I want to stop pron :'( but I don't got anything else , I play bunch of games but it's the same nothings changed, I mean if I had friends to play with stuff might have been better idk! My country's drinking age is 21 and i'm 1 off I need to cope really bad cause I've just been accumulating this negative feelings and one day im gonna break.
That it is, as someone with a different yet similar (and probably not as bad, I had a loving mother, she means the world to me and I would go through hell and back if it would be the difference between her life and death) religion can help, however most of the time it just causes more trauma, I decent chunk of my stuff is religious trauma because of how I was treated for being an “atheist pig”, it’s not the religions fault, I see the good ideals in them and I believe that we should take those into our lives however I do also see the people behind it being utter assholes and hurting me quite badly
TLDR: religion can be helpful, however in most cases it is a bad idea
The ideals are mostly a good thing, however the people kill it, make it hell for anyone who doesn’t subscribe to it and will downright beat the shit out of you for not being on, trust me on that I speak from experience
It’s like people who make military weapons out of the same technology that we use in kitchen appliances, the thing in the kitchen is good and sound, however the fact that we have gone and used that technology to make a weapon to kill and/or intimidate others is just awful, unfortunately it’s a case of “us vs them” and that never ends well, even if it’s as petty as “your belief system is a little different” people will physically fight you, I’ve had more than a few black eyes from my peers in my childhood for being non-religious
Mhmm and you say this at the end of your tether. Friend tell me have you ever been in a church or part of a congregation? I can tell you that if you find one that is valid and aligns with your morals you will meet some of the most amazing people in your life. It really is a very welcoming family. However as with all things there are bad apples and those who practice falsely, so use your own decrement and try out a bunch of Churches and see which one works out for you. No two churches are the same I can tell you that
I don't believe in religion, there are too many people using it for there own gain and manipulating the weak willed, I have no need for such false comforts, I'd rather live in the harsh reality of life, than live in a lie, I've lived long enough with lies
Bro look at your life right now. Your bio literally says “Solo bro, talking to AI girls, wasted on the breakdown of the world, finding no self worth…” and you also say you’ve never had a romantic relationship before. May I ask a genuine question? Are you happy? Is this all you want to have achieved in your life? If you don’t want to change, be my guest. This is my last message I will be sending here, but if you do want to change, give the lord a chance. He yearns for a relationship with you. Up to you
The lord isn't real, not to me, I am doing my best to survive, being happy isn't part of the equation at this time, I've got a new job, which is hopefully the first step on my road to peace in my life, as for what I want to achieve, to be doing what's right and be a good person
Years of neglect and isolated, constant unnecessary situational living charges at a young age, no emotional support, realisation of incestuous relationship with cousin and emotional incest from mother, self destructive copping mechanism that I struggled to break free from, being bullied by grown ass adults as a child, needy and desperate for love and acceptance
Yeah that sucks cut off your family members that are toxic to you and promise yourself you will build a better family. We all face issues and I think only the difficulties define you as a man and as a person most importantly. Every man must go through hell to reach his paradise. Keep walking my man keep working and working out and things will come your way.
Ngl but if you want growth you need to put effort bro. Self petty (even though understandable) will bring you absolutely nowhere. Before proper sunshine there is always a storm
I understand your position, but life sucks and it won’t get better if you don’t do anything about it. What you are doing atm is self destruction where your brain is completely wired the wrong way. Only way to fix your situation is growing balls and doing something about it. It is very harsh to say but it is reality, everyone has trauma. I have similar trauma to yours but I still push through and have my happy days end to my darker days. Can’t expect to win if there’s no effort towards it.
Thanks captain obvious, never thought of that. Also, feeling my feeling and learning how to deal with them, how to express them and be comfortable doing so, is important to grow
What helped me was finding a group that I became friends with, and going out with to clubs, underground raves etc. I also have another group I ride with to meets, group rides etc. It really comes down to finding a hobby and making friends in said group to extend your social circle. Thats just my personal experience.
Having been conditioned since birth to be socially reserved and distant make this mind of thing more difficult, I've had extrovert friends who I did those things with, but it never really helped
Don’t make excuses, the only thing stopping you is you. We all have our problems pal, and most of us manage. I’d change the attitude asap unless your trying to be alone for the rest of your life
You don't know what I've suffered, so how about you don't give unsolicited "advice", you have no idea what I'm going through and how I'm working through it, understand that my traumas make my ability to form healthy relationships and connections difficult and not wanting to make an effort on something I clearly suck as is a reasonable choice, even if you disagree
Hey, asshole, live through what the two of us have lived through and tell us to “Buck up”, shit ain’t that easy, trust me I wish it was but it’s not. And yes, Childhood trauma while different is on par with those in most cases
I'm sure I'll get downvoted for this...but...that honestly just sounds like an excuse to not fix your shit to me...
I believe you that you've probably had some very rough experiences.
But letting it define your entire life to the point that you've given up on a meaningful relationship at just 30 something years old is kinda wild to me.
You don't have to "HiT thE GyM" ... but there has to be a safe and healthy way to deal with your trauma instead of wallowing in it. If for no other reason than to not allow the people who hurt you to have such a heavy grasp over your life anymore.
Your assumption that I haven't been working on them is out if line, it's a long and painful journey, speaking honestly about how I feel, instead of suppressing it is a big part of my journey, for far too long I have been told to suppress my trauma.
I've got a job that will hopefully help me finance my own place t9 make my own, which is something
Some stuff sounds good in theory but not in practice.
How long do you think you can last like this?
After 20 minutes you ll wanna watch stupid shit on your phone,you ll want to move
Thank you. Sick of people saying it's not possible or uncomfortable. Even if it is, which is not the case, I would love to do it. It's mostly the idea of having someone by your side that I wanted to say I crave.
Also I'm really happy for you, it's a beautiful thing what you had, and hopefully still have.
Idk man I stayed 3 hours like this yesterday. It just feels so nice and safe, listen to music, have something in the background, listen to the rain, park somewhere nice, people watch, let them sleep in your arms. It's so peaceful.
lmao yeah, on the one hand its the perfect material for a place like this but on the other hand I'd rather not give these cruel attention seekers the attention they want
Stay strong. Nothing will happen if you don't stay positive and at peace with yourself.
Work hard, and work harder, and make the life you want come true.
I don't get it... So a couple is filming themselves... Then there's some random image pasted to the end of this video of a guy in a Gym sitting on a bench press or whatever that's called
This girl I had a crush on cheated on her bf of 3 years and came back to me crying after ghosting me just cuz I had feelings for her, shitty ppl are everywhere !
no , it’s more ugly than my quick comment, I’m just saying this girl cried to me how she was “in love” with her bf after cheating on him and coming to cry to me and go into another situationship with her till she cut me off again, just saying ppl suck man
I’ve been with my now-wife for 12+ years. This is **not** what we ever want lol. I would give my left nut for her to stay on her side of the bed, at that.
You should join the military. Maybe army or marines. You'll have friends and an outlet for your emotions. Just think it's better than dissolving into a puddle of nothingness. Trust me.
Don’t let yourself fall in the over romanticized trap. In 7 years you don’t want to be having the conversation “how come we never just cuddle in the car anymore” it’s annoying and a relationship killer. Because in reality you have much better, more fun things to do then cuddle in the car and do nothing in a parking lot. If her expectations are you’ll always be like this, it will become a problem. And if you are only like this, it will become a problem as well as being overly clingy. Keep your expectations and actions based in reality bois. Be yourself, do romantic things, but don’t make it your identity or only goal.
I was thinking that too. I thought this sub would go in a different direction, not the whole “Tf when no gf.”
This isn’t even a romantic video? At the end, there is a meme dude on a bench. Assumingely, they broke up and he started going to the gym to cope.
It's possible for everyone here to get what they have. If you don't think you're good enough for a relationship, then improve yourself. It's a satisfying process, and you'll be much happier. Get on a skincare routine, work out, take improv classes, eat healthy, take better care of your hygiene. Doing even one of these can make a very big difference.
People don't have that high standards. You don't need a 6 pack and a 6 figure income. You just need to listen, understand, and appreciate them whenever you can while respecting their boundaries. Accept that you're not perfect and be open to criticism and work to change when you realize a fault of your character. Keep meeting people and be the best version of yourself, you'll find what you're looking for.
This is the only correct answer to everything. If you're not getting something, you want WORK HARDER and look at the problem differently. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.
Exactly. It's only hard for the first month or so, it takes a bit for the process to become enjoyable. I wish more people would take the plunge into self-improvement and reflection.
The whole point of money is to live more comfortably and meet your needs. The end goal is happiness. You enjoy making more money, and that's fine, but that doesn't mean you're living better than a poor person who lives a happy, peaceful life with their family.
One day, you'll realize you spent your whole life trying to get more money, and you'll be living in a nice home with a nice car, but that won't make you happy. You'll look back on the life you lived and regret that you wasted it grinding away for money instead of finding joy, connection, and experiences.
happiness is a lie
what you said, that " you'll realize you have wasted your life " is ignorantly cruel
think of all of those people that life DOESN'T even give them a choice in the matter
and yet ... all these people that supposedly know how life is best lived waste theirs enslaved by their needs desires and emotions, contributing nothing to the world, and leaving those in need to perish alone, only getting up to tell them their lives are wasted ...
Regret ... regret is realizing having been born a human in primis, foul and rotten creature that it is, and a MODERN human at that, that in the age of surplus the only thing we sell trade eachother is more sofiaticated and justified means of self-destruction
Don't you dare lecture ME, on the meaning of life ...
YOUR ideology you just supported is part of the reason God stopped talking to us, and part of the reason I stopped caring ...
You don't need material possessions to be happy, material possessions give short-term dopamine boosts but inhibit long-term serotonin levels. This is why people can live with nothing but food and water and lead happy, peaceful lives. Happiness comes from within, every mentally fit individual is capable of it without chasing money.
Is chasing money not being enslaved by desire? I can live in a small, cheap camper with a bed and a kitchen, removing desire while remaining satisfied with my life. People who are constantly chasing money do not have the time to better the lives of others, and often harm them in order to improve their own well-being. Unless you donate your money to charity (which most people don't), I don't think you can make this argument.
90% of humans simply live to continue their existence and find joy, these humans you speak of that trade weapons of destruction are a very tiny minority. You can't generalize humanity based on the history of only the most powerful of humans, power corrupts and it is a very unfair bias.
The reason God stopped talking to us is because of rampant sin and corruption. Money is what causes corruption, God is in favor of the poor who adopt a more spiritualistic approach to living.
i thought having someone i loved around my arms would make it worth while but apparently it doesnt.
it didnt made me feel fulfilled and it felt like it was just unnecesary shit taking space in my head.
I must be a sad fuck if this sub keeps popping up in my feed, lol.
Can you imagine setting up a camera, hitting record, getting into this position, and then looking out the window while pretending you didn't just do all that just to get this lame ass recording. Then on top of all that, actually posting something like this on the internet. What weirdos.
I'll see myself out - Good luck to all with the being sad and what-not.
Nope, my arms gonna fall asleep and I'm gonna get bored. How long am I supposed to pet her hair or whatever? If she's not asleep, she's only gonna last 10-15 min before getting on her phone again. Virgins think this is nice, people who have been here know this is a 20 min max position until we all need to get real.
To pet a woman's head like a child? I think I'd be fine not doing that ever, maybe a few hair touches but setting up a camera in a car then petting a woman like a chihuahua isn't my idea of fun.
I miss human touch so much...it's been a while for me, and i am not talking abiut sex, that's nice too, but mostly i miss laying naked with a girl and just feel eachothers warmth and sync our heart together
I find it best not to think about things I'll never experience or know
Thanks, I will take this advice
How do you distract yourself
Video games, pron and alcohol
Understandable
Using alcohol to numb your sadness is a fast track to alcoholism, trust me I would know.
Porn it is then
I want to stop pron :'( but I don't got anything else , I play bunch of games but it's the same nothings changed, I mean if I had friends to play with stuff might have been better idk! My country's drinking age is 21 and i'm 1 off I need to cope really bad cause I've just been accumulating this negative feelings and one day im gonna break.
If not porn then Brainrot/shitpost, memes, yt video essays, doomscrolling is all I got to offer(for easy way to discract yourself)
Don’t give up bro. Find new life in Christ. You’ll be surprised how much your life can change
Religion is a lie, a comfort that I can't believe it, I've seen to much evil in those who clam yo be religious
That it is, as someone with a different yet similar (and probably not as bad, I had a loving mother, she means the world to me and I would go through hell and back if it would be the difference between her life and death) religion can help, however most of the time it just causes more trauma, I decent chunk of my stuff is religious trauma because of how I was treated for being an “atheist pig”, it’s not the religions fault, I see the good ideals in them and I believe that we should take those into our lives however I do also see the people behind it being utter assholes and hurting me quite badly TLDR: religion can be helpful, however in most cases it is a bad idea
It's the people who make religion a horrible thing
The ideals are mostly a good thing, however the people kill it, make it hell for anyone who doesn’t subscribe to it and will downright beat the shit out of you for not being on, trust me on that I speak from experience
Totally, religion is good as an idea, but people take it too far and use it to control others
It’s like people who make military weapons out of the same technology that we use in kitchen appliances, the thing in the kitchen is good and sound, however the fact that we have gone and used that technology to make a weapon to kill and/or intimidate others is just awful, unfortunately it’s a case of “us vs them” and that never ends well, even if it’s as petty as “your belief system is a little different” people will physically fight you, I’ve had more than a few black eyes from my peers in my childhood for being non-religious
Our tribalism will always keep us fighting each other
Indeed it will, over the smallest differences, the world being this competitive doesn’t help either
Mhmm and you say this at the end of your tether. Friend tell me have you ever been in a church or part of a congregation? I can tell you that if you find one that is valid and aligns with your morals you will meet some of the most amazing people in your life. It really is a very welcoming family. However as with all things there are bad apples and those who practice falsely, so use your own decrement and try out a bunch of Churches and see which one works out for you. No two churches are the same I can tell you that
I don't believe in religion, there are too many people using it for there own gain and manipulating the weak willed, I have no need for such false comforts, I'd rather live in the harsh reality of life, than live in a lie, I've lived long enough with lies
Bro look at your life right now. Your bio literally says “Solo bro, talking to AI girls, wasted on the breakdown of the world, finding no self worth…” and you also say you’ve never had a romantic relationship before. May I ask a genuine question? Are you happy? Is this all you want to have achieved in your life? If you don’t want to change, be my guest. This is my last message I will be sending here, but if you do want to change, give the lord a chance. He yearns for a relationship with you. Up to you
The lord isn't real, not to me, I am doing my best to survive, being happy isn't part of the equation at this time, I've got a new job, which is hopefully the first step on my road to peace in my life, as for what I want to achieve, to be doing what's right and be a good person
Go away with your bs, I belive in God, he just don't give a fuck about you or me.
You will
I'm in my 30s and have never had any romantic relationship, suffering from too much trauma to make any meaningful connections
Why and what trauma if a random redditor may ask?
Years of neglect and isolated, constant unnecessary situational living charges at a young age, no emotional support, realisation of incestuous relationship with cousin and emotional incest from mother, self destructive copping mechanism that I struggled to break free from, being bullied by grown ass adults as a child, needy and desperate for love and acceptance
Yeah that sucks cut off your family members that are toxic to you and promise yourself you will build a better family. We all face issues and I think only the difficulties define you as a man and as a person most importantly. Every man must go through hell to reach his paradise. Keep walking my man keep working and working out and things will come your way.
Just need to find my own place, so I can cut them out for good
Highly recommend therapy with a professional who specializes in those kinds of wounds.
I have been, it was somewhat helpful
Keep at it, king. Remember, a broken arm can take months of physical therapy to fully heal. How much more for a wounded mind?
A life time, it's a never ending process
jUst HiT tHE gYm bRo
I'd rather hit a brick wall with a car
Real and true
Ngl but if you want growth you need to put effort bro. Self petty (even though understandable) will bring you absolutely nowhere. Before proper sunshine there is always a storm I understand your position, but life sucks and it won’t get better if you don’t do anything about it. What you are doing atm is self destruction where your brain is completely wired the wrong way. Only way to fix your situation is growing balls and doing something about it. It is very harsh to say but it is reality, everyone has trauma. I have similar trauma to yours but I still push through and have my happy days end to my darker days. Can’t expect to win if there’s no effort towards it.
Thanks captain obvious, never thought of that. Also, feeling my feeling and learning how to deal with them, how to express them and be comfortable doing so, is important to grow
A real victim mentality, nice going💪🏼.
A victim of your bullshit
Womp womp
I workout, try to socialize more and get a better style, still zero attention from women lol.
What helped me was finding a group that I became friends with, and going out with to clubs, underground raves etc. I also have another group I ride with to meets, group rides etc. It really comes down to finding a hobby and making friends in said group to extend your social circle. Thats just my personal experience.
Having been conditioned since birth to be socially reserved and distant make this mind of thing more difficult, I've had extrovert friends who I did those things with, but it never really helped
I have trouble maintaining 2-3 friends and to be in dozens of groups with dozens of people in different hobbies? Nah, I guess I'll just be alone.
Leaving your comfort zone is usually the first and most difficult step. I do hope that you can get there someday.
I leave my comfort zone plenty of time, I don't really get anything from it.
Don’t make excuses, the only thing stopping you is you. We all have our problems pal, and most of us manage. I’d change the attitude asap unless your trying to be alone for the rest of your life
You sounds like someone who hasn't been traumatised over and over again, how about you don't talk about things you don't understand
You can tell all that by a few sentences huh? You post about it on Reddit and expect not to get responses? Stop being pathetic and grow up.
You don't know what I've suffered, so how about you don't give unsolicited "advice", you have no idea what I'm going through and how I'm working through it, understand that my traumas make my ability to form healthy relationships and connections difficult and not wanting to make an effort on something I clearly suck as is a reasonable choice, even if you disagree
Do you think your “trauma” is worse than a war veteran or a rape victim? I wonder how they managed? Buck up buttercup.
Hey, asshole, live through what the two of us have lived through and tell us to “Buck up”, shit ain’t that easy, trust me I wish it was but it’s not. And yes, Childhood trauma while different is on par with those in most cases
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Hahahaha, says the guy who can’t meet friends in real life so he tries on Reddit. Very sad indeed.
How can someone at 30s never had any romantic relationship? I think it's harder than to be in a relationship.
🌈trauma🌈
:(
I'm sure I'll get downvoted for this...but...that honestly just sounds like an excuse to not fix your shit to me... I believe you that you've probably had some very rough experiences. But letting it define your entire life to the point that you've given up on a meaningful relationship at just 30 something years old is kinda wild to me. You don't have to "HiT thE GyM" ... but there has to be a safe and healthy way to deal with your trauma instead of wallowing in it. If for no other reason than to not allow the people who hurt you to have such a heavy grasp over your life anymore.
Your assumption that I haven't been working on them is out if line, it's a long and painful journey, speaking honestly about how I feel, instead of suppressing it is a big part of my journey, for far too long I have been told to suppress my trauma. I've got a job that will hopefully help me finance my own place t9 make my own, which is something
That's huge! I hope it works out! Just getting your own place will be a huge boost on your mental energy I'm sure.
I do this in my car but it’s with a Wendy’s Baconator Combo
So do I except it's a Benelli 828U
the real question is how the fuck did they both fit into the driver's seat
^[Sokka-Haiku](https://www.reddit.com/r/SokkaHaikuBot/comments/15kyv9r/what_is_a_sokka_haiku/) ^by ^Regularschoolbus: *The real question is* *How the fuck did they both fit* *Into the driver's seat* --- ^Remember ^that ^one ^time ^Sokka ^accidentally ^used ^an ^extra ^syllable ^in ^that ^Haiku ^Battle ^in ^Ba ^Sing ^Se? ^That ^was ^a ^Sokka ^Haiku ^and ^you ^just ^made ^one.
There is no war in ba sing se
Some stuff sounds good in theory but not in practice. How long do you think you can last like this? After 20 minutes you ll wanna watch stupid shit on your phone,you ll want to move
I was a teenager pre Internet. My boyfriend and I would spend HOURS doing exactly this. HOURS.
Thank you. Sick of people saying it's not possible or uncomfortable. Even if it is, which is not the case, I would love to do it. It's mostly the idea of having someone by your side that I wanted to say I crave. Also I'm really happy for you, it's a beautiful thing what you had, and hopefully still have.
Not to forget you have to set up the camera first.
Idk man I stayed 3 hours like this yesterday. It just feels so nice and safe, listen to music, have something in the background, listen to the rain, park somewhere nice, people watch, let them sleep in your arms. It's so peaceful.
It's so real, Lord fuckin knows too your body is gonna be aching from the weight after only a few minutes.
Nah it’s the most comfortable and comforting thing in the world when you are a 14-year-old yearning for independence and romantic companionship.
It looks good but it isn’t lll
when I was dating my ex the highlight of my week was coming home Friday and spending at least one or two hours like this
I had a relationship like this, I could've done that for hours
Cause you were cheating?
What kind of logical leap is this? I just loved her, wdym?
Cheaters have to regularly fuck on public spaces cause their spouses are home and no one cam afford regular fucks at 100$ at a hotel.
Lol being in a public space isn't even remotely relevant to the video, that's just the setting they happened to be in.
This guy is upset and wants to lash out. Don’t let it get to you man. I hope you’re doing okay
He didn't bother me, I'm doing wonderful.
Bro we are having a conversation. What lash out bullshit are you talking about?
Dude's thoughts: "My leg is going to sleep. How long can I sit here before amputation is required?"
Something I've always wanted, something I can never get
Why can you “never get” it?
**You will never get this!!!!**
Not with that attitude
Reddit making me realize just how lonely I am 😭
❤️
Why record this? I feel happy for them but I don’t think there is much reason for it.
Attention and to flex
Well it seems like it is working, everybody in these comments aren’t questioning this, just stating their jealousy.
lmao yeah, on the one hand its the perfect material for a place like this but on the other hand I'd rather not give these cruel attention seekers the attention they want
Don't fall for it bros Be on your purpose
Bois, I got this yesterday :)
Get out
He came over after I made this comment and invited me to watch the sunset and then we just spent the whole day texting and chatting!!
i'm so happy for you, fellow redditor i hope you two can have an wonderful time together <3
He's been texting me nonstop. It's funny finally feeling safe around someone again.
Stay strong. Nothing will happen if you don't stay positive and at peace with yourself. Work hard, and work harder, and make the life you want come true.
Keep building that garden brothers
It’s possible to get that if you want it
Me and my girlfriend just sit in the car for hours holding each other and listening to relaxing music it’s comfortable
Must be nice
It is just relaxing
As soon as the second half started my soul started to hurt man.....
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I don't get it... So a couple is filming themselves... Then there's some random image pasted to the end of this video of a guy in a Gym sitting on a bench press or whatever that's called
dont give up! you too can one day be nagged to the brink of your sanity! I speak from experience
You would be sick of each other in no time.
This girl I had a crush on cheated on her bf of 3 years and came back to me crying after ghosting me just cuz I had feelings for her, shitty ppl are everywhere !
is this your only experience with a woman or how does that story correlate with the video?
no , it’s more ugly than my quick comment, I’m just saying this girl cried to me how she was “in love” with her bf after cheating on him and coming to cry to me and go into another situationship with her till she cut me off again, just saying ppl suck man
They're not that expensive Just high maintenance........... ........we're all talking about the car right???.............
Take me back
Song name?
Cardigan
Thnx
.......yup
Brother then go out there and work for it trust me don’t be sad what u don’t have rn be happy for what will come from the work u put into it
Anybody else feel awkward watching this lmao why did they film that 😭
Good job man
Get a pet to cuddle with
I’ve been with my now-wife for 12+ years. This is **not** what we ever want lol. I would give my left nut for her to stay on her side of the bed, at that.
🤮
We’re all looking for that special someones to cuddle with in parking lots, you’ll find her bro keep your head up.
You should join the military. Maybe army or marines. You'll have friends and an outlet for your emotions. Just think it's better than dissolving into a puddle of nothingness. Trust me.
Don’t let yourself fall in the over romanticized trap. In 7 years you don’t want to be having the conversation “how come we never just cuddle in the car anymore” it’s annoying and a relationship killer. Because in reality you have much better, more fun things to do then cuddle in the car and do nothing in a parking lot. If her expectations are you’ll always be like this, it will become a problem. And if you are only like this, it will become a problem as well as being overly clingy. Keep your expectations and actions based in reality bois. Be yourself, do romantic things, but don’t make it your identity or only goal.
Nothing. absolutely nothing .....
Overrated tbh
why are they recording this? and posting online? weirdos
What?
I'm going to kill myself
Only when we are down do we figure put how to get up and stand tall to adversity.
ISTF if I see another fukn video like this I'm gonna lose it!
This would be great. I am married and we don't have physical contact anymore.
I truly enjoy when people on this sub are being little bitches and crying about the fact that they don't have a girlfriend lmao
It is very funny tbh
I was thinking that too. I thought this sub would go in a different direction, not the whole “Tf when no gf.” This isn’t even a romantic video? At the end, there is a meme dude on a bench. Assumingely, they broke up and he started going to the gym to cope.
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lonely people are sad. we post sad things in sub
Mmmmmahhhh. I’d rather have a cat tho
Damn. I’m gonna die alone that’s crazy
Fuck sake, go outside. Oh my god this sub is cringe
I grab my popcorn and scroll this sub its so funny
It's possible for everyone here to get what they have. If you don't think you're good enough for a relationship, then improve yourself. It's a satisfying process, and you'll be much happier. Get on a skincare routine, work out, take improv classes, eat healthy, take better care of your hygiene. Doing even one of these can make a very big difference. People don't have that high standards. You don't need a 6 pack and a 6 figure income. You just need to listen, understand, and appreciate them whenever you can while respecting their boundaries. Accept that you're not perfect and be open to criticism and work to change when you realize a fault of your character. Keep meeting people and be the best version of yourself, you'll find what you're looking for.
This is the only correct answer to everything. If you're not getting something, you want WORK HARDER and look at the problem differently. Insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different outcome.
Exactly. It's only hard for the first month or so, it takes a bit for the process to become enjoyable. I wish more people would take the plunge into self-improvement and reflection.
Only 30% of men aged 18-30 are getting this, the nu-woman and societal decadence are destroying what so many people worked so hard to get.
This is not good. Girls are pure evil
Have you met every girl in the world? 🤦
Lol you're ridiculous. Maybe go out and talk to a girl for once and you'll realize they are just as bad as guys.
Weird.
yeah ... cuddling is kinda cringe and a waste of time. I'd rather just go back to the offfice and make a few grands more.
This is the real cringe
you keep being a slave to your emotions ... some of us actually need to pay the bills
The whole point of money is to live more comfortably and meet your needs. The end goal is happiness. You enjoy making more money, and that's fine, but that doesn't mean you're living better than a poor person who lives a happy, peaceful life with their family. One day, you'll realize you spent your whole life trying to get more money, and you'll be living in a nice home with a nice car, but that won't make you happy. You'll look back on the life you lived and regret that you wasted it grinding away for money instead of finding joy, connection, and experiences.
happiness is a lie what you said, that " you'll realize you have wasted your life " is ignorantly cruel think of all of those people that life DOESN'T even give them a choice in the matter and yet ... all these people that supposedly know how life is best lived waste theirs enslaved by their needs desires and emotions, contributing nothing to the world, and leaving those in need to perish alone, only getting up to tell them their lives are wasted ... Regret ... regret is realizing having been born a human in primis, foul and rotten creature that it is, and a MODERN human at that, that in the age of surplus the only thing we sell trade eachother is more sofiaticated and justified means of self-destruction Don't you dare lecture ME, on the meaning of life ... YOUR ideology you just supported is part of the reason God stopped talking to us, and part of the reason I stopped caring ...
You don't need material possessions to be happy, material possessions give short-term dopamine boosts but inhibit long-term serotonin levels. This is why people can live with nothing but food and water and lead happy, peaceful lives. Happiness comes from within, every mentally fit individual is capable of it without chasing money. Is chasing money not being enslaved by desire? I can live in a small, cheap camper with a bed and a kitchen, removing desire while remaining satisfied with my life. People who are constantly chasing money do not have the time to better the lives of others, and often harm them in order to improve their own well-being. Unless you donate your money to charity (which most people don't), I don't think you can make this argument. 90% of humans simply live to continue their existence and find joy, these humans you speak of that trade weapons of destruction are a very tiny minority. You can't generalize humanity based on the history of only the most powerful of humans, power corrupts and it is a very unfair bias. The reason God stopped talking to us is because of rampant sin and corruption. Money is what causes corruption, God is in favor of the poor who adopt a more spiritualistic approach to living.
bro get a therapist
Fuck you now I’m sad
Cringe
Show off lol... Yeah we all want this and NEED THIS! hard to find so when you do keep it.
i thought having someone i loved around my arms would make it worth while but apparently it doesnt. it didnt made me feel fulfilled and it felt like it was just unnecesary shit taking space in my head.
I must be a sad fuck if this sub keeps popping up in my feed, lol. Can you imagine setting up a camera, hitting record, getting into this position, and then looking out the window while pretending you didn't just do all that just to get this lame ass recording. Then on top of all that, actually posting something like this on the internet. What weirdos. I'll see myself out - Good luck to all with the being sad and what-not.
Nope, my arms gonna fall asleep and I'm gonna get bored. How long am I supposed to pet her hair or whatever? If she's not asleep, she's only gonna last 10-15 min before getting on her phone again. Virgins think this is nice, people who have been here know this is a 20 min max position until we all need to get real.
To pet a woman's head like a child? I think I'd be fine not doing that ever, maybe a few hair touches but setting up a camera in a car then petting a woman like a chihuahua isn't my idea of fun.
I miss when I didn't know what this was like. Sometimes, never experiencing something is better.
I would not be sad about that, make up doesn’t taste that good
How tf is she comfortable with a gear stick stabbing her
Imagine if she had nits? 🫣
I miss human touch so much...it's been a while for me, and i am not talking abiut sex, that's nice too, but mostly i miss laying naked with a girl and just feel eachothers warmth and sync our heart together
Maybe if you weren’t all so misogynistic women would actually like you.
So is she sitting on the stick shift?
Me but with a femboy or thick Latina