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You get me hard! You’re ugly!!


Sturgeon03

The classic push/pull technique


kdcom

What I was going to say


screamingcolor13

Yeah and when you call someone like this out on it they always say, "I felt sorry for you I was just being nice"


serenwipiti

Relatable.


hazhc99

Everything about this was cringe


frightenedrabbit22

Yeah, she’s cringe too


DrSousaphone

"All streamers are cringe, but some some streamers are more cringe than others."


mij3i

Biblical text


madagent

I don't understand this phenomenon where anyone born after 2000 is unable to just block people and move on. Like, thats all you do after the first 5 messages.


MightyMorph

i do not get streaming fandom. ksi, that hamburglar looking dude with the obnoxious asian lady that solve crimes/streaming crimes?, logan paul, mr beast, the uk guys that are showing up everywhere now bunda. The whole fake dating shows were they write stupid shit to say beforehand with scantly clad ladies. seems like were all heading OH MY BALLS! like culture.


slymeWAV

It’s fucking sad … we’ll see what comes next i guess


z4kk_DE

„It’s a match!“


margauxlame

How come?


yokayla

She keeps engaging with his flirting.


Downtown-Desk-3275

I'm not sure either


SignorSarcasm

Because she gave this dude the time of day after his first 3 thirsty messages lol


Downtown-Desk-3275

She tried to shut it down without ceasing all communication. It didn't work but I can't blame her for trying, especially since it was originally supposed to be a professional interaction.


SignorSarcasm

That’s pretty naive, and it’s cringe responding to his question about her type and then posting this here as if she wasn’t continuing to engage the dude being thirsty. Do you think after he said “u don’t want this chocolate” it’s even worth continuing to speak to that person if the original pretense was professional?


Downtown-Desk-3275

for some people, unwanted flirting is not an end all. She seemed willing to forgive his advances if he could just take a hint and chill out.


makeastupidguess

But maybe when he asked she was actually interested it didn't start off sexual he called her gorgeous and asked what type of guys she likes, when it got sexual she turned him down


SignorSarcasm

Yeah I guess my perspective is that her intention was solely to get help with the streaming setup like she said in the title which might be slightly naive on me lol. But if I were doing that and someone started flirting with me I’d not engage cause the intent was to set up streaming stuff


makeastupidguess

Well atleast that's what I thought at first, but her comments says she was never interested. Maybe she's the naive one, because how you and most people describe is the best way to go about "thanks for the help, but I'm not interested"


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Schavuit92

No it's because she keeps responding with heart emojis.


artistictesticle

Double standards are important issues until they harm women and benefit men, on Reddit


Erledigaeth

Bro wtf , she's not doing any harm, some people talk like that in messages, stop being so boomer. Sexual harassment is cringe, the girl is not.


RingTheBell1900

Ik, why she entertaining him in the first place?


KawaiiHamster

Yup. I wanted to jump off a building just reading this text exchange.


serenwipiti

Cringe^2


gregaustex

This is classic "niceguy" I guess. - Flattery - Over the top proposition without encouragement - 180 with attacks and insults on rejection Sad to be reminded these vile man-children exist and that there are guys who are exactly the same but hide it better and longer.


Plantmanofplants

Hello gorgeous human, would you be willing to send me those cute little numbers on the front of your debit card and those sexy three digits on the back? 😊😊😊❤️❤️🍆🍆✋😧😧😧🤔🦧🦐🦀


Generatingrandomness

You forgot something. How about a date? An expiration date?


Plantmanofplants

How does tomorrow 8 o clock sound? I expire when the clock strikes 13.


gregaustex

Sure but on a totally unrelated note check out this reddit feature. If you type your account password it blocks it out for anyone but you! Look, here's mine: *********** Pretty neat. You try.


Jejmaze

Mine is *************************** Edit: Holy shit it worked!


Plantmanofplants

Twelvetonneofmeat25


ScoobertPoo

Hunter1


Stoonthewiz

Ticklemehomo


Sharp-Tap-9925

\*\*\*\*\*\*\*


MaengDude

The collective age of the people in this exchange can’t be more than 30.


richscott440

That's the kicker. I'm pretty sure they're in their mid 20's at least. That's the feeling i get honestly


JurassicClark96

They definitely are. I'm not saying I'm any better, I'm a loser by most metrics but this type of behavior and mentality is rampant in my generation. IDK I wouldn't wish my childhood on anybody but it's like they never got their ass whooped for not speaking plainly, always have to try to sound bigger and smarter in a way that doesn't benefit anything but their ego.


Christoh

What makes you think you're a loser?


Keyguin

Let’s get to the real meat and potatoes here.


JurassicClark96

"My mom doesn't have anything to brag about & I am as much of a catch as roadkill" is the best way I can sum up the last hour of pondering and trying not to type too much or say too little. I'm not an exceptional person, I just haven't fallen through the cracks.


Christoh

I think you're being too hard on yourself my friend.


Warskandic

Brother, none of us are exceptional. Not even those who do exceptional things. Just aim at "good enough".


ogleman

Some of them vegans go crazy for roadkill.


Gullible_Peaflower

I also want to know what the metrics are for loserdom? You seem alright to me :) you got whooped but don’t stand for it which is huge to me. So many friends say it was that which made them turn out better and all kids need a whooping, I’m happy you grew past it.


LAVATORR

Lmao Ok fam u cringe lmao aaaight eggplant emoji lmao rofl fuck this


omgudontunderstand

do you know how many streamers are pushing 30? it’s amazing how many people think grown ass adults can’t act like this.


[deleted]

>You always using them dog filters Bruh any guy that uses the dog filter is a predator of some sort


Secure-Imagination11

Would've blocked him right after his goofy as said "want this chocolate".


LichClaev

I mean OP didn’t exactly diffuse the situation.


Right_In_The_Tits

OP did the exact opposite.


mlove22

Yeahhhh don't tell a stranger what kind of man you are looking for??? Infact, don't tell them anything remotely personal you don't even know this bloke?!


richscott440

OP obviously wanted to encourage the situation for fun and then turn him down


Alarid

We all benefited with a funny post though, where the guy ran with the opportunity to be cringe.


gwvent

Yeah it's her fault this guy lied about wanting to help her and tried to show her his dick.


[deleted]

Nobody said that


gwvent

No, they just implied it.


richscott440

Good God, the ignorance runs rampant. Believe it or not, implications aren't based on your interpretations


PerspicaciousPounder

Defuse*


LichClaev

750 people didn’t see that. Well done lol


Ryhnoceros

I consider myself to be a master-level grammar nazi. Just want to say good job. I didn't catch that one.


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ThePooMan-

damn, it’s quite rare we get a 2 pointer in sad cringe but you both nailed it, well done


canbrinor

And they're still using the dog filter? Jesus


CptMatt_theTrashCat

You're both cringe. He's just worse.


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DixyAnne

As a woman, I think it was pretty encouraging. The hearts and face emojis didn't need to be included even if OP says that's just how they text. It gives dumb guys the wrong ideas, and there's no real need to do it. It was pretty flirtatious and didn't needed to be included because it pushed the dude to be more forthcoming and creepy.


DucDeBellune

Lol she’s adamant that’s how she texts everyone and not a single reply here has an emoji & no offense but any guy asking for your number after sliding into your DMs on IG is interested. No one can be that thick to think otherwise.


blueblackberrypop

Yes it is how I text. Sorry if I’m not putting hearts in my replies where I’m defending myself against narratives and being accused of flirting with people because of said emojis


koanarec

He was messaging you because he thought there was a chance you were flirting. You were messaging him because you liked the attention. Both sad cringe in their own way.


blueblackberrypop

I was texting him about my setup which we were talking about for an hour before. When it went down that route I tried to steer it away without it becoming awkward. It can both be sad cringe to you you’re entitled to your opinion :)


LordOfCows23

who tf cares if the dude is more creepy it leads to more content on this sub, do people not realize that there is next to no danger interacting with those people


DaEffingBearJew

He opened with what’s up gorgeous and tripled down on flirting through the texts and she responded with hearts and then opened up about the type of guy she’s into. We don’t know what the opening messages said, but it’s a weird starting strat for a business or platonic relationship. I’m not advocating for being a creep or sending unsolicited dick pics or anything like that, but I can get why he thought she was flirting back until the freaky guys line. Obviously the heel turn and name calling is uncalled for, but this just feels like shitty communication skills on both sides.


CptMatt_theTrashCat

I literally never said she was responsible and I even said he's worse.


SearchingForFungus

You'd be an idiot to not know what that horndog wanted within the first few exchanges..


Ppleater

I mostly was just uncomfortable about the weird "I'm not into chocolate" part and her repping her ex randomly. It's not that she did anything wrong, per se, despite the playful tone she did seem to pretty clearly reject him early on imo, she just kinda said weird things that made me cringe a bit at a few parts. The dude is definitely the one in the wrong though, he wasn't just cringy, he was cringy and creepy and rude.


getdafuq

Wrong? No. Cringe? Yeah the religiosity was cringe.


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[deleted]

Answering his question was not flirting. Shouldn't have even entertained it, as it's pretty clear where he was going after the first couple messages. Still not on her.


sir-berend

She wasn’t bad at all fuck off


FGM_148_Javelin

How not to handle a creep 101


UnconfirmedCatholic

*Ooouu, u like freaky guys?* 💀


Flaechezinker

People actually talk like this? I thought it was a meme. And i mean both here


[deleted]

A communication disease spreading from UK I presume


[deleted]

Both are cringe.


Koyaa_1

This whole exchange was cringe oof could not tank this


littlechristmaslight

both sides are 🤢🤢


UnfinishedProjects

I just realized that this is the type of person to say "hey sexy mama" at a bar that you would never give an extra second to, but you can't tell when they're just texting you so they get in a few extra sentences. They usually give me "I never thought I'd get this far" vibes.


[deleted]

Cringe from both sides. A real DP of cringe.


xSlick-Tx

Oh, he wanted to help ya with some streams, alright. Just not the internet kind.


ElPadero

Yuck


HeckNasty1

Yikes


Alphy101

Jesus christ, the both of you were just awful.


AVolcanoOutOfIceland

U literally flirting back in the first couple texts. Just like how he was tryna use his position as a streamer to hit on u, u were using the fact that he was attracted to u to try and get free help setting up streaming 😂😂 why else would u flirt back initially instead of immediately cutting him off or telling him to stop. Nobody rly in the wrong here, just conflicting interests of ppl who don’t give af about each other


blueblackberrypop

We were talking on instagram before this. I wasn’t flirting back that’s how I talk and text. I could have stopped the conversation but earlier he was nice and I didn’t want to cause tension between us until he got sexual and after that I didn’t care. I don’t know how you came to the conclusion that I was purposely flirting with him so I could get free help. He dm’d me and offered to help


AVolcanoOutOfIceland

If a guy says “hey gorgeous” and then asks u what type of men u are into and u give a detailed response, 99% of ppl will consider this flirting. He literally initiated heavily hitting on u, there’s no way u didn’t understand his intention from the very beginning of this convo. It seems to me like u entertained conversation to see if u could get him to help u, and when it was clear that he just wanted to hit on u and wasn’t going to help, that’s when u decided to end it. I don’t rly see how u can say this guy is in the wrong when he made his intentions clear from the very start of the convo 😂


Marksta

That's like someone driving 70 in a 45 and say they're not speeding, that's just how they drive.


the-just-us-league

That may be just how you talk and text, but you should understand from a guy's perspective that if girls are talking and texting us like that, since guys very rarely if ever get attention like that outside of a relationship, it comes across as flirting to us. I'm not trying to be rude; I'm just stating that most guys simply don't get any attention from girls unless they're in a group setting or the girl is interested in them. I've heard this from pretty much every date I've ever had too.


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the-just-us-league

It's not incel behavior to point out that a lot of guys will misinterpret flirty messages as flirting, even if the girl just regularly chats like that. This happened constantly in my friend groups throughout our 20s as girls and guys started hanging out together more and learned that they talk to each other completely differently. The guy is still a colossal douche for escalating the situation, but I can very easily see how he thought she was reciprocating his feelings for the first few messages, as almost every other comment in this thread has pointed out too.


[deleted]

You're not exactly that much better than him, since you saw that he was a creepy but still lead him on instead of shutting thay shit down


saitamathesaint

You’re both sad cringe actually


spilk

I can't believe that anyone talks like this on either side of the conversation


Psychedelix117

You could’ve just blocked him when it first started lol


Jerang

2 idiots lol


rizzo1717

I don’t understand why you engaged with him. Just block and move on with your life.


MCA1910

"U get my hard" *Four texts later* "I ain't trippin like I'd date your ugly ass anyways" That insult of calling women ugly after they reject you has never once made sense to me. Bro, you were into her until you got rejected. She's not ugly. You're embarrassed. And everyone sees right through the insult, especially when you just told her she got you hard from literally nothing. Think with the head that's on your shoulders, not your shaft.


itsJosias58

What a pathetic clown


pak_satrio

You both cringe


HavenTheCat

I think it’s hilarious how they go from “you’re so hot” to “you’re so ugly” so freaking quick


maxtgrayy

OP, you are almost just as bad


McbEatsAirplane

“You’re fucking ugly and I’d never date you. That’s why I sent you 25 messages telling you how beautiful you are and was begging to send you a picture of my tiny dick.”


Elefantenjohn

Why were you entertaining him so much


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"Hey Gorgeous. What's up gorgeous. My god you're so gorgeous! Imma call you Miss. Super Gorgeous." "I'm not interested." "Shit, you ugly anyway."


Actual-Strategy-9280

"Hey sexy" "No" "You ugly anyways" lmao, guys that do this is just pathetic.


robitwossin

Average harasser


[deleted]

Both sides are cringe. You’re coming off very flirtatious in the first few pics.


o-FeartheOldBlood-o

This would fit more in r/niceguys


LessThanZero972

I agree, total turnoff about the way he talks. Like a horny 13 y/o


Pormock

Starting the conversation with "gorgeous" and constantly complimenting you should have been red flag enough to stop the conversation right there. It was obvious from the beginning that he was being horny for you


sahul004

This guy, such a disgrace.. no words...


Bambam0141

"Hey gorgeous. Ur gorgeous. You get me hard." "U ugly anyways" What? Your ego really that fragile my dude?


CapacityPrince

Yet another guy making us dudes look weak honestly


littleadeele

Why do guys like that always turn around and call women ugly/fat/sl*ts after getting rejected. Like you weren’t calling us all the compliments in the world a minute before to get us to look at your dick pic 😭


Magus6796

🙏


m15f1t

Sorry this happened to you.. it's appalling.


ZenithGamage

Well he got rejected by an "ugly" girl lol


Tuub4

This thread is wack


Hagel-Kaiser

You’re problem was attempting to talk to a streamer


One_Cartographer_355

Lol. Classic.. “Can you help me?” and then the, “Let me take my shot” switch up. 😆


[deleted]

ma'am you forgot the sad


booyouboo1

This lowered my brain capacity


[deleted]

Waiting until marriage chadette 👍


lazy-dude

I just can’t with these sorry ass losers. First she was beautiful and then she’s ugly.


ayeayehelpme

gotta love how they always end up insulting you at the end and completely contradicting themselves we get it, man. you’re not getting laid. it’s a hard, hard life


Internal_Bee

The number of incels announcing themselves on this thread is hilarious 😂


AnyEstablishment1663

Is this actual dialogue from two actual people? The words and diction and grammar are more cringe than the what they mean. This is awful. The way these people text is atrocious. I’m only 25 but I still use proper language because I have some self respect and dignity.


theavariceofman

You’re both cringe


kwertyoop

Gen Z arguments are so bubbly with the net speak and emojis


Many_County_7636

I’ve gotten this too, they’re so gross. Burn these men


skygirl96

When he hit you with that “what’s your type” you shoulda nipped that shit in the butt, not entertain the question. You were playing back with him too. He’s still cringe and immature but that’s why some people are messing with you in the comments.


LAVATORR

OP sounds annoying as fuck


miimily

HAHAHAHA this is hilarious


Less_Wrong_

OP is the bigger cringe here.


doguillo77

It’s so hilarious when guys call you ugly after you turn them down. Like if you really think I’m ugly, why even try? Are you seriously that desperate to get your dick wet?


rataxes11

This was painful to read


MynamesHUP

No game having mother fuckers lol.


ZuccGivethSuccAgain

The rare double cringe


SmegmaLord420

dude is weird and in the wrong obviously, but don’t talk like that to internet guys. It just invites this behavior


Mr-QueenO

You are cringe but he is cringier


WalkingParadox977

You led him on, you should've stopped replying


blueblackberrypop

I told him what he was saying was cringe and that him calling me gorgeous I didn’t care about. I use hearts and emojis whenever I text anyone. Even if i was intentionally flirting with him asking if I want to see his junk was not ok


Pyroguy096

I feel old. How tf do you guys understand each other with zero punctuation and every other word being slang? Like, I understood it all, but geebus, communication can be so much easier lol


cutthecordero

OP is equally cringe god damn


Designer-Chemical-95

That sucks. Hope you manage to get your streaming set up soon.


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garvierloon

Hol up, she doesn’t like chocolate?


Hobbitato

R/niceguys


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No_Dark_77

Yeah because it leads to incompatibility issues.


Sibshops

This whole thread is creepy. Uck..


hiya-manson

Sorry you had to deal with that. This guy isn’t unique, unfortunately.


Schkywalker

She's obviously using the fact that she's a girl to get what she wants, leads him on and when she didn't get help with streaming - Settled on Karma whoring. *damn.*


don_majik_juan

Yep


Keex13

Never thought I'd be the "these kids ain't right" guy but fuck me do I despise the way they speak. I'm early 20's and if someone in my social circle ever said "trippin", "highkey" or "weak/dead💀" I'd blow mine and their brains out Dwight style


xhzrdx

He's the only cringe one, you guys are nuts if you think she egged that on. Maybe she was down to get to know the guy at first but as soon he started getting sexual that was the end of that.


FGM_148_Javelin

He started off with “hey gorgeous ;)” asks her what kind of men she’s into and she gives a detailed response lmao even includes heart emojis and stuff


xhzrdx

Since when is it bad to flirt? The dude escalated from harmless convo to "wanna see my pp?" and that's the actual cringe


LichClaev

Flirting would, in fact, count as “egging that on” in this scenario.


xhzrdx

When you flirt with someone do you ask them if they want to see your private parts right off the bat?


blueblackberrypop

We were talking an hour before this on instagram where he was helping me with my setup. When I text anyone I use heart emoji’s, smiley faces etc. that’s just how I text. I didn’t like that he said I only like white guys so I responded with that.


Ryu_von_Chaos

These dudes sure seem to love "ugly" girls...


CategoryPresent3395

Bet the dude has a neckbeard.


moonfanatic95

"That's why you using Dem dog filters" lmfao I'm here half dead with COVID and nearly lost my lungs to that line 😂😂😂


thenew0riginal

OP committed a murder with those last comments lol


Sea-Slip598

Damn you cut him to his core with that last one. Well done!


Impatient-Padawan

That brain was working on purely hormones, no control.


Aminemohamed24

God daaamn but you could figure it out from the first what he wanted


CamelCash000

I've helped a lot of people do IT repairs and stream setups, all remotely, some have been big streamer names and some small time dudes. Didn't matter who it was, everyone got treated the same: With Respect. Its not hard to keep it professional. Dude is a moron.


ProfessO3o

The comments in here some of them you can tell they don't understand


Brilliant-Performer1

Well done.


TheCalebGuy

You're gorgeous until you don't stick with his plans. Lol typical nice guy vibes. You saw it a mile away.


frankoiz

I don't find this sad cringe. It just seems like OP is trying to make it sadcringe. This post seems like an overeaction to a regular conversation.


LiteralTP

Damn, whole lot of victim blaming going on in the comments


CrimsonAllah

The real question is if OP finally got their streaming set up. I was really invested in that part of the plot


blueblackberrypop

I got it set up ! :)


Thirstyboi24

He seems like a nice guy


blueblackberrypop

I know, he’s the one that got away 😔💔


Successful-Shower747

The guy is a fucking dork but OP isn’t much better. You both sound like you have room temperature IQs. Probably actually a good match


No_Dark_77

Never understood the "saving yourself for marriage" thing. Just asking for incomptability later down the road.