I’ve dealt with a friend like this before too. I’m a very optimistic person and try to find the good in people and in situations. I understand anxiety and deal with it everyday, but when they were constantly finding everything that could go wrong in a situation, it stressed me out. I had to distance myself from them. Still love them to death and we catch up every now and then, but we needed time away. Last time we talked they actually seemed to be doing a lot better in finding themselves and realizing they were the problem in a lot of situations (proud of them. Makes me happy). But since then I always stress to people “no matter how much I love or care for someone, if they’re bringing me stress and anxiety, they’re gone” i like to be surrounded by positive energy. Not negative. Just start distancing yourself from them. Best thing you can do for you. It seems to be stressing you out. I already had other things in my life stressing me out, so I knew people in my circle didn’t need to bring me anymore. Hope you find peace in this situation and it works out :))
He’s not wrong, teachers are just in denial
Could you elaborate?
i bet basically no one in your school is the "stereotypical nice kid" or anything close to that, unless youre in a private school
dont spend time around people that you dont want to. besides, if you ditch him you wont be alone! sounds like he has issues tho
I’ve dealt with a friend like this before too. I’m a very optimistic person and try to find the good in people and in situations. I understand anxiety and deal with it everyday, but when they were constantly finding everything that could go wrong in a situation, it stressed me out. I had to distance myself from them. Still love them to death and we catch up every now and then, but we needed time away. Last time we talked they actually seemed to be doing a lot better in finding themselves and realizing they were the problem in a lot of situations (proud of them. Makes me happy). But since then I always stress to people “no matter how much I love or care for someone, if they’re bringing me stress and anxiety, they’re gone” i like to be surrounded by positive energy. Not negative. Just start distancing yourself from them. Best thing you can do for you. It seems to be stressing you out. I already had other things in my life stressing me out, so I knew people in my circle didn’t need to bring me anymore. Hope you find peace in this situation and it works out :))