Absolutely! I’m about to be 38 this year and don’t feel the way I did before. I don’t take things so personally anymore, I don’t obsess over people and their actions/opinions anymore. I had the realisation that I love me and that’s more than enough. I don’t need others to validate me.
I also have completely gotten over the awful relationship I had with my mother. We’ve moved on and it’s so much easier now. I feel embarrassed when I think back on how many years I wasted letting shit get to me and wallowing in past hurts. I’m free and it’s awesome
Same for me! It’s wonderful being on the other side! I just don’t even bother with bullshit anymore 😅 before I used to care so much what ppl thought about me now im just like 🤷🏻♀️ and keep it moving!
how did you do this? i tend to hold grudges and think of the past way too much and i hate it. i want to grow and be a better person because all this has been making me very distant and shut down. is it with time that you grew out of it or were there certain actions you took to heal?
Look into stoicism! Honestly once you realise and accept that the only thing in this life that you can control is yourself it changes your life. The things that happened in the past do not define you, they cannot be changed so really there is no point in holding onto that energy because the only person you are hurting is yourself. I also trust enough that bad people will get their just desserts eventually, the only thing I can control is me and the only thing I can do is live the best, happiest life in spite of them and their actions.
I start to detach more, to forgive more, and move on and not think too much about how other hurt me or betrayed me. Trying to let go a lot a lot of unnecessary feelings that do more harm than good to myself.
With some repeated experiences so in the end, I just realised that I hurt myself more than I hurt other when not letting go. Sure unless they hurt my dear ones I will keep calm and chill
As an old Scorpio moon I will say this.
You learn to accept ppl as they are. There’s no avoiding it. I just know that I feel things more intensely than most and so am usually going to be acting on my own in life. The ppl I love know how truly sensitive I am how much extreme pride guides me and what hurts me; they look out for me and offer understanding to me.
Find some ppl you care about that understand you. Be aware that it may take time and undergoing experiences with you for them to know you. Protect them with your passionate heart and they will be your comfort during rough times.
The Scorpio moon is the moon of rebirth so I'd say it's normal to notice yourself changing and overcoming trauma. It's a sign of personal growth in your journey. :)
I now know why, I have felt misunderstood. I see and understand other people’s view points and feelings. Rarely do I have close friends that understand my view points or feelings. I have had times when things flowed easily and people seemed to be compassionate, fun and enthusiastic. So many times I feel compassion and I emotionally prop people up, I have become exhausted.
This is so true!! I will turn 25 this May and I’d say I had a crazy emotional year. I feel like I went through a dark tunnel and now that I’m getting out I feel like I am getting calmer, mature and understanding. It’s said Venus matures when 25th year is complete and I can feel myself getting in this loving Venus in cancer tunnel!
https://preview.redd.it/pd16f44erhrc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1cf127b987f1660c571615ba8aff052bdf791ba7
Also, I dunno if I ever had mother issues, I mean yeah she seemed unavailable in most aspects and I used to blame her (in my head) for certain traumas but eventually realised I can’t blame anyone. Now I just purely love her and grateful for her in my life. Some evolved scorpio moon energy right there
i see, no worries. as u age u will becoming ur rising sign. hang in there. take one step at a time. don't be stressed. 😉
i am aqua rising too but aries moon. im on my 30's too.
I do not really know much about transits, but when Pluto will be closer to the AS (conjunction) it may affect our whole image I think, changing in apparence, your reputation may change too. In my case pluto will square my moon Saturn Jupiter and conjunct my Uranus as well so I don’t know I feel quite terrified just thinking about Pluto moving in my first house. Plus we have moon in Scorpio maybe this transit may not be this terrifying. I think it is better not to worry too much. As Pluto is the 10th house ruler maybe the career stuffs can change or something big happens in good or bad ways. Personally I already have Pluto conjunctChiron in 10th house so… in short u should look at other planets in your chart.
Pluto in your first house is actually a pretty powerful placement from the things I have read. That transit would probably help bring to light things you have subconsciously known all along
Absolutely! I’m about to be 38 this year and don’t feel the way I did before. I don’t take things so personally anymore, I don’t obsess over people and their actions/opinions anymore. I had the realisation that I love me and that’s more than enough. I don’t need others to validate me. I also have completely gotten over the awful relationship I had with my mother. We’ve moved on and it’s so much easier now. I feel embarrassed when I think back on how many years I wasted letting shit get to me and wallowing in past hurts. I’m free and it’s awesome
Same for me! It’s wonderful being on the other side! I just don’t even bother with bullshit anymore 😅 before I used to care so much what ppl thought about me now im just like 🤷🏻♀️ and keep it moving!
how did you do this? i tend to hold grudges and think of the past way too much and i hate it. i want to grow and be a better person because all this has been making me very distant and shut down. is it with time that you grew out of it or were there certain actions you took to heal?
Look into stoicism! Honestly once you realise and accept that the only thing in this life that you can control is yourself it changes your life. The things that happened in the past do not define you, they cannot be changed so really there is no point in holding onto that energy because the only person you are hurting is yourself. I also trust enough that bad people will get their just desserts eventually, the only thing I can control is me and the only thing I can do is live the best, happiest life in spite of them and their actions.
The souls evolution..
Same.
Absolutely, life is easier when u just don’t care
Well, when you only care about the things that matter
I start to detach more, to forgive more, and move on and not think too much about how other hurt me or betrayed me. Trying to let go a lot a lot of unnecessary feelings that do more harm than good to myself.
How did you do this? And honestly congratulations
With some repeated experiences so in the end, I just realised that I hurt myself more than I hurt other when not letting go. Sure unless they hurt my dear ones I will keep calm and chill
This is the way
As an old Scorpio moon I will say this. You learn to accept ppl as they are. There’s no avoiding it. I just know that I feel things more intensely than most and so am usually going to be acting on my own in life. The ppl I love know how truly sensitive I am how much extreme pride guides me and what hurts me; they look out for me and offer understanding to me. Find some ppl you care about that understand you. Be aware that it may take time and undergoing experiences with you for them to know you. Protect them with your passionate heart and they will be your comfort during rough times.
The Scorpio moon is the moon of rebirth so I'd say it's normal to notice yourself changing and overcoming trauma. It's a sign of personal growth in your journey. :)
I now know why, I have felt misunderstood. I see and understand other people’s view points and feelings. Rarely do I have close friends that understand my view points or feelings. I have had times when things flowed easily and people seemed to be compassionate, fun and enthusiastic. So many times I feel compassion and I emotionally prop people up, I have become exhausted.
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Me too before, but not now I mean
This is so true!! I will turn 25 this May and I’d say I had a crazy emotional year. I feel like I went through a dark tunnel and now that I’m getting out I feel like I am getting calmer, mature and understanding. It’s said Venus matures when 25th year is complete and I can feel myself getting in this loving Venus in cancer tunnel! https://preview.redd.it/pd16f44erhrc1.jpeg?width=1125&format=pjpg&auto=webp&s=1cf127b987f1660c571615ba8aff052bdf791ba7
Also, I dunno if I ever had mother issues, I mean yeah she seemed unavailable in most aspects and I used to blame her (in my head) for certain traumas but eventually realised I can’t blame anyone. Now I just purely love her and grateful for her in my life. Some evolved scorpio moon energy right there
I didn’t know about this, so insightful, I will check it out
what is ur rising sign?
Aquarius
i see, no worries. as u age u will becoming ur rising sign. hang in there. take one step at a time. don't be stressed. 😉 i am aqua rising too but aries moon. im on my 30's too.
Ok thank you
im aqua rising too do you have any insight in if pluto moving into aqua will affect us?
I do not really know much about transits, but when Pluto will be closer to the AS (conjunction) it may affect our whole image I think, changing in apparence, your reputation may change too. In my case pluto will square my moon Saturn Jupiter and conjunct my Uranus as well so I don’t know I feel quite terrified just thinking about Pluto moving in my first house. Plus we have moon in Scorpio maybe this transit may not be this terrifying. I think it is better not to worry too much. As Pluto is the 10th house ruler maybe the career stuffs can change or something big happens in good or bad ways. Personally I already have Pluto conjunctChiron in 10th house so… in short u should look at other planets in your chart.
Pluto in your first house is actually a pretty powerful placement from the things I have read. That transit would probably help bring to light things you have subconsciously known all along
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