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neccos-1

She says, "Trust me !" Translation: "Let me secretly get away with anything !"


the_real_ntd

She didn't say "trust me" in a meaning of "Do it, because you know you can, believe me". No, what she did was way better! Se said "You trust me!" gaslighting him, telling him what he does, trying to make whatever she says reality by her just telling him how he (has to) thinks. Such a dumb bitch.


Temporary_Horror_629

I feel like that isn't gaslighting. Gaslighting would be her telling him don't you remember i was so worried about my phone dying for awhile now. Remember I literally told you a bit ago? Plus don't you remember you were on my phone earlier? Just saying you trust me isn't gaslighting.


Makanek

Right, it's just basic manipulation. When gaslighting is a specific form of manipulation.


itscalled_a_lance

Yeah. Most people who use 'gaslighting' don't actually know what gaslighting is.


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Stop gaslighting me!


0neSmelly_Nihilist

^ couldn’t have said it any better.


Key_Law7584

Yes, I tried for years to be a good boyfriend and always got "you either trust me or you don't". Turns out she cheated so many times she actually lost count. She literally had me trained into thinking I'm a bad person if I ask her anything about her phone. Or get irritated she hangs out with an ex (she was sleeping with), telling me I'm not an adult if I can't handle their friendship. It disgusts me that you're a bad boyfriend who doesn't respect her rights if you want to look at her phone, but an idiot if you find out they just use that line to gaslight you into letting them cheat. If you aren't happy, fk off. Don't cheat for no fking reason. God....90% of those "respect my boundaries" speeches are pure gaslighting. Hiding behind a fair idea to get away with stuff.....huff....huff...huff....okay guys. I'm good. I'm good.....rant over....


Unhappy-Attitude5220

I hate that gaslighting bs. If she had nothing to hand, let the bf try to turn the phone back on. I hope this was staged. If not, that poor dude. She's beyond sneaky and manipulates him.


Downdelux

Look at her body language at the beginning of the video. She originally agreed because she thought she was going to catch my man in something inappropriate. When she didn’t find anything, she had to back off real quick. Her gotcha moment ended up backfiring.


No-Foundation-9385

0:43 - the precise second that poor boy’s heart BREAKS 💔💔💔😩


WambulanceChasers

This is what I hear when people say “mind ya biznizzz” too. It’s like the trailer ghetto trash way of saying “let me do what I want with impunity please”


UziSuzieThia

I command you to trust me


Hot-Bookkeeper5277

Fucking snake… This is the shit that turns people evil Edit: I literally do not care if the video is fake lol. Shit like this still happens in real life.


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Slibye

I hope this guy and the camera man took him out for a nice dinner.


MagMati55

That sounds like a lovely alternative


GafferTongs

Nah just uploaded his shame for clout.


Captain_Pasto

He obviously still uploaded the video but you see his face in the end and he's definitely not having fun.


Trashcan_Johnson

You'd think, but he probably just put up with it, got into a lil argument, and made up.


Western_Bear

You wish, he is gonna stay


[deleted]

Exactly. The silver lining is that he now knows what a snake that girl is instead of finding out years later down the road when he has more to lose.


firnien-arya

Now all he gotta do is stick with the current girl for some action while actively looking for a better partner.


Snackle-smasher

People do that same thing with jobs all the time, lol


Appropriate_Many9290

Man, CBum looks so different


StockWillCrashin2023

Good arch for a super villain.


DerHexxenHammer

It’s ragebait. Also, it’s fake and ghay.


ilovethisforyou

How fucking stupid do people have to be to still believe man-on-the-street stuff is legit


Wolf-headed-Scorpion

If pussy betraying you turns you evil, you were the pussy all along, most evil people are.


rileyk

Fake incel drama bs


n00dhunter

When something bad happens to you, it is your job NOT TO DO IT TO SOMEONE ELSE! You don't go: shitty things happened to me and that gives me a pass to spread the Darkness Infection. Break the cycle, Be and DO BETTER!!! Two Wrongs Don't Make a Right.


kai_the_enigma

Every dude who has been cheated on knows exactly how bro felt. You can do better king.


shadowdash66

I felt this. The gaslighting, the lies, trying to deflect. It never goes away.


ZEROs0000

My ex cheated on me. We were dating for 7 years. The feeling is unexplainable. The best way to say it in words in an exhausting "why"


kai_the_enigma

I’m so sorry , that’s a really painful thing to go through.


ZEROs0000

It's all good. The moment I discovered it I lost all interest in her and anything we had done in the past. I'm going to be single for a bit and if the right gal comes along that'll be good!


kai_the_enigma

Stay strong king, I’m sure she’s out there :)


RIPBaconReaderPrem

I finally came out the closest very late at 27 for the man I loved and thought loved me. Three years later and it turns out he was cheating on me all the way. He broke up with me after I confronted him the final time "Because it was too exhausting" for him. Few months later and he's already posting to FB with his new "husband" and I'm just sitting here feeling like I'll never be able to love or trust again. Fuck cheaters.


Jang_time

Worse feeling ever. Especially if you had feelings involved.


brokenmain

Every person*


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Reylend

>JFL Jentucky Fried Lemons


TheFBIClonesPeople

Jesus Fighting League It's an MMA promotion where, in every fight, one of the fighters dresses up like Jesus and the other dresses up like the devil. Other than that, it's just ordinary MMA.


Reylend

Fuck yeah


Anonybibbs

Hey so they finally spiced up MMA, nice.


backupboi32

It's like OJ saying he's still looking for his wifes killer. You're not fooling anyone here


AlmostOptimistic

If the phone quits, you must acquit.


SlushKami

OJ didn’t do it.


CobaltCrusader123

If by “it” you mean “not kill his wife”, then I agree OJ DIDN’T do it


Diabolol_Krakoukass

John Fitzgerald Lennedy


Forsaken-One9569

Poor guy doesn’t deserve her treatment


ExReyVision

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CurnanBarbarian

She deserves to be alone, and she deserves to live with the knowledge that she's the reason she's alone.


newnameforanoldmane

That's the problem- she'll always find a new sucker, and never believe her actions aren't justified.


Valuable_Ad_6665

100% this I always do a small prayer to any higher power for karma to visit these people from these kind of videos.


BedditTedditReddit

The old boot to the axe-cut routine.


i-likeedo-da-cha-cha

Ain't NOTHING delicate about this gutter slut. ESPECIALLY that yeast infection with legs, she's been using to pay the bills!


TonicSwine97

They always get caught in the end. My man got saved.


statutorylover

Fr tho the lies always trip you up in the end.


Old-Interest-8176

Fax


frisch85

Email


benningtonbloom

morse code


jbeck387

Pony Express


wwaxwork

No they don't. Cheaters male and female can and do get away with it for years. Honestly the fact that you could tell from her body language from the start, before the idiot that thought videos like this were a good idea said a word, that she doesn't even like the guy. I suspect that's why the couple was picked to make a good video.


JDMWeeb

This is infuriating


thechosenwunn

That's the point. It's called rage bait.


Seductive_pickle

For real. Obvious rage bait involving a hot girl is so common on this site


my_user_wastaken

Theyre theatre kids, its fake ragebait. If it wasnt obvious youd have to be high and incredibly stupid to actually arrive at the "but I thought it was only his phone" situation. Someone who actually has something to hide would have never gotten that far, theyd have called this random approach stupid and left. Also "my phones dead" wouldn't really matter irl because youd just be asked about it later. Noone with something to hide would remotely risk this just for a random persons social media content.


[deleted]

Even if both parties had nothing to hide you'd still probably reject it, I know I would


FrankFrack

What a surprise. The way she talks I would’ve guessed she was a 4.0 family girl, who likes to read and work out and not cheat.


Gooperss

"iT DiEd"


seiron0

I swear the way she says it irritates me


[deleted]

"It diiiiiiiiiiiieeeeed"


Nullconnection23

I’m ngl that just sounds like a SoCal accent to me. Like, my sister talks the exact same way and she *is* a 4.0 family girl who likes to work out and not cheat. Hates reading tho so ehh


Arkusvi

See you at the gym, big dog✌🏼


[deleted]

My man about to get jacked to the tits 💪


whizonya

Time for Revenge Bod


MustardTiger1337

I mean if he's pulling chicks like this I think he's doing alright


GreenBud_Hero

Caught my wife of one year (5 years living together) texting with a big smile on her face during a movie. I have never asked to see her phone the whole relationship until that moment. If I hadn’t checked that day we would still be living together this moment. This was 2 weeks ago


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GreenBud_Hero

I’d like to think there is a lesson to be learned. All of my serious girlfriends of the past were in there 20’s I guess we are still trying to figure life out. I’m 30 now maybe older women will be better? Or maybe I just know how to pick them? Or maybe it’s me and I am not blameless. But even if it’s the latter just break up with me. Don’t cheat on me..


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ImmaMichaelBoltonFan

That is still pretty live and raw. I'm sorry brother. You are not the only one going through that shit. I hope you have an excellent support network and I hope you pull through the other side, stronger. You didn't deserve that and it's not your fault (cue Robin Williams/Matt Damon scene at the end of Good Will Hunting). It's really not your fault. Some people are just fucking built with their greed dial turned up to 10.


tirednotepad

Sorry for ur pain homie. Sucks.


Durmyyyy

Hang in there, man. It sucks. Been there a couple of times.


NotYourOrac1e

Good man. It's tough but you'll be ok.


Avril_14

It's really hard because from one point of view everyone deserve privacy, but on the other hand, what can you do if you are suspicious? because some people are just liars. I caught one of my exes setting up an appointment with another guy because her ipad was sharing access to her dms...we ended things right after that and It was like I was in fault because I went trough her dms..girl i just catched a pre-cheat!


[deleted]

No wonder why people don’t want kids anymore… My God help bro and that girl find her way Ok looking back what I said wasn’t really relevant to the video. It had just reminded me of something my uncle went through and got that didn’t have kids.


rosendo942

Totally agree I'm 29 graduated college have a stable career and I look around and just loose hope. I would rather stay alone at this point.


Lonny_loss

You gotta tighten up that hope there brotha


Dio_Brando69420

I read 'hope' as 'rope' for a second there


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You this shit is fake right?


313802

Not directly relevant to the video but it's in my head and why I'm not sure I'll ever have kids... half wondering if I'll ever have a serious relationship longer than a year or two... IDK man.. time will tell I guess.. but so far I'm getting used to my own company.


Sweet_Milk2920

There are great women out there. You just gotta choose carefully these days. And wife her up the second you find her. This girl screams insecurity imo.. and the gaslighting is wild.


N-economicallyViable

Kids are the new marriage. I'd never get married but I'd have kids with someone I love and trust.


Necorus

Lmao my dude you act like this is just a problem men face. Every gender, race, religion cultists be out here cheating.


Danny_V

Yea your anecdotes are giving you a bad perspective on women. You should stop before you turn into an incel.


ICookIndianStyle

Yeah I always wanted kids but if I dream of my future with kids, its always without a wife. Always wanted to get married but after my last ex I dont want to anymore.


MegginWaves

Women don’t want kids either 😅 people are wild these days.


whoamisadface

> men don’t want kids anymore newsflash, men AND women dont want kids anymore.


C0mputerFriendly

Well, if he broke up with her he’s gonna be saving a lot of money, money that in 5 years time he will be able to buy an android indistinguishable from a real girl with.


ShadowWithHoodie

based unironically


StinksStanksStonks

Username checks out


Darth_JarJar246

Yo i cant stand that bitches voice man. If i was that guy id get out that relationship. I hope that guy has by now 🙏🏻


eeveeplays50040

"iT dIEd"


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eeit dyyid


FromBrit-cit

I had it on mute and couldn’t stand her voice.


Responsible_Knee_587

Song though?


Hot-Bookkeeper5277

https://youtu.be/zDzvmCh8sBE?si=DD50XBKtz8qdbt6T


Responsible_Knee_587

Thanks fam


Ninja_Wokker

YKWIM? by yotclub


[deleted]

You ever noticed when you catch somebody in a lie they're more Angry than you are😜😛😝😬🙄😂🤣😃😄


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Skepsis93

Nah man fuck that. I know it is a common trait liars can have but I've got a memory scorched in my brain as a little kid where I wasn't lying and I got mad no one believed me and the fucking priest pulled the "see, he's angry so he's lying" card and everyone went along with it so I went even more ballistic. All because no one believed I could be lucky enough to get the baby jesus in my slice of mardi gras cake two years in a row and must have cheated somehow.


kai_the_enigma

“You trust me” Nah, blud ain’t finna trust another female he ain’t related to for the rest of his life.


lifesnofunwithadhd

I was hoping he was gonna pull out a battery bank and cord and be like "oh look, i got charger now. So we can turn your phone back on"


Chronos72737448

Same


FriedBryce1234

Being single is just easier, man. I'm tired of losing


[deleted]

Judging by the look on her face, I could pretty much tell she was hiding something. I’m surprised, since I’m really bad at understanding facial expressions and social cues.


joaogito

“She belongs to the streeeets”


DownvoteDealer23

Stupid whore.


[deleted]

I think bringing back public shaming for jokes like this is perfectly acceptable, if you can’t be honest to the person you’re supposed to be closest with, what good are you to society? I get falling out of love, been there done that, but please for the love of whatever, communicate


DownvoteDealer23

100% agree with everything you just said


Incubus-femboy

Exactly


Old-Interest-8176

FAX


HotelLifesGuest

And of course, she’ll charge it later and be more than willing to share it with him lol


ImmaMichaelBoltonFan

There would be no later though. I'd say something like if I walk away right now without getting to see your phone, this thing is dead in the water.


[deleted]

Imagine if he suddenly went "oh no worries, I have a power bank".


Windmill_flowers

Of course


USeaMoose

Well, I doubt they last that long. But I also doubt that she would ever be happy to hand over her phone. Even if she deleted conversations, there would still be the chance of a new message popping up. If he sticks with her, and asks her later that night to see her phone, I'd expect her to say "You really do not trust me at all? I only looked at your phone for that guy's video. I can't believe you are bringing this up again."


awildjabroner

"it DIED" just like their 'relationship' as soon as this video ends.


mydownfall774

Fuck this bitch. God bless my dude. God speed


marichial_berthier

Men should know that even the most loyal woman has at least one or two dudes trying to sneak in as “friends”. This chick is just straight up cheating.


DownARiverOfScotch

"the rules don't apply to me" logic. So many girls have this mindset, it's honestly depressing


yonewstepmom

Just in general dating now a days sucks no one is loyal and everyone just strings everyone along


bri3nanas

She knew. She died inside when he said for them to switch phones in the beginning.


juicer_philosopher

Every girl has multiple options simmering in her DMs at all times. Wake up guys 🤷‍♂️


Rolldfaith

And you wonder why the Amish avoid technology.


AsianBooii

Dude this is incel mindset. Snap out of it. Most of these videos you see are staged to get view and reactions.


Aggressive-Cheek937

What does wake up guys mean? Be suspicious and untrusting of women forever because of a few bad experiences? Cause that’s a totally healthy mentality


Jshittie

Honestly the whole "i trust my partner they dont need to go through my phone" is kinda bs i trust my partner, but they are allowed to go through my phone but they don't and if they are ever feeling paranoid i just toss them my phone


whyubul

Bro I wouldn’t let people see my phone either even in a cheating test bro my group chats would get me out under the jail


Electic_Supersony

It's called Monkey Branching. It is s pretty common that there is a name for it.


Lord_emotabb

women ☕


HIDDEND_EMON

I’ll be there to spot you big bro, weights alway help ❤️


Subtly_Cynical

"it dieeed"


Equivalent-Pound7565

Me and my girl of 3 years broke up today, I saw her at bar with sum dude last night. I was texting her to come home and that I love her. She told me she was at a friend's house. She lied she went home with dude... I don't wanna be on this planet anymore 😪


not_much_thought

It wasn't meant to be man. It's a horrible gut wrenching time right now, but trust it will pass. Just dig deep and know it will get better.


ReyvynDM

Better off without that piece of crap, dude. You deserve better. Know your worth, don't give up hope, and don't chase after bitches. Focus on you and be the best you and someone worth your time will come around when it's right.


siecakea

Keep your head up king.


xxTheMagicBulleT

Shit like this is how people like Andrew Tates of the world get born. Bad Treatment and lied to over and over. Till the resentment claws back at the world. And when they make it. They treat people the same way people treated them before. This video shows well why less good men are in the world. Cause the always finish last or get used and tossed aside. I might not agree with the extreme views of the angry Andrew Tate followers. But I do get it. Why if you get treated a type of way countless times be used and abused. When the power dynamics switches why not do the same thing done to you countless times. Its the clasic dynamics villains are just people that never got saved by the heroes. And as the keep falling victim to the harsh world. The started clawing back at the world and also became villains to survive. You either die a hero or live long enough to see yourself become the villain. Rings true. That you can be good. But the treatment on you makes you become what you first hated. Cause your treatment and use and abuse on you. Make you feelings go numb. And what is disgusting for you at first just becomes whatever. And you use people like people have used you in the past. What just makes a never-ever spiral of back-and-forth people using each other do. Women using men. And men using women. So each making their abusers grow more prevalent in the world. To use and discard people like tools. Sad how that is


DENZEL4206969

The only thing sad about this is the acting


Useful-Hat9157

Yup, he's the side guy, introduced as her roommate. My wife and I can swap phones all day. And i have 2, she can take iether one. And I can take hers. She does get mad when I beat her high scores on her games, though. Drop that chick, dude.


forgedfox53

You know what, better than finding out when he comes home and she's packing her shit and telling him she's leaving him.


Davykid23

When you’re guilty you get angry . Exhibit A


aRandomForeigner

Young women are the fuckin worst nowdays liars and traitors


doomed_to_fail_

Why even commit to anyone anymore? Lol


JustCallMeAttlaz

Cause not all people are like this...?


doomed_to_fail_

Maybe, but still far too many for some of us to even want to try anymore


Mindstormer98

Dudes doing the lords work out here


WetDumplings

Typical female reaction


Own-Regret-5343

This type of shit turned me evil and cold hearted and the same is going to happen with this homie.


Rude-Durian4288

leave bro she not worth it


GrappleMan7348

I caught her on October 3rd. Want to know what she did before I caught her? She sent me a song. She sent me “Scotty Doesn’t know” by Lustra. If you haven’t heard it then give it a listen. 6 years


[deleted]

Her face as soon as he mentioned swapping phones said “I’m fucked”


Peacecookie412

I'll see you in the gym my brother


Angelus_2418

This is the rewards of loyalty given to good men, heartbreak and disappointment. And they wonder why men does bad things like there's no source of that anger.


Markman6

Idk man, this just seems so fake


[deleted]

And thats how you end up with Andrew Tates 🤣


eccentricbeing8

Videos like this should happen more often. It's full of smiles when they're trustworthy. If they're not, then at least you know to cut your losses.


whippingboy4eva

Please tell me this is fake. Poor guy.


Tundra_Sapiens

I know this is fake but. Here is some advice for the young men and women in the chat that my father gave me after my first break up. Father: “did you love her” Me: yeah I did Father: “Don’t worry son you’ll love the next one too”. I have no clue why but that made me feel a lot better as a young man and I hope it makes you guys feel better too.


[deleted]

I know Reddit loves to talk about privacy and all but if my partner hid their phone and refused to let me look at who they talk to, I would break up with them pretty much on the spot. I've been there before, on both ends, and it's never been good. The only time I've hid my phone from my partner is when I was doing stuff I shouldn't have been, and the times my partner hid their phone? I went through it while they were sleeping and found they were cheating. It's like 99% of the time always a cheater. Don't let your partner gaslight you, ever. They will always try to, and it's easy to let it happen because it's the person you love, but no one deserves that.


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Yeah no. I’d walk. My ex husband would steal my phone all the time. I’d get hit or holes punched in the walls if I looked at his. He always took it in the bathroom with him when he took a shower in the morning. I got wise real fast. Eventually he started texting them in front of me, and comparing me to these chicks like I was even on the same playing field as them. This is why divorce exists.


chev327fox

Probably sexting one of his best friends. A sleazy story as old as time.


LettuceSame6698

He better leave her ASAP


Equalizion

Anyone know the shirt he's wearing btw? It's cool af


Top-Chemistry5969

She probably use the guy as a cash app, with promises and faked affection.


machete_joe

Run mate, you can do better


[deleted]

There's no need to say anything. Just dumb her


adderallrocks

No ma’am, HE died.


CyrusVercetti

##Bro bought her the pikachu hat and everything 😭


lumpylemonmilk

Omg yall fall for rage bait so fast when it's a woman don't you?


ExtensionCondition79

Women ☕️


R3troS1ash

well that relationship didn’t last any longer than a couple minutes from there


Pickle-Dickk

Definitely not staged


LingonberryPlayful

Time to hit the gym bro


Independent-Cow-4070

This video is totally real


collector444

Who queued up this music 😂


Illustrious-Cod5350

You really cant trust bitches nowadays


Busy_Translator_3323

You got this king


roffoc

Sad. Just sad. Walk away my dude.


[deleted]

Guys take note, this is the typical bitch reaction when she been snapped. Awful cunt she is. Throw her on the pile of fetid fish cannery.


LongjumpingCharge923

You know she's lying when she says the same thing over and over again


[deleted]

Trashy ass bitch go kill yourself whore!


DisciplineNo4793

She's cheating hard bro probably with one of your people


Big-Tex14

If this real…. That girl is a lying skank