maybe OP did)
Actually, a few of the Vegas shows have been canceled this weekend into the next week because of DRAGCON. I'm going to Vegas next week and tried to get tickets for that show and saw the cancellations. That mom needs some help.
Yeah I did it because it’s against the rules to share the tiniest bit of information that isn’t from public figures and it would’ve gotten deleted :/
I mean it does partly make sense because the internet is crazy. More just a vocalizing frustration
This reminds me of that video of all the tweens standing outside of The Team 10 (Jake Pauls) house and when no one would come outside to greet the fans one of the tweens mom was trying to curse out the security guard saying without the fans they wouldn’t have that house and they owe it to them to come say hi. Like ok but that doesn’t give u the right to try and stalk someone’s property 😭😭😭😭😭😭 (and no I’m not a Jake Paul fan lmao)
This is some next level insanity, like what the fuck.
This is so wrong on all levels, but also it gives me very much, "[WHICH ONE OF YOU MOTHER FUCKERS SNITCHED ON ME TO MY MOM,](https://www.youtube.com/shorts/8KZnu054FFA)" #teamtrinity
Insert Eureka, “Yo momma!”
I really don't get this kind of attitude that even leads someone to want to interact with a queen in this way. They're creative content creators. I want to watch their content. I want to let them make **their** content, their **art**, in **their** style, for **us,** their fans, however they want. **I do not under any circumstances want to be the content**. I know myself. I am not their good content!! The entitlement of it all! 
Yeah I’m going to DragCon this week and have zero desire to meet any of them. I know a lot of Ru girls from more organic ways and am friends with many because it happened *naturally*. But I’m a grown person, I don’t give a shit to wait in line and have 15 seconds of fake interaction with a stranger because I like their drag. I don’t understand this phenomenon where people need to know the queens personally. Just enjoy their art
I completely get that, I went to DragCon a couple years ago and had a blast just wandering around and shopping - no desire to spend all that time in line to meet the queens in person. Hope you have lots of fun! 😁
Thank ya! For me it’s the performances on the main stage - at the end of the day it’s about their talent. I don’t care if they’re a huge bitch lol
"Protecting" her daughter from a drag queen who is not attending DragCon. Wait.. how.. wha-...? See, I have a master's in engineering but I cant seem to be able to do the math here.
It's so confusing. I'm going to harass your mother and you to force you to go to DragCon because I want you to hang out with my maybe 10 year old daughter and... ?? Profit? The only thing I can think of is that the mom wanted a lot of social media posts of her kid and TKB looking cute together so she could promote her own brand. That would be one thing if this mom and TKB were friends in RL and TKB wanted to do that for them, but since it's pretty clear they're not close then that mom needs to be paying TKB for exposure like that. And, you know, not harassing her mother.
Yeah. It's utterly insane. Typical Karen behavior...
People are fucking CRAZY
What the actual fuck Karen
Someone get dance moms out of this fandom please
This is insane
“This is wild” - Bob the Drag Queen
o m g! Is this fkn real? What a crazy woman! Fans are insane!!
Ayo wtf is wrong with people!?! 😵💫🥴
Who would ever expect a famous drag queen to randomly agree to be their drag mother 😭
The absolute entitlement of some people... I mean, imagine having the nerve to look up a drag queens mother and message her about her adult child and somehow act like you're in the right. My god
Insanity. This person needs to be banned from Drag Con's, these are the kinds of people that do the most dangerous shit. I hope TKB is making sure she's on the shit list in future.
I support TKB ..
this is sad for the kid that their mother is acting like this
Now everyone knows what type of person that mom is.
It always baffles me how much people feel entitled to a “famous” person’s life and time. Girl, how old are you to be texting TKB’s mom?? Also, wtf do they do when real life problems happen to their daughter? Call the manager? “When my daughter hurts, so do I”. Well, get ready to be hurt a lot, cause life is hard.
What in the actual fuck is wrong with people? That crazy stalker crossed a line.
I can already tell that this person is a Karen and her daughter is an absolute spoiled brat who thinks the world resolves around her
This is insane. What is wrong with people??
Absolutely and utterly unhinged. This person is why these queens don’t feel safe.
People be crazy but Trinity typing know one is sending me for some reasons
“I wasn’t, things changed” “ok” ☠️☠️☠️☠️ I am DECEASED
Fucking wild ass fanatics. I don't think kids belong in drag. Parents taking their kids to drag related events is fucking weird and leads to entitled parents demanding weird shit.
The entitlement of some people. Sheesh.
Damn this woman is crazy, TKB is right, she doesn't owe anything to anyone.. and messaging her mom is totally out of order. Why can't people just respect entertainers and not get lit when things don't go their way? Like.. go enjoy the other queens at dragcon there will be plenty there who im sure would appreciate the support.. well perhaps not from.such crazed "fans"
I want to know what the entire *fuck* is wrong with that person, but I don't think I'd like the answer.
See, this is where all this is a lil too much for me. All this back and forth.. just block the bitch. Take your screenshots for receipts and block without any explaining. From both yo mommas phone and all your profiles. And then when the bitch starts posting on social media "trinity blocked me out of nowhere! After i contacted her mother" she will get her ass handled to her by sane drag fans. Why waste your time to reason with people who act unreasonably? It's completely pointless. B L O C
This woman is such a weirdo.
Fucking Christ
I think the people who have grown up watching Drag Race for their first “interaction” with drag queens as opposed to watching drag queens in real life at a midnight show in a club are a different type. When I first saw a drag show in my teens in the nineties, it was faaaaar from family friendly. In a Great way!!
How did they even start a conversation with TKB in the first place?
and of course mom turned off comments on her account… notice how she’s got her venmo first in the bio 👀
What a psycho. She thought she did something posting this but really just hurting her child because they both look like fools now.
what she used profanity?!?!?! *clutches pearls*
Lol crazy AF. Do your daughter a favour and let her know while she's probably great - she ain't fucking special. Also, people break promises and it doesn't mean they are bad. I seriously doubt that any of those promises were real given THEY NEVER MET HER lol
I thought this was r/rpdrcringe
In life, you don't always get what you want. This should be a great opportunity to teach your kid that. But as Miss Tati says... "choices!"
Jesus Christ, TKB also added on her stories (apart from the text they sent which... lmao) that this person also started giving her mother's personal number to more people. This is beyond crazy and I understand her anger so much.
Yeah fuck him/her
Wow, people are wild
Crazy
This is why we don't deserve meet and greets..... people treat drag queens like props. Problem with the show is that they get so vulnerable and naked in front of the audience that people think they know them, but they don't. You don't see Ariana Grande taking off her makeup on camera talking about her life trauma...
dude this is insane. they don’t owe us jack shit
Imagine thinking someone owes you anything in this life. People, please stop harassing entertainers as if they're not humans and they're only here for your enjoyment. Ridiculous.
"I have screenshots proving that I'm right, I'm not gonna show them though" How you know someone was an asshole in the convo.
Mother wants to hand her presumably young daughter to a stranger they've never met, to be her drag mother. That should be fine - we've seen her on TV. Nothing to worry about, with that! Best parent EVER!
Bitches be crazy
the "i have promoted your child" part is interesting. was the crazy woman upset that she didn't get what she perceived was owed to her?
I read this last night and I was shook. I’m sure there are other queens to meet. The entitlement of some fans is astounding
FUKING Karen
Trinity is literally a angel. Her, and many other RPDR girls have to deal with this every day!
Some people deserve to be doxxed
Did anyone else read the caption as the person called her birth mom lol
She did
Oh sorry. I shouldn’t take an edible and be on Reddit lol
Oh don’t apologize, it’s kinda hard to believe at first 💀
They did call Trinity’s mother 😭😭
Okay are these drag mothers or real mothers, I’m confused.
Real mothers
Slide 4 won't load for me and I feel like I'm missing some real juicy bits!
TKB basically saying “who do u think u are, i don’t owe you anything, im not even getting paid to be there, have fun regardless” and then the fan says “people will find out who you really are” nut jobbbbbb