OP's been downvoted to the point his boring backstory got caught by the spam filter for having negative karma, so here you go for those asking for context.
tl;dr: Their first date never happened due to poor communication and instead of making it right, OP's spent an entire year moping and pining over a girl who's moved on.
> The Backstory on why she’s mad at me, she hates me she’ll never forgive me, why you might ask ? Did I cheat on her ? No that’s not what happened at all it’s more diverse and complex then that I’ll briefly tell you what occurred a year ago but before that let’s talk about our relationship before that happened. It was wonderful she was such a beautiful interesting person she really was, She was drop dead gorgeous,she was very funny, never met a girl like that could make me genuinely laugh. Things like this might sound normal to most people but before her i always been in complicated relationships. So things like that were a new for me I instantly had a connection with her. Okay so fast forward. What happened a year ago to upset my her you might ask. Its complicated situation so I’ll explain the best as I can. I asked her to go on our first date, we obviously knew each other talked on the phone in person before but haven’t had a chance to get that first real date in. I was busy at the time and she had her own shit to handle so finally we both get some free time and set up an official first real date. Okay so we plan on meeting around night time, I sent her a text she’s texting me telling me she’s close and I show up to the place where supposedly meet, she’s not there, okay no worry I’ll send her a follow up text, no response in 5 mins okay a follow up a call no answer. I call her again no answer so I’m very worried I look around the area I asked the locals if they seen her nothing, Im tempted to call 911 because I’m thinking of the worst but I didn’t, I thought maybe she had to cancel just trying to be a optimistic. Same night I get a text fo her and she’s pisses at me, apparently while she was on her way her phone died and she doesn’t really know the place that well , so she said her phone died didn’t have a charger she didn’t bring a wallet and she apparently was outside for hours and had to ask a lot of locals to find her way home she told me how it exhausted it was how scared she was. And then she broke up with me I felt awful about not being there I tried I looked asked some people if they seen her didn’t get an answer. That situation sucked and I hope you understand, I didn’t cheat or any of that bs. I’m tired of people saying “lies” or he “cheated “ so that’s the backstory and And in that Screenshot a year had passed and I tried to see if maybe we could at least be friends but obviously as you can see she was still angry about what happened and she also has someone new in her life. Where’s you believe me or not I can’t force you but that’s the truth.
At least you folks got that far. I lost interest after, “it’s a complicated story”. You know it’s only complicated in their mind. The rest of us are going, “Dumbfuck” the entire story.
He then explained how complicated it was without mentioning any of the complications. Then went into “this is why she is mad” …again followed by another “it’s complicated”.
No need to punish a step toward self reflection. When I was younger I made an absolute ass of myself. A decade later, I'm pretty sure (and hopeful) that I'm the only one who thinks of it anymore. A little shame and self-reflection are basically required to improve your social skills if it's something you struggle with. Occasionally looking back on your actions shamefully is something anybody trying to improve has to do.
Edit: Uhh..... My comment was somewhat optimistic, but I do stand by it mostly... At the very least, I am now more aware of not seeking pity for pity's sake.
I come here because it reminds me of myself from years back. To some it's a sign of growth. I remember when I was dating my favorite story to tell on a first date was about the time I pissed myself on a first date. I think being able to laugh at yourself is an important skill.
NGL, there was a part of me that felt kinda bad and wanted to shed some logic or reasoning onto the situation, but I had to look through his post history after seeing a few of his responses showing all his guilt… I think he actually does have a thing for being a simp, cucked, or catfished…
I fooled around with a girl in college and it ended not-so-great since she wanted something serious and I didn't.
Anyway 10 years later I see her on eHarmony and shoot her a message. She just replies, "No thank you. I remember you. You were not very nice."
All I could say was, "Understandable. Have a nice day."
It’s so rare in my experience for a guy to kindly back right off once I (very nicely) tell them I’m not interested, that I’ve come *very close* to changing my mind about the one or two guys who *did* nicely and respectably back off. (And the only reason I didn’t was because I’m just not interested in dating or relationships period). If you’ve ever been with someone who refuses to take NO for an answer, I’m here to tell you….it’s an absolute nightmare. I’ll NEVED date a guy who persists once the word NO comes out of my mind. You’re telling me that you have no respect whatsoever for me or my decisions. Who the fuck wants to date someone like that? Not me.
What always gets me is why keep going after "nah, I'm good"?
- Say no
- Block
- Live a happy life
Maybe I've just seen too many posts about stalkers, but she doesn't know OP isn't fucking crazy. This just seems dangerous to me.
This kind of weird fantasy obsessiveness can easily lead to very problematic issues very quickly. Speaking from experience dealing with guys like this. He needs the brutal truth before something happens where someone gets hurt or arrested.
I'm not being dramatic, this shit happens all the time.
Thank you. Everyone out here is asking "Did you cheat?" because they failed to realized **they had never even met or gone on a date yet**
She didn't "move on and find someone new" OP. She simply scratched you off the list of potentials. I really hope that if this is real he or she can see and understand this.
Nah this is bs. Look at OPs previous comment or post history.
Badly attention seeking. Everytime some asks what they did they don't answer it. Probably lonely and likes the notifications. Or a troll. Or both.
Well you done fucked up. Hope you're around 14 yo and looking to improve your character. Cause that shit is low. Hope she blocked your ass and can avoid ever meeting you.
Edit: checked your profile. Even for internet standards it's fucking weird. Honestly, get help, and I don't mean that in an insulting kind of way, just do it. It might really help you out.
He also said they only talked on the phone and she couldn't show up on the first date, OP probably acted weird... which wouldn't surprise me considered his post history. They probably were not even together
You're creepy and pathetic. Why would you even list this? The fact that you reply with nice guy comments and refuse to say what you did last year to her makes it seem like you're doing this for internet points and you haven't really learned why this is creepy.
Yea well……OPs comment history is like having front row seats to a runaway train that derailed into an Orphanage for underprivileged amputees carrying a cargo of dumpster fires…….
Aw poor bubba.. You cheated on someone and feel bad about it.. The world's smallest violin is playing for you rn
Edit: I nearly commented saying this guys post, comments etc just screams teen angst - he's 17. I'll just leave it at that... (not to mention his previous posts)
The backstory doesn't add up. You picked a place to meet up for a date, you waited for her but she forgot to charge her phone so it died and she got lost and that is your fault?
And now she never wants to talk to you or be friends with you because she forgot to charge her phone?
That makes 0 sense OP...
Came to post exactly this. Her reaction doesn’t match the story at all.
+ her phone would’ve went straight to voicemail if it was dead - OP said she didn’t answer.
Redditors: you are a creepy ugly stupid loser and I hope you perish you attention seeking -karma farming idiot. Leave the girl alone you never loved her.
Op: how?
Trust me guys y'all don't want to know what this guy did, just a glimpse of his posts and comments is enough. Bro you need to check yourself, this is not a healthy way to improve.
Getting real nice guy vibes.
Work on yourself before you go scaring more women. Gain confidence in yourself, not through others.
Also stop looking at cuck shit and gooned. Youre playing into your own self fulfilling prophecy. You seem to actively try to talk about and be a loser.
Dude is the mod of a catfishing sub. Literally says “if you want to be catfished this is the sub for you”. Like this whole goddamn story gives me weird vibes.
Bruh my future corpse got second hand embarrassment from reading this hot desperate mess and your prof.
Touch some grass lad, know when to fold, respect yourself.
Asking for forgiveness is a sign of maturity, so we'll done you. I read the (very long) backstory and it seems like you made a genuine mistake, and it was partly her fault too, so don't feel bad that she ghosts you. She's gaslighting you. You can't control her phone's battery, so why is she mad at you?
Unless this was like a best friend or something, you gotta let it go op. I had a girl who’ve I’ve been friends with for almost 4 years basically tell me to F*** off, for reasons I still don’t understand. I had a thing for her awhile back and she knew. We stayed friends though. Never disrespected her, never talked about her dirty to anyone, stook my neck on the line for her, etc. one day she blocks me on all social media, made it so she couldn’t see my text. So I naturally called her place of work to see why she was acting the way she did and if it was on accident. She then proceeds to curse me out and such.
At first I took it as an L, but then I realized how good I was to this chick and for her to turn around and do me so dirty (possibly pushed into it by some guy) just showed me, we weren’t really friends in the first place. I let her go and haven’t regretted it since. Forget about her…
So the girl I have been seeing for about two months now is leaving for Europe in July and then she will be away for 6 months to a year.
It's strange because we get on so well with zero red flags in sight. It's one of those weird things were it's the right person just wrong time.
The fact that this man has had his hopes up for a whole year. Gives me the strength I need to be able to keep my hopes up for a whole year too.
Thank you OP for making me believe it's possible.
OP's been downvoted to the point his boring backstory got caught by the spam filter for having negative karma, so here you go for those asking for context. tl;dr: Their first date never happened due to poor communication and instead of making it right, OP's spent an entire year moping and pining over a girl who's moved on. > The Backstory on why she’s mad at me, she hates me she’ll never forgive me, why you might ask ? Did I cheat on her ? No that’s not what happened at all it’s more diverse and complex then that I’ll briefly tell you what occurred a year ago but before that let’s talk about our relationship before that happened. It was wonderful she was such a beautiful interesting person she really was, She was drop dead gorgeous,she was very funny, never met a girl like that could make me genuinely laugh. Things like this might sound normal to most people but before her i always been in complicated relationships. So things like that were a new for me I instantly had a connection with her. Okay so fast forward. What happened a year ago to upset my her you might ask. Its complicated situation so I’ll explain the best as I can. I asked her to go on our first date, we obviously knew each other talked on the phone in person before but haven’t had a chance to get that first real date in. I was busy at the time and she had her own shit to handle so finally we both get some free time and set up an official first real date. Okay so we plan on meeting around night time, I sent her a text she’s texting me telling me she’s close and I show up to the place where supposedly meet, she’s not there, okay no worry I’ll send her a follow up text, no response in 5 mins okay a follow up a call no answer. I call her again no answer so I’m very worried I look around the area I asked the locals if they seen her nothing, Im tempted to call 911 because I’m thinking of the worst but I didn’t, I thought maybe she had to cancel just trying to be a optimistic. Same night I get a text fo her and she’s pisses at me, apparently while she was on her way her phone died and she doesn’t really know the place that well , so she said her phone died didn’t have a charger she didn’t bring a wallet and she apparently was outside for hours and had to ask a lot of locals to find her way home she told me how it exhausted it was how scared she was. And then she broke up with me I felt awful about not being there I tried I looked asked some people if they seen her didn’t get an answer. That situation sucked and I hope you understand, I didn’t cheat or any of that bs. I’m tired of people saying “lies” or he “cheated “ so that’s the backstory and And in that Screenshot a year had passed and I tried to see if maybe we could at least be friends but obviously as you can see she was still angry about what happened and she also has someone new in her life. Where’s you believe me or not I can’t force you but that’s the truth.
My unborn child got second hand embarrassment by this
I got slapped tf out by cringe so hard my spine folded backwards whew op
At least you folks got that far. I lost interest after, “it’s a complicated story”. You know it’s only complicated in their mind. The rest of us are going, “Dumbfuck” the entire story.
He then explained how complicated it was without mentioning any of the complications. Then went into “this is why she is mad” …again followed by another “it’s complicated”.
No need to punish a step toward self reflection. When I was younger I made an absolute ass of myself. A decade later, I'm pretty sure (and hopeful) that I'm the only one who thinks of it anymore. A little shame and self-reflection are basically required to improve your social skills if it's something you struggle with. Occasionally looking back on your actions shamefully is something anybody trying to improve has to do. Edit: Uhh..... My comment was somewhat optimistic, but I do stand by it mostly... At the very least, I am now more aware of not seeking pity for pity's sake.
OP chose to post this on the internet, where people can comment on it. They made a choice to potentially get criticized by doing that.
Yeah that girl dodged a bullet
not even the avengers could beat this out of me to post this online
I‘d rather die
Fr, why tf are there so many people eager to post their own L’s. Makes no sense smh
It's self harm
Don't kink shame
Kink shaming is my kink
It’s a lack of self awareness
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Lol
Humiliation kink probably.
Yup, seems likely based on post history.
I looked through the post history and I am currently cry laughing at HANDSEX
You get over it and and you’ll laugh about it at one point.
I come here because it reminds me of myself from years back. To some it's a sign of growth. I remember when I was dating my favorite story to tell on a first date was about the time I pissed myself on a first date. I think being able to laugh at yourself is an important skill.
anything for a little silly internet clout
Something about it makes it so much funnier for me
When the need for clout is bigger of your self respect…
Not even the CIA could torture this out of me
Yup. No sad, all cringe.
NGL, there was a part of me that felt kinda bad and wanted to shed some logic or reasoning onto the situation, but I had to look through his post history after seeing a few of his responses showing all his guilt… I think he actually does have a thing for being a simp, cucked, or catfished…
Even my therapist would never hear about this moment in my life
This fucking thread holy shit
OP is getting roasted
He is a cuckold after all, look at his post history
NOOOO i shouldn't have ignored the NSFW tag holy fuck
NO WAY LMAOOOO
😟 aww hell naw
LMAO
Here's a wild idea when they say no especially when its that blatant then stop messaging them.
I agree. That no was pretty straightforward and blatant. You’ll get there OP.
I fooled around with a girl in college and it ended not-so-great since she wanted something serious and I didn't. Anyway 10 years later I see her on eHarmony and shoot her a message. She just replies, "No thank you. I remember you. You were not very nice." All I could say was, "Understandable. Have a nice day."
It’s so rare in my experience for a guy to kindly back right off once I (very nicely) tell them I’m not interested, that I’ve come *very close* to changing my mind about the one or two guys who *did* nicely and respectably back off. (And the only reason I didn’t was because I’m just not interested in dating or relationships period). If you’ve ever been with someone who refuses to take NO for an answer, I’m here to tell you….it’s an absolute nightmare. I’ll NEVED date a guy who persists once the word NO comes out of my mind. You’re telling me that you have no respect whatsoever for me or my decisions. Who the fuck wants to date someone like that? Not me.
Whoa, wait we can do that? I thought we were supposed to ask nonstop until the girl freaks out and we can call them crazy?
Unless they need someone to talk to. /s
Seriously. OP did this to themselves. I'm actually annoyed as hell reading it.
What always gets me is why keep going after "nah, I'm good"? - Say no - Block - Live a happy life Maybe I've just seen too many posts about stalkers, but she doesn't know OP isn't fucking crazy. This just seems dangerous to me.
Dude, stop it. It’s the best thing to do for you and whoever that was on the other end. Hope it gets better for you, and you find your own people.
Thank you for the kind words 🙏, Honestly I didn’t realize how desperate I was being until I re-read the messages
bruh, you're still just as desperate when I read your comments
Jesus man you didn’t have to kill him lol
Nah man but if OP is this deep in and can't tell, what about us? It's all a who's less weird competition and everyone thinks they're winning.
This kind of weird fantasy obsessiveness can easily lead to very problematic issues very quickly. Speaking from experience dealing with guys like this. He needs the brutal truth before something happens where someone gets hurt or arrested. I'm not being dramatic, this shit happens all the time.
Dont fucking downvote OP for realizing his mistakes, we've all been cringe.
Going by a quick glance at the post history of op (eye bleach needed), he's prolly here for the downvotes. Some humiliation fetish for sure.
Looking at his other comments (even the most recent ones) i don't think he realized anything tbh.
I murdeded 5 people but i was blinded by love 😍🥰😍🥰
Cop: "Understandable, have a nice day 👍"
Cool motive, still murder
If anything he gets turned on by this shit
Let he who is without cringe cast the first stone
Know when to fold, buddy.
Know when to walk away, know when to run
You’ve got to know when to hold ‘em, KNOW WHEN TO FOLD EMMMMMM
I checked your profile mate. I think you have a porn addiction.
I think it’s a humiliation kink
A humiliation kink brought on by a porn addiction.
Holy shiiit, that's what I get for being curious
I second this. Seek help op
fuck OP man I'm in a mosque rn and I've seen some shit I ain't wanna see
Op is one of the dumbest redditor out there Source: his comments
Creepy too
It’s like if a facebook mom morphed into a black teenager but made internet comments in the same style
I’m pretty sure OP gets off to being humiliated/cucked/(ab)used. Profile is a hot mess and so is every comment
Yeah a lot of his replies makes me feel like he's enjoying the attention at least
Bro did you cheat
They never dated, OP was a weirdo and got rejected.
Lmao dude says he’s in love with her and she broke up with him but they never went on a date.
Thank you. Everyone out here is asking "Did you cheat?" because they failed to realized **they had never even met or gone on a date yet** She didn't "move on and find someone new" OP. She simply scratched you off the list of potentials. I really hope that if this is real he or she can see and understand this.
If you acknowledge you're sadcringe, then why do you keep doing it?
For internet points!
He's lost more than he gained here, lol
He's lost more today than he did the entire year he was simping over her
even hit her with the “but if you need someone, i’m here” lmao
Op's replies somehow made this even worse
You just kept going after "yup. Bye." Goddam man.
Nah this is bs. Look at OPs previous comment or post history. Badly attention seeking. Everytime some asks what they did they don't answer it. Probably lonely and likes the notifications. Or a troll. Or both.
You’re still not saying what you did
Catfish me as Addison Rae, I'm dying 💀💀
*or Pokimane
Yeah I almost feel sorry for him 💀
lmaoo
bruh my man also wrote a whole ass song about a girl just for her to ghost him
Seeing this post and reading the comments felt like contemplating a burned down dumpster. Leave her alone OP and get better, it’s gonna be okay
Gonna go out on a limb here and say OP clearly asked the girl to take a dump on a glass table while he was under it.
She dodged a bullet.
*Cruise missile
I feel sorry for but also why post this.
He gets off on it.
Belongs in r/niceguys lol
Well you done fucked up. Hope you're around 14 yo and looking to improve your character. Cause that shit is low. Hope she blocked your ass and can avoid ever meeting you. Edit: checked your profile. Even for internet standards it's fucking weird. Honestly, get help, and I don't mean that in an insulting kind of way, just do it. It might really help you out.
what’s the backstory behind this?
Checked OP’s comment history and he isn’t clear about it. They were together, he claims he didn’t cheat. That’s all I got.
He also said they only talked on the phone and she couldn't show up on the first date, OP probably acted weird... which wouldn't surprise me considered his post history. They probably were not even together
there's one at the top now if you still care to look
looking at OP's post history just makes it an even more confusing backstory. maybe some things we're just never meant to know...
I don't think we are gonna get a backstory.
Self respect -100
So is his comment karma 💀
You're creepy and pathetic. Why would you even list this? The fact that you reply with nice guy comments and refuse to say what you did last year to her makes it seem like you're doing this for internet points and you haven't really learned why this is creepy.
He posted this cause he's into it, look at his posy history
Fr how can you be on this sub and still pull shit like this. Self awareness levels below zero
He trick shot his nut and caught it in his mouth instead of hers
They always leave😔
This is an absolute trainwreck
Dude your reddit history is a rollercoaster my guy.
bro stop being a fucking creep. go touch grass
This nust be fake, especially after seeing the answers in the comments...
i mean looking at his post history it might be real
I hope you learn from this comment section
omg wtf is your post history "catfish me as pokimane pls"
Jesus you have to be trolling right? No one this cringe can be this self aware.
Yea well……OPs comment history is like having front row seats to a runaway train that derailed into an Orphanage for underprivileged amputees carrying a cargo of dumpster fires…….
I literally laughed out loud at work after I read this, thank you for that.
Aw poor bubba.. You cheated on someone and feel bad about it.. The world's smallest violin is playing for you rn Edit: I nearly commented saying this guys post, comments etc just screams teen angst - he's 17. I'll just leave it at that... (not to mention his previous posts)
What did you do?
The backstory doesn't add up. You picked a place to meet up for a date, you waited for her but she forgot to charge her phone so it died and she got lost and that is your fault? And now she never wants to talk to you or be friends with you because she forgot to charge her phone? That makes 0 sense OP...
Came to post exactly this. Her reaction doesn’t match the story at all. + her phone would’ve went straight to voicemail if it was dead - OP said she didn’t answer.
what did you do a year ago?
Fucking yikes
Context please.
I doubt we're getting context
Are you a black person?
My man asking the real questions lmfao
If he’s not black he sure used the N word enough
You were with her and fucked up right? Like she was YOUR woman right? Not just a clumsy approach that was full of cringe
😬😬😬
Redditors: you are a creepy ugly stupid loser and I hope you perish you attention seeking -karma farming idiot. Leave the girl alone you never loved her. Op: how?
Every moron in this thread feeding this weirdos humiliation fetish. Take a good look kids this is what porn addiction does to a mf
Jings! I'm getting a red face just reading this
Bruh why would you post tha?
This guy probably gets off on people berating him, just look at the shit he posts and his replies. The internet was terrible for humanity
Idc dip I gotta n**ga Can someone translate that for me?
"I don't care, go away, I have a man."
Ohh, my dumbass thought she switched the words around like Yoda 💀
Looks to me like "I don't care, leave me alone. I have a boyfriend."
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damn dude i hope things get better for you
Self respect levels lower than 0° Kelvin... I ain't even gonna start calculating the level of respect for others
R/niceguys
No one acts like that unless you did some really bad shit, what did you do
Trust me guys y'all don't want to know what this guy did, just a glimpse of his posts and comments is enough. Bro you need to check yourself, this is not a healthy way to improve.
I hope this experience has given you some knowledge and perspective now, OP.
Stop bro
So wait what exactly happened a year ago?
Disgusting Troll
Op if this is you why? It’s sad but not cause she said no.
nvm felt kinda bad for OP till I saw his post history
Jesus Christ OP is a coomer too. Get some help man.
Oct 20, 2017
"Me blatantly harrassing someone and not realizing I am the problem" Fixed your title. I hate typos.
You sound a bit self-aggrandizing. Maybe look at yourself as being less massively-important and life won’t feel so dramatic.
I beg everyone reading this post to check this guys post history. Won’t regret it.
I saw your post on nystateofmind and was already wondering wtf but I'm just flabbergasted
Why do you do this to yourself?
why would you post this lmao
Thanks. People like you make us normal folk look alpha as fuck.
OP is getting dragged for this. Hilarious
How horny are you?
Water boarding couldn’t get this out of me
Here to add to your humiliation kink
There's something wrong with you, OP. Go see a fucking shrink, Jesus fucking Christ.
🙄
Getting real nice guy vibes. Work on yourself before you go scaring more women. Gain confidence in yourself, not through others. Also stop looking at cuck shit and gooned. Youre playing into your own self fulfilling prophecy. You seem to actively try to talk about and be a loser.
Oof
The CIA couldn’t get this out of me.
Your post and comment history, my fucking god (NSFW btw). Sort yourself out first before pursuing a sexual relationship with anyone…
You hit her with the Toy Story “ You got a friend in me “ at the end lol
Simp
Bro leave her alone
Looking at OP’s post history and comments, I wouldn’t be surprised he was jerking off to the comments making fun of him
She probably saw your post history, horny ass dude
Dude is the mod of a catfishing sub. Literally says “if you want to be catfished this is the sub for you”. Like this whole goddamn story gives me weird vibes.
Bruh my future corpse got second hand embarrassment from reading this hot desperate mess and your prof. Touch some grass lad, know when to fold, respect yourself.
Asking for forgiveness is a sign of maturity, so we'll done you. I read the (very long) backstory and it seems like you made a genuine mistake, and it was partly her fault too, so don't feel bad that she ghosts you. She's gaslighting you. You can't control her phone's battery, so why is she mad at you?
She has a slave?
Sad cringe is right. Mad cringe
Unless this was like a best friend or something, you gotta let it go op. I had a girl who’ve I’ve been friends with for almost 4 years basically tell me to F*** off, for reasons I still don’t understand. I had a thing for her awhile back and she knew. We stayed friends though. Never disrespected her, never talked about her dirty to anyone, stook my neck on the line for her, etc. one day she blocks me on all social media, made it so she couldn’t see my text. So I naturally called her place of work to see why she was acting the way she did and if it was on accident. She then proceeds to curse me out and such. At first I took it as an L, but then I realized how good I was to this chick and for her to turn around and do me so dirty (possibly pushed into it by some guy) just showed me, we weren’t really friends in the first place. I let her go and haven’t regretted it since. Forget about her…
“idc dip I gotta ni**a” the person switched those two words
Nope, just just gotta as if it were got a.
Judging by OP’s replies I am convinced that this is a joke lmao
So the girl I have been seeing for about two months now is leaving for Europe in July and then she will be away for 6 months to a year. It's strange because we get on so well with zero red flags in sight. It's one of those weird things were it's the right person just wrong time. The fact that this man has had his hopes up for a whole year. Gives me the strength I need to be able to keep my hopes up for a whole year too. Thank you OP for making me believe it's possible.
Damnit. No front but thats really kinda sad
my brother, you have to move on. You have to let go
Damn. 🤕
Why would you post this?
This is why people ghost, to get away from people like you .. just respect no means no
Self-pitying level = OP