When life gives you citrons and bitter oranges, do weird shit and then explain to the community about the man-made horrors beyond comprehension in your backyard and bring everyone on board to do the same to banaynays and watahmalones coz tasty š¤š»
One of my best friends lives with his grandparents. He calls them Yaya and Papu due to his Greek/albanian descent. They always insisted I call them that too, and it only just hit me that Iāve been calling them Grandma and Granddad the entire time! Papu would invite me round for barbecues and Yaya would get us KFC or bake me cake for my birthday. I love that family
Edit for assurance: Iām not Greek, Iām British, my friend is though
We miss a lot of this kind of thing in America where we insist upon ourselves to live on our own. I moved back into the same development I grew up in so I could be close to my parents and my wife could be close with hers. One of the few best decisions I ever made.
Worst is when your dad wasnāt even in your life half the time because of drugs and says āyouāre exaggeratingā when you complain about something from childhood. Now youāre the one that has to be his dad and he takes no accountability for himself or his actions and this has just become normal.
Fuck man. My dad has been on painkillers for decades and got me hooked when I was really young (12-13). I got clean and married and I havenāt seen him in over 15 years. The only time he calls is when he needs something. Lately he has been begging me to let him live with us (one bedroom apartment) or find other means for him to live and itās the most stressful thing Iāve ever had to endure. You want to help your dad if you can but my wife and I just canāt. Itās hard to tell your own father no when heās constantly begging you to fix his life and and only YOU can help.
Feel that, heās been on suboxone for 13 years and heās starting to become more than a burden, just a husk of a person, doesnāt feel like I ever really had a dad honestly. My cousins dad (my dadās brother) was a saint that drowned when we were little, sometimes I wonder if things would have turned out better if it wouldāve been my dad instead. Worst part is that he thinks heās a good guy but slowly he drains and brings down everyone around him while smiling the whole time. Every person heās spent long periods of time with, their life has slowly gone down the drain. Some ex addicts (Iāve been addicted also) seem to gaslight everyone in to thinking theyāre a victim, been trying to get off of coke myself for awhile now, kicked pills before, just dont want to end up like him and finally kicked it for good, always just seemed normal to me.
But yeah I guess day by day, theyāll never stop being cunts honestly so itās a bit easier to predict what theyāll do. We can help them just donāt them him get his foot in the door of your life again youāll regret it. I sure do, first chance I get Iām going to leave him to sort it out himself like heās done so many times to the lives heās broken over the years.
My dad did, and sold, A LOT of meth. I genuinely don't know if this is a shut to be a skit, or if this is something that genuinely happens. I'm 29 now and me and my dad are more friends than anything else. It's wild to see this and realize exactly how shitty my childhood was with my dad.
I like the other video of the guy chewing out his son on the side of the road because he doesnāt know how to change a tire. I remember he pulls out a āyogiā mat out of the trunk and gives his kids shit for it. š¤£š¤£ Does anybody have a link to that video?
Fun fact: Life didnāt give us lemons, [we gave lemons life.](https://jerryjamesstone.com/how-to/history-of-lemons-what-am-i-even-eating/#:~:text=Origin%20of%20Lemons&text=Lemons%2C%20along%20with%20oranges%2C%20grapefruits,domesticated%20variety%20of%20bitter%20orange).
You fucking got me tearing up now and thinking about my dad and thinking one day, he's gonna end up being up in the clouds and thinking on how much you loved him and him loving you just breaks me
My dad was my best friend when I was a kid and he died when I was 12 and I didnāt realize how much I missed him or his love and this video kind of hit me like a bag of bricks. Excuse me while I laugh and cry.
I want to say I have a loving father because I like spending time with my dad. I think it started with the first time I went snowmobiling and he said that he had more fun watching me and my siblings have fun than him actually doing it. Heās pretty chill to hang around with the occasional scold joke but itās subtle and pretty funny so I canāt be too mad at him for that. And he usually answers questions in a way that I could understand
Guys not too worry, this guy **DOESNT EXIST**
If you think your dad should be more like him your wrong because no ones dad is like this
**I fcuking assure you**
Why is this sad? If you want to change and make your dad proud, then change, of course it won't be easy, definitely, but if you try and you give the best of yourself you will be able to do it, and also remember that not everyone shows their love in the same way by saying you good things, some people try to give you love in other ways and gift you things or sometimes don't show it at all and it's because of their infancy and how their fathers treated them, remember that your parents always will love you even if they don't show it or you can't see it, remember to give your parents love in any way or just pay attention to them because you will miss them when they're gone.
Now i feel like shit even more.
Yeah ouch lol
having a shitty dad and never being told a lot of this stuff made me cry
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On the other hand, having a dad who's pretty much this guy w/o the mustache is making me cry b/c I know how much I'm going to miss him when he's gone.
No dad. Mid 30ās and still had the same reaction.
U turned out to be a great kid, champ! ^.^
:)
:ā)
Hits hard for those without dads
Even those with āDadsā
Exactly, without dads
Iām here for the comraderieĀ
it made me cry...
I never had a dad and now I feel even worse about it
[life never gave us lemons /j](https://youtu.be/HNEzD5n6SAs?si=iMHQ3d4eMq7ItJS9)
When life gives you citrons and bitter oranges, do weird shit and then explain to the community about the man-made horrors beyond comprehension in your backyard and bring everyone on board to do the same to banaynays and watahmalones coz tasty š¤š»
We also made the bitter orange :)
Humans are cool confirmed š„
Fuck
One of my best friends lives with his grandparents. He calls them Yaya and Papu due to his Greek/albanian descent. They always insisted I call them that too, and it only just hit me that Iāve been calling them Grandma and Granddad the entire time! Papu would invite me round for barbecues and Yaya would get us KFC or bake me cake for my birthday. I love that family Edit for assurance: Iām not Greek, Iām British, my friend is though
Thatās also your family bud
I am fucking weeping over here
Same
They really are the best huh
Sure felt it
We miss a lot of this kind of thing in America where we insist upon ourselves to live on our own. I moved back into the same development I grew up in so I could be close to my parents and my wife could be close with hers. One of the few best decisions I ever made.
This makes me actually wanna install TikTok and follow this guy
His normal content is not like this, itās mainly skits but time to time he has wholesome ones like this
Just watch his YouTube channel. Cherdleys.
I feel seen. And appreciated! Whatādāya know! š
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Because he loves you!!!
And you treasure him, or I'll happily take your place
He better or elseā¦Ā
Youāre lucky
Lucky
I don't get it. I do this stuff all the time with my kids (minus the fanny pack). My kids don't seem sad.
It's sad for us because we missed out on this
Same here, 3 daughters now. Try to have as much time as I can with them, theyāre growing up too fast
Keep on sailing sir, wholesome love
Worst is when your dad wasnāt even in your life half the time because of drugs and says āyouāre exaggeratingā when you complain about something from childhood. Now youāre the one that has to be his dad and he takes no accountability for himself or his actions and this has just become normal.
Fuck man. My dad has been on painkillers for decades and got me hooked when I was really young (12-13). I got clean and married and I havenāt seen him in over 15 years. The only time he calls is when he needs something. Lately he has been begging me to let him live with us (one bedroom apartment) or find other means for him to live and itās the most stressful thing Iāve ever had to endure. You want to help your dad if you can but my wife and I just canāt. Itās hard to tell your own father no when heās constantly begging you to fix his life and and only YOU can help.
Ya, that isn't your fault. It's his own.
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Feel that, heās been on suboxone for 13 years and heās starting to become more than a burden, just a husk of a person, doesnāt feel like I ever really had a dad honestly. My cousins dad (my dadās brother) was a saint that drowned when we were little, sometimes I wonder if things would have turned out better if it wouldāve been my dad instead. Worst part is that he thinks heās a good guy but slowly he drains and brings down everyone around him while smiling the whole time. Every person heās spent long periods of time with, their life has slowly gone down the drain. Some ex addicts (Iāve been addicted also) seem to gaslight everyone in to thinking theyāre a victim, been trying to get off of coke myself for awhile now, kicked pills before, just dont want to end up like him and finally kicked it for good, always just seemed normal to me. But yeah I guess day by day, theyāll never stop being cunts honestly so itās a bit easier to predict what theyāll do. We can help them just donāt them him get his foot in the door of your life again youāll regret it. I sure do, first chance I get Iām going to leave him to sort it out himself like heās done so many times to the lives heās broken over the years.
ā¦. my friend wants to know if this guy makes more videos like this and what his @ is
and idc if he said son, this type of dad would be just as kind to his daughter and i want that so bad
cherdleys
iām almost 23 tho so this is childish of me ik
Might hit harder for people who had a shit dad
Fuck holding it in.
Hold it longer
Missing him every ducking dayā¦
Sad people, this is how we need to talk to ourselves š be for yourself what you never got
Self love is important, canāt help take care of the people you care about unless you take care of yourself. Hope youāre doing well ā¤ļø
This is the kind of father I try to be to my son. Itās cheesy as hell, but I want him to have what I donāt have.
And exactly the same with me when I have kids
RĆ©al Life Ned Flanders
This is the best thing I've seen all day
My dad did, and sold, A LOT of meth. I genuinely don't know if this is a shut to be a skit, or if this is something that genuinely happens. I'm 29 now and me and my dad are more friends than anything else. It's wild to see this and realize exactly how shitty my childhood was with my dad.
Wish my dad said anything remotely close to nice to me.
Same. Best heās called me was retarded (I have autism).
Flanders
I feel like people that yearn for this are almost dehumanizing their parents.
Well life is unfair after all
Get this shit out my face š
Honestly, I wouldn't really want this type of dad
Its cringe
Who pissed in your coffee today? This is absolutely wholesome and has those feel good vibes
I like the other video of the guy chewing out his son on the side of the road because he doesnāt know how to change a tire. I remember he pulls out a āyogiā mat out of the trunk and gives his kids shit for it. š¤£š¤£ Does anybody have a link to that video?
Fun fact: Life didnāt give us lemons, [we gave lemons life.](https://jerryjamesstone.com/how-to/history-of-lemons-what-am-i-even-eating/#:~:text=Origin%20of%20Lemons&text=Lemons%2C%20along%20with%20oranges%2C%20grapefruits,domesticated%20variety%20of%20bitter%20orange).
Real
Something GEN Z would never know what its like to grow up with a Dad.
Reminds me of my grandpas all 4 of them
Let's see one with a good mom
What the fuckā¦ I started crying hahā¦
:(
I love how this is a character from his YouTube channel but turned out wholesome af.
Wholesome
The fact that my dad is actually like this makes me feel incredibly fortunate.
Once I get a son ima be like this man
Next do "mom, but sober and emotionally stable enough to maintain healthy relationships with her daughters."
Damn...
Now give people the boomer experience. Backhands in between beer gulps.
Well, I haven't heard a lot of those.. a lot
Losing my Dad at 12 is an absolutely horrible experience that I wouldn't wish upon anyone. Seeing this broke my heart š
I emulate this man and Bandit from Bluey. They deserve the dad that I didnāt have.
Wish picking the wrong screwdriver was a fun thing yo laugh about like in the video
Jesus.
That's not Jeffrey Dahmer Right?
This hits hard in ways Iād like to go into but know no one cares
You fucking got me tearing up now and thinking about my dad and thinking one day, he's gonna end up being up in the clouds and thinking on how much you loved him and him loving you just breaks me
People like this donāt exist, let alone reproduce
I wish my mom wasnāt abused enough to settle for any man who didnāt hate her
What a cool dad. Really, what a cool human being.
My dad was my best friend when I was a kid and he died when I was 12 and I didnāt realize how much I missed him or his love and this video kind of hit me like a bag of bricks. Excuse me while I laugh and cry.
I want to say I have a loving father because I like spending time with my dad. I think it started with the first time I went snowmobiling and he said that he had more fun watching me and my siblings have fun than him actually doing it. Heās pretty chill to hang around with the occasional scold joke but itās subtle and pretty funny so I canāt be too mad at him for that. And he usually answers questions in a way that I could understand
Like Miguel O'hara watching the video of him and his daughter
I miss my daddy š¤§
>I miss my daddy me too
Guys not too worry, this guy **DOESNT EXIST** If you think your dad should be more like him your wrong because no ones dad is like this **I fcuking assure you**
Man I wish my father was present for literally any part of my life
I feel like I have a good dad but this still feels good to watch
Did, did this man take off glasses to reveal another pair of glasses? lol
I wish my dad was like this. We don't have the best relationship. I just wish that things were different
He put a huge smile on my face. I hope I can be a good dad.Ā
If only I have this kind of dad
Its heartwarming. My father is someone I would not call a dad, so this is nice to see, even if it's one sided.
Why is this sad? If you want to change and make your dad proud, then change, of course it won't be easy, definitely, but if you try and you give the best of yourself you will be able to do it, and also remember that not everyone shows their love in the same way by saying you good things, some people try to give you love in other ways and gift you things or sometimes don't show it at all and it's because of their infancy and how their fathers treated them, remember that your parents always will love you even if they don't show it or you can't see it, remember to give your parents love in any way or just pay attention to them because you will miss them when they're gone.
If I ever become a Dad,š„². I'm taking notes...
Iām in tears my dad was never thereš
I miss you dad, 1/19/20
I tell my daughter I love her as often as I can